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should i have told him!!!! the same girl
ok im the girl who asked this ? ok me and my bf just broke up last night ok and it was all becuz i told him the truth about something i told him that i was starting to have feelings for someone else and i mean i hadn't cheated on him or anything me and the other guy just talk alot and i think im starting to have feelings for him and my ex was asking me what was wrong and i told him and i told him becuz i felt like i was lying to him and i didn't want to feel that way ne more and now he thinks im imature and sex hungry for some reason which im not i not stupid and i don't plan on doing any of that kind of crap any time soon just cuz the fact my parents would kill me and cuz im to young......so really who's being the imature one here me or him??? and should i have told him?? i mean was it a stupid mistake telling him or did i do the right thing???
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ok now heres the thing i just found out from one of my bestest friends in the world i mean she wouldn't lie to me about anything ok that my ex made out with this chick on a chorus trip and it was in florida when it happened and what not but when i confronted him about it he says what happens somewhere else stays there im just wonder if thats RIGHT in any kind of way.......becuz he made me feel guilty for just talking to another guy and he effin made out with another chick so do you think thats right........
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yes you should have told him cuz appearently you can't go out with 1 guy then like another(and its not immature) he is the immature one...if he was responsible he wouldnt have cheated on you! kik 'em were it hurts!
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I think you are <b>very much so</b> the <b>mature</b> one in this situation. You told your ex how you felt. You were both <b>truthful</b> and <b>honest</b> about how you felt because you didn't want to feel as if you were hiding something behind his back. You spoke up for yourself, even when you knew there could have been consequences, and I applaud you for that. There is nothing wrong with having the feeling of like towards another boy. That will happen throughout your lifetime, even when you are older and married. (Trust me, I know because I am both older and married.) Your ex is hurt by what you told him, and therefor, he is trying to make you feel just as hurt as him. The rumor about your boyfriend could or couldn't be true. But he's not going to tell you the truth right now. He is <b>WRONG</b> when he says what happens somewhere else stays there. If that is the case, then he is saying that he could cheat on you with another girl somewhere else and not even feel bad about it because it was somewhere else. I think it is best that you and him stay broken up. Someone who thinks like that can't be trusted in a relationship.
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you did the right thing. hes the immature one.
a relationship you should tell the truth and he didnt so good on ya girl!
luv nicki xxxx ♥
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You did the right thing, he is totally immature and out of order.
Quite often when someone is in the wrong they become very defensive because they can't take responsibility for what they've done and try and turn the blame on to someone else, in this case you.
Being honest is always the best policy, well done.
You are worth more and he has lots more growing up to do. Keep your standards high and keep telling the truth.
I'm also proud of you for recognising that sex is a big thing and should only take place when you feel ready.
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This guy is a big jerk, he made you feel guilty forv talking to another guy, then when he finds out that you know he made out with a girl in another state, he comes up with the excuse, "What happens somewhere else stays somewhere else." Bull crap, this is your business too, especially if you guys are involved 'guilt tripping' each other. But you need to tell him to get a life, and go on with yours because he has nothing better to do than be a big jerk to you.
-TheTeenGirl
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