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hi, im nicki n im 15. i used 2 be registered as angel05, but i changed it lol. anyways, things im into urm.....rugby, lads, shopping (like every over girl!!), going out with my mates and music, things like usher, britney, twista, greenday, killers (some songs)and destinys child.
i love to give advice to people and im always online so if you leave me a question i will reply asap!!
love ya all
♥ nicki xx
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ok..here it goes.

my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and 3 months...and dont get me wrong he is amazing and sweet and everything. but lately ive noticed that im looking at other guys more. like thinking they are cute or checking them out or whatever i never make a move on them tho. is this a sign that im losing interest or what??

im 13/f

hi. i dont mean 2 be mean here, but your 13 and uve had a bf 4 over a year! corse its alryt to be looking at other guys, your young!!!

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Hi,
I have a problem with this guy i like. i don't know if he likes me but my friend told him i like him. i never said anything. i did find out that they do im each other and talk about me. she said he will ask me out but i don't know. then he finally asked me out. i said yes. the next day i found him making out with my sister. i walked over to him and i said excuse me? then he ran away. we havn't spoken for 3 days. what should i do? i am 15 and a female. please help me.

i no this may sound stupid but he might have only gone out wif you cos he liked your sis and that he could see her more!
luv nicki xxx ♥

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i know the law of the difference of age in dating is but morally what should be the biggest gapin age of a relationship--a serious one

hi
if ya truly love someone, it doesnt matter what the age gap is.
luv nickixxxxxx ♥
ps please rate!!

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Okay, well i started dating this gurl about 2 weeks ago and she is my 1st gurlfriend. We were at her house and she wanted to make out but i have never done it before and hse has amny times before. I did it anyways but then she kept on wanting to make out and i just went with it but i didnt "feel" anyhthing. I dont know if I just have to get used to it or i just dont like her anymore.... but today i took her to my aunts house for a graduation party for my cousin and i didnt feel comfortable around her AT ALL and i kinda avioded her and didnt talk much to her and i think she notcied i was acting strange but i dont know weather i should break up with her or not..... and now i get these stomach aches when ever i think about us making out and it makes me "sick" kinda and i dont want to hang out with her that much anymore cause i think all she wants to do is make out and I dont want to btu its hard to avoid her much cause we talk on the phone every night(since we were realyl good friends before the dating) and i ahve a lot of calsses with her and now our graduation dance is coming up and i dont really want to dance with her anymore..... what shoudl i do cause i dont want ot break up with her reight before the dance....=( ill feel too bad

tell her that there is more things in a relationship than making out. tell her all the fun things you could do.
hope i helped luv nicki xxxxx ♥

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Alrighty. I like a guy named Dylan. He's not cute. I don't know him. Yet, I still like him. I can't sleep at night because of him, and I feel it isn't fair. I want to do something about it. I want to ask him out. But I have never asked anyone out yet or had a boyfriend, but I think I am now ready and mature enough. My best friend told him that I liked him, and he replied, "I know." Now what? I mean, I want to get to know him, but we are both shy people. How do I get to know him? Then, how do I ask him out? What do I do?

if he knowz that you like him then ask him out girl! go 4 it and if it dont work then you've always got other people aint ya?!
luv nicki xxxx

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ive known kev since elementrty school and now we are in 10th grade and we started hooking up in january and we could talk about anything and he was the first guy ive ever been with and sexualy active with and he agreed to take it slow. but now he just thinks that because i love him im willing to do stuff all the time. i know this is gunna sound wrong but you need to help me with sumthin other then breakin up, i lovee him. well a few weeks ago his parents went away for the whole weekend, so i went over friday and i was gunna go home at 1 am (my parents were ok with it) and we were hookin up and did more than usualy, but in his bed and he ate me out , when i was gunna leave he told me no and held my hands on my bed and told me to tell my mom i was stayin at my friends, so i did (he looked angry and got mad when i was gunna) so i gave him head and everything that night and he was saying her loved me and stuff and wouldnt really let me go. the weekend after his friend georgie drove us around with his gf and they went in burger king to eat but we stayed in the car and we were kissing and he pushed my head to give him head but i was like isnt this weird and he said just do it, its not a big deal and i kind of cried doin it and he felt bad so he walked me home and held me close the whole time and kissed my forhead..now yesterday we went to his friends hotel party and we could stay there cuz everyone left and he kind of embarrsed me by sayin i give the best head and stuff.. but we had to sleep on the floor and the whole time he kept his hand on my ass or down my pants.. but today he was fine and we just madeout and stuff.. wut shood i say

tell him to take it slow.....HE SAID IT HIMSELF.
lu nicki xxxxx

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hello im a 13 year old girl and my boyfriend is 15 and a half well ill be 14 soon but any ways.. he wants to have kids i want to but i still think im too young if i wasnt in school then i think im for it b ut i dont know i need some advice.

your far too young, try talking to him and say that you want kids but later on in life cuz its a big responsibility
luv nicki xx

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OK, well, my BEST friend has a boy friend and I am absolutley in LOVE w/ this boy. PLUS, my bf, doesn't at all treat him good at all. She doesn't talk to him, whenever he looks or goes to hug her she is just like "GO AWAY" or "DON'T LOOK AT ME"
But, we flirt a lot, and she doesn't care, but I don't want to ruin their relationship if he starts to like me. TO TOP IT OFF: my OTHER best friend just admited to me that she has liked him for a long time. And I know he likes me, even a little bit
WHAT CAN I DO TO GET THE GUY, BUT KEEP THE FRIENDS?!
*STRESED AND CONFUSED*

if she dont care about u likeing him then you have a chance so get the opportunity and GO 4 IT!!
luv nicki xxxx

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I've liked this guy for over a year now, and he's had mutiple girlfriends. I'm really shy and haven't asked him out yet, nor plan on ever asking him out. He knows I like him, but prefers to reacll to us as "just friends" I don't know what to do.

if you want to keep it as friends then just do that. and if he feels the same then thats great!!
luv nicki xxxx

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okay well there is this guy that has liked me all year long and he tells me all the time that he always thinks about me and he dreams about me and it really didnt bug me because i just ignored him when he told me stuff like that. But then all of the sudden he put something in his xanga that scared me and has haunted me ever since. It said that he would take a bullet for me thats how bad he wants me. And i have been scared that he will do anything just to get me. I dont know if i should talk to the police or a counselor but if someone could please help. He stalks me all the time and he knows everything about me like where i live, what my mom's car looks like and the sticker on the back of the car. To me that is very scary. If someone could please help i am afraid for my life here... i feel like one day he will bring a gun to school and shoot me thats how bad he really wants me and if i say no to him then that makes him really mad. Please help ASAP! ITS URGENT!
thank you

i think you should tell someone b/c if not it will get worse and you might get scared even more
luv nicki xxxx ♥

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ok so my boyfriend and me have been going out for about a month and a half or so.. he goes to a different school and hes 16, im 13.. i loved him sooo much! last night i was talking to him online and i asked if he was gonna come and meet me at the ice skating rink (where i always meet him) and he said "maybe, i might go to the mall with some friends instead but if we dont go then ill come see you." i felt kind of offended by this that he wanted to go see his friends instead of me. i can only see him on friday nights so if he didnt come i wouldnt see him till next friday (if he decided to come) and so i was like oh, alright i guess. then later that night i was talking to one of his friends... (not a very good friend tho) i only met him last weekend when my boyfriend wasnt at the ice skating rink... we talked for like 5 minutes... then when we were talking online last night he asked if i was goin ice skating.. i said probably not, he asked why and i told him about me being kinda mad about john not going. so then i ask what jake has said about me to him. chris, (the guy im talkin to online) says he wont tell me what john said about me because he doesnt want to hurt me. i finally get him to tell me what jake does on the nights when he doesnt go to the rink with me. he tells me that john has been seeing another girl and goes to hook up with her and only comes and sees me if shes not availiable. im so upset when i hear this... but i think his friend likes me so i dont know if hes telling the truth... but john never tells me where he goes when he doesnt come.. it all makes sence... both stories do... i dont know what to do...

if hes seeing another gurl then dump him
luv nicki xxx ♥

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Ok well i like this boy who i have gone out w/ before and we were like Brother and sister before we went out!! i still like him !! but now hes going out w/ some other girl and he is barly talkn to me online!! how do i get him to talk to me and how do i get him to no i still like him??

back off him a little and then after a few months try talking to him again or let him start talking 2 you again.
luv nicki xxxxx ♥

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ok im the girl who asked this ? ok me and my bf just broke up last night ok and it was all becuz i told him the truth about something i told him that i was starting to have feelings for someone else and i mean i hadn't cheated on him or anything me and the other guy just talk alot and i think im starting to have feelings for him and my ex was asking me what was wrong and i told him and i told him becuz i felt like i was lying to him and i didn't want to feel that way ne more and now he thinks im imature and sex hungry for some reason which im not i not stupid and i don't plan on doing any of that kind of crap any time soon just cuz the fact my parents would kill me and cuz im to young......so really who's being the imature one here me or him??? and should i have told him?? i mean was it a stupid mistake telling him or did i do the right thing???
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ok now heres the thing i just found out from one of my bestest friends in the world i mean she wouldn't lie to me about anything ok that my ex made out with this chick on a chorus trip and it was in florida when it happened and what not but when i confronted him about it he says what happens somewhere else stays there im just wonder if thats RIGHT in any kind of way.......becuz he made me feel guilty for just talking to another guy and he effin made out with another chick so do you think thats right........

you did the right thing. hes the immature one.
a relationship you should tell the truth and he didnt so good on ya girl!
luv nicki xxxx ♥

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ok im 14 1/2 ok and theres this awesome guy at my school and i mean i like him and i think he likes me i mean he goes to church and everything job but the thing is he's 17 and ive heard rumors saying that guys make bets and crap on the freshmen to see how fast they can get into there pants i mean im not going to do anything like that but i don't want to be apart of a cruel joke so should i take the chance and go out with him or no..................

i think you should go out with him. it dont matter what the age difference is, its whether you love your partner or not.
luv nicki xxx ♥

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im almost 14 and i still havent been kissed or had a boyfriend is that normal??? I feel like im abnormalk or something...

yes it is normal, you will find a special guy in your life when the time comes!
luv nicki xxxxx ♥

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13/f
Ok well I was talking on the phone to my bf last night, and I was on the internet. There was a banner-ads at the top of the page, and because I was bored I read it to him. It said "find out how well you kiss by taking this quiz". And he asked me what I was reading, and I told him it was a banner-ad thing. He then replied "I wonder how well I can kiss". I then just said "um, ok".

My question is- do you think he wants to kiss me? I want to kiss him, but I don't know if the feeling is mutual! We are going on a date tonight, and I want to know if he might kiss me.
Thanks I RATE 5's!!

i think if he said that then he will kiss you, if you didnt read it out to him in the first place then he wouldnt have said this.
luv nicki xxxxx ♥

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I've known this guy since like 2nd grade. He and I have been boyfriend and girlfriend off and on for about 2 years. He and i usually hook up most during the summer and not much during the school year. My friends say that we sould either stay friends or boyfriend and girlfriend. I don't really know which one i should choose. i really like him saome days and don't really talk to him others. should we be boyfriend and girlfriend or stayt friends? thanx

hi
i think you should stay friends, and see what develops (if ya no what i mean)
luv nicki xxxxx ♥

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13/F

I'm in a relationship right now... and we're both kind of expecting our first kiss together, and, well, I need advice! I don't know what to do or anything! and it's driving me nuts!

jus go with the flow
luv nicki xxxx ♥

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There's this kid, Sam* and he was dumped by my best friend, Katie* in February.. Sam is the nicest kid you will ever meet..and Katie I think is just boy crazy. Well anyway, Sam and Katie went out for over 2 years on and off. Sam lives about 2 hours away though. Well this real jerk starting going out with Katie and she doesnt like him and is actually kind of attached to Sam still..but Katie wants him to dump her, because she doesnt have the heart to dump him..so my job is to try to make him break up with her..and its all confusing..but any suggestions?

Sorry Its long

i no this might be a stupid idea but try and say to this 'jerk' that your friend Katie has been cheating on him or something
luv nicki xxxx ♥

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Hey guys, I've been single for a really long time now and I really want a boyfriend. I'm 14/f, and I feel like I'll never get a boyfriend again. I still feel really bad from my last relationship. I have no guys to talk to or anything. When I go places, I hate seeing people with their boyfriend or girlfriend and having a good time, or even Valentines Day and Sweetest Day. How do i meet guys? I used to always go to the mall and the movies, and I liked people there but I'm really shy. It's hard to just go up to people and say something. How can I get some guy friends atleast, so I have someone to talk to? Thank you so much to anyone who answers! I'm so sorry this was long.

hi. dont worry if you havent got a boyfriend, cos ive not got one yet and im 15, so dont worry. i hate seeing people with there bf/gf and it makes me jealous too.
try and talk to guys and flirt a little with them.
luv nicki xxxx ♥

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