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mad+sad=derpressed
13/f
okay so 3 people r in my problem.
me,w, and c
k.
me and w go to the same school but dont have n e classes together. last year she was new, i was her first friend. i only c her in the halls.
last year we were best friends this year we r struggling. me and c have always been good friends but not best friends. all of a sudden w and c start being best friends. then we all 3 r best friends. c doesn't go to our school n e more.
but lately w and c have been hanging out with each other a lot.
some times with me, mostly not.
yesterday i saw w in the hall way and asked her if she wanted to do sumthing tonight/weekend.
she said idk.
she said she would call me.
she didn't call.
i had to call her.
she still didn't know.
i asked her she had talked to c and she said yes, i said well what happened. she said that c was gonna spend the night. [now she didn't even ask if i cud come over]]
i asked if i cud come over and she said she didn\'t want me to.
she just came out and said it just like that.
is it just me or is that really mean??
she made me cry for 20 minutes which resulted to a few scratches on my arms.
(dont educate me on that^)
i mean i asked her first if she wanted to hang this weekend! not c!
i really need help cuz im bawling.
kthanksbye.
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Okay,
this is nothing to freak out about, take a deep breath (RIGHT NOW).........
Okay, now listen to me, when your freinds dont want to hang with you its not the end of the world, yes that was exremely mean what she said, but atleast she was being honest dude!
I mean, i would cry to, but of you guys dont hang out as much as a group anymore maybe they just wanted the two of them. Your probably considered their tag along (not an insult, because you probaly have a life).
But i would talk to them and ask them why they didnt want you, they camer up and said they didnt want you to come, now you be straight up and ask them!
I was sort of stuck in the same sitch when id call my neighbors when i was like 9 and id be like "wanna play?!" and they'd say "No i dont feel like it"....the truth...but mean!
Haha, so if you want this to work out.....DONT STRESS! stop cutting yourself it will only lead to more stress, and i think honestly your over reacting! Its only a sleepover!
why dont you try getting closer with them, and if they still treat you the same, ask me another question!
Im here for you, understand you and am on your side
XOXOX
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forget them two and move on make new friends.
p.s it will probaly make them jealous
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she isn't a good friend. she mightve used you since she was new to the school at first. and she moved on. so, give her and the other girl some time, and make new and better friends. hope i helped
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