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Alrighty. I like a guy named Dylan. He's not cute. I don't know him. Yet, I still like him. I can't sleep at night because of him, and I feel it isn't fair. I want to do something about it. I want to ask him out. But I have never asked anyone out yet or had a boyfriend, but I think I am now ready and mature enough. My best friend told him that I liked him, and he replied, "I know." Now what? I mean, I want to get to know him, but we are both shy people. How do I get to know him? Then, how do I ask him out? What do I do?
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First of all, never ever ask out a boy, you should wait for him to ask you out. I mean talk to him because how is he going to know you like him. I'm sure he going yo ask you when the time is right and when he does it's going to the best day of your life, TRUST ME!!
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Taniqua's-teen-advice
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ask him out you can't lose anything! if your really scared get talking to him find his real personality, if he mentions you liking him then say well how do you feel about me, if he's confident then he'll give you a straight answer.. go for it!! GOOD LUCK !!
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if he knowz that you like him then ask him out girl! go 4 it and if it dont work then you've always got other people aint ya?!
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Just invite him out. Not on a date just as friends to see where it goes from there.
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Does he have AIM or an EMAIL ? well those are ways .. i meet lots of people and NO dont get me wrong i dont go in chats and then go meet them i would never do that but say i dont know this kid and he goes to my school he could say oay im Tall and i have blond hair wll this really happened and to tell you the truth we are best friends now ! try to talk to him and just be yourself ! good luck !!
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well if i were you i would wait and get to know him... that way you know exactly what to do... myabe at lunch go and sit next to him... or if you see him before school go up to him and ask him how is weekend was.. or after school ask him how his day was...or ask him or one of his friends for his s/n that way you can talk to him without looking at him if you are shy... you should wait till you get to know them before you decied you like someone... it is always easier to have a relationship with a friend than with somone that you have just met... also, girl it is his job to ask you out, you really should just flirt and make conversation then when he is ready he will ask you out... i would just to know him and just make surte that he likes you the way that you like him...
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Trust me, if anything, being a girl and all... You have far more of an advantage than he does in getting a partner on his own. First, consider these things:
1) Have you ever talked to him
definitely try and do these, things, a little hi, maybe asking for a pencil in class, or paper... Then drop little questions, and move upwards, its not easy, but it brings some small connection and makes it easier to pop the big question.
2) Does he seem like the kind of guy who just dates people?
Many people will consider it shallow to just fantsize about your dream boy and want to go out with him. Is this guy one of those people? Does he look like the kind of guy who is going to go out with another girl just like that?
Relationships that begin with crushes are usually very unstable and collapse fast, if you get into his personality, truely like it, and find that he is a good person inside, maybe you should just go for it. But if you find yourself hooking up just because you want to, you should think twice.
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Maybe he's just waiting for you to act on the basis that you like him. The way I see it, he knew that you like him and you describe him above as shy so I think he's really waiting for you to do something. Since he knew already that you like him, why not talk to him and befriend him. That might be the start of your relationship.
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You should start off by talking to him like you would any of your normal friends. Don't bother planning on how you're going to ask him out until you get to know him better- besides, that's his job. If you can't even talk to him, I don't see how you're going to be able to date him. I also advise you to find out whether he even likes you back? Otherwise it might be a lost cause.
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