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I've known this guy since like 2nd grade. He and I have been boyfriend and girlfriend off and on for about 2 years. He and i usually hook up most during the summer and not much during the school year. My friends say that we sould either stay friends or boyfriend and girlfriend. I don't really know which one i should choose. i really like him saome days and don't really talk to him others. should we be boyfriend and girlfriend or stayt friends? thanx
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stay friends until you both decide that you want to go out. xO ali
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dont listen to your friends, you dont have to stay either a boyfriend/girlfriend or just friends..you can have an on-and-off relationship..i mean hell if its worked since 2nd grade, then maybe there's a reason its been working..maybe when your older you can get serious about things..who knows..
-Christine
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have the best of both i mean why are other peoples opinions important to you only your opinion should matter if you are happy with the way it is then leave it to work itself out i wish you good luck with your problem and plz rate me thanks,
AskNick
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i think you should stay friends........b/c a good friendship like that...u want it to last!! a relationship may not work out and then things may never be the same again! but u may find that u two need to be together! sorry it confuses me too!
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I think you should just stay friends because its going to get confusing if you keep going out on and off! mabe you could find a real boyfriend who you wont go out with on and of!
luv roxie
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hi
i think you should stay friends, and see what develops (if ya no what i mean)
luv nicki xxxxx ♥
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i think ur friend is jealous and i think you guys should keep doing what your doing because cloosing could ruin things for you guys
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You do what you want to do.Your friends mean well but your the one that has to live your life. Seems like you have a good thing no matter how you handle it.You can be friends now and change your mind later if you want to.Follow your heart on this one.
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I think both of you should be retards. Dont even talk to each other. Its not a healthy relationship.
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Keep on going with the on and off thing. Don't feel like you have to listen to your friends about this. If you don't want to be with him for a serious thing, then don't do it. But if you feel more friendly, then just be friends. But if you're caught in the middle, then do exactly what you're doing!
♥ Always,
Maria
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Well, if your happy with occasionally being his girlfriend, and he's happy occasionally being your boyfriend, why change things?
If someone's not happy, or if it puts stress on your friendship, then yeah, there's a problem. But if the only problem is that your friends think it's weird, inform them that your both happy with the situation, and since it's not broke, there's no reason to fix it! As far as I know, there are no cloned people running around yet. So what works for some people isn't going to work for everyone. If it works for you, don't mess with a good thing.
Generally, I tend to go for staying friends over romance because it's usually easier to add romance to a relationship than to go back to being friends if the romance doesn't work out. You've known him a long time - as you get older, you realize how nice it is to have someone who's known you for ages.
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stay friends. don`t settle for the one you can live with.. wait for the one you can`t live without. ah, cliche`s.
x3 KaTiE LyNn
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Stay friends dont ruin your relationship as freinds if he askes yuou out just say yes.
Always there..
Donna
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