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how old is TOO old
ok im 14 1/2 ok and theres this awesome guy at my school and i mean i like him and i think he likes me i mean he goes to church and everything job but the thing is he's 17 and ive heard rumors saying that guys make bets and crap on the freshmen to see how fast they can get into there pants i mean im not going to do anything like that but i don't want to be apart of a cruel joke so should i take the chance and go out with him or no..................
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Okay .. if you really feel that he would'nt hurt you and he really does like you and hes not messing with you then have something with him and if he still trys to get in your pants just tell him no and if he dont respect your discission then hes not worth it and hes just like every other prick .. its happend to me before and it sucks but not every older guy is like that so give it a try
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Well, that happened to me. A 17 year old liked me when I was 14 1/2. Coincidence. But yeah I gave him a chance ya know? Because I was really good friends with him before we went out, and I knew him and knew he wasn't the type of guy that just wanted to get some..
But yeah in the end I found out there really was no chemistry and it was kind of awkward because we were friends before that, and because he had other responsiblities because he was older..so I broke it off.
But if you end up dating him, start by going on group dates and stuff like that, that way you can get to know him and feel comfortable being around him, so you know what kind of guy he truly is..
Take care of yourself --
`jeSsie =]
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well if he has a bet and you go out with him, and he tries to get in your pants then that might be a clue it is a bet...so to find out really go out with him and if you figure it is a bet then make him lose by denying him into your pants when he tries!
hope i helped
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First of all, that age difference is not really that far apart, but it might be far apart to make your parents uncomfortable. I noticed also that you have only said that <b>you like him</b>. Not once did you mention whether or not either one of you have had a conversation or formed a friendship with each other. It is all fine and dandy if you want to take a chance and go out with him, but has he shown any interest towards you to suggest that he is mutually interested? Be a friend to him first, and get to know his personality. It is always better to start out as friends.
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Well, if hes a true christian, then he wont do something like that. He will want to save sex until marriage. If he acts like he wants to get into your pants, then hes obviously not the right person for you if thats all he wants to do and probably a true christian. But about the age, theres a possibility that it may cause trouble from his parents, but age is just a number, just as long as you really like/love the person, you know. Hope I helped! Get back to me and tell me how everything goes if you can. Love, shorty8706
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If he's just using you for sex, you'll probably be able to tell. I can't explain how, but trust your gut. Guys who are jerks will tell you they are jerks--you just have to listen. Just don't give yourself up to him. No guy is worth that. Kick him in the balls, literally and figuratively, and show him that you are in charge of your own body. But go on a date with him and have fun! Just remember that he has to ask permission before he puts his hand up your skirt!
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i think you should go out with him. it dont matter what the age difference is, its whether you love your partner or not.
luv nicki xxx ♥
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It's not a good idea. When you are in your twenties, two and a half years will not be such a big differance, but right now, it's a huge differance. A 17 year old guy is going to expect you to do stuff with him that a 17 year old girl would do with him. You are not on his maturity level, your a Freshmen, he is a Junior. I know that freshmen boys are so not as hot, or cute, or smart, or charming as a Junior boys could ever be, but right now, they are safest. It would be very unfortunate to do something that you did not want to do with a boy because you felt pressured. Freshmens and Sophmores are the best for right now. The safest. I hope you take my advice and don't get involved with this boy. I hope I don't sound like your mother, because Im not trying to, Im a freshmen also.
<3 nikki
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You can go out with him, but that's no reason to sleep with him.
It is a big decision to sleep with someone and should only be with someone who really cares about you/loves you. If you feel that you might be taken advantage of make sure that you go somewhere public, tell your parents where you are, when you'll be back etc. Get him to pick you up from home?
If this guy is soooo great he will respect you and take time to get to know you first.
14 1/2 is very young to even be thinking about sex, I waited until it was legal and I was with a guy who really loved me. I didn't sleep with him for six months, just kissed and stuff and I think that it was the best decision I ever made, because when we did make love it was REALLY special, like it should be.
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