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okay here's my story..i had this realli mean ex b/f who treated me like crap! i cried n cried over him every single day we were dating and somewhat after we broke up! so one day i decided to stop all my crying and get even! he has this g/f that he never even met before! lol but he is always telling me and everyone how much he loves her! haha yea..anyways i got my friend who lives in texas to start talkin n messin around with my ex.. ( i told him that she was my homeschooled neighbor)---like she would say stuff like "ohh your realli sexi..i wanna be with you" and just completely act that way! and my ex was always telling me how he never cheated on me and how he never would cheat on anyone..blah blah blah! so basically i was also testing his skills to see if he is a player! well guess what i found out..he is! he was telling my friend how much he likes her and wants to hang out with her and all that crap! and i have everything saved! so yes he does cheat! and he was also telling my friend that he doesnt have a g/f! what a loser! so anyways..he unblocked me from the computer and writing to me ever since i hooked him up! so we were getting along perfectly..then my friend told him that it was just a joke..she wasn't my neighbor..and everything..and now he's soo ticked it isn't even funny! haha i told him off majorly tho yesterday! but anyways..what should i do?! should i apoligize?..but he's done soo much crap to me before and now i'm in counseling because of him! so i don't know what to do! please help! i will rate you!

I dont think that you should apoligize to him cause of all the crap he put you thro you shouldnt have had to take from him at all and now hes put you in counseling and all no i wouldnt tell him sorry alls you did was get even and yeah hes gonna be ticked but i mean its his own fault for treating you the way he did hope i helpd
-Cass-

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i was dating this guy for about 3 months and things got pretty serious. we spent every day together and he would stay and my house and vice versa. his ex girlfriend called one night and he broke up with me to see if things would work with her and they didnt. he called about a month after we broke up and said that he made a huge mistake for breaking up with me cause i was the best thing that had ever happened to him. we got back together and things were great, actually better than ever or so i thought. one day when she called again he started getting weird again and told me that he once again needed time. i took all of my stuff from his house and said that i wasnt playing second best anymore. i gave him all i had and thought that this was it. that he was the one. and unfortunately im a mess over him. i know he treats me horrible in this situation but ive never been so inlove with someone before. and i dont know what to do. someone just help. please.

Hun, I know that you're in love but sweetie this guy totatlly left you for his ex girlfriend to me shes the one playing games if they keep spliting up and everything to me i think that you need to just forget him yeah i know its hard, but at some point i know you realize this now but he treated you like shit and you know this with this whole thing and to me no girl deserves that if you need someone to talk to im here for ya my AIM-Untouched926 or just put on in the inbox i hope i kinda helpd
-Cass-

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You all have helped me with answerin my questions.. but this one is kinda difficult.. All your advice has helped alot.. but I can't picture myself with out my EX kevin.. But when I think about it i'd be better off with someone else.. Kevin is a great guy and I still love him so much.. he tells me all the time that he still loves me but I don't no if i can believe it! I don't know what to do.. I don't know if I should just forget about Kevin and move on or If I should give kevin anonther chance..

HELP ME PLEASE!

*~SO LOST AND CONFUSED~*

I think that you should give him another chance, i know that i gave my bf now another chance and we've been together for 4 years now i mean if you still have feelings for him and still love him i say go for it but only if you think its the right decision for you
hope i helped
-Cass-

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Ok..I like this kid jonathan..we went out but like practically just broke up.My friend likes him now and i know it but she wont tell me..she keeps beating around the bush!The thing is she starts to like everyboy i liked,matt,sayon,peter,the list goes on..but now its jonathan..im not letting her do it this time.but i dont know what to do should i stop being friends with her or just tell her to step off jonathan what should i do?!

U need to tell her to step bak and U need to confront her with what shes doing its like she doesnt want to see U happy or soemthing but you need to say something to her i think or just flat out dont be friends with her but tell her what shes doing wrong and all first!
-Cass-

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okay, i am a 17 yr old girl, and the guy i am crazy for is 18, only like 3 or 4 months over tho, and my mom is freaking out over it! she's like, "if you guyz do anything, i will get him for rape" im in a tough situation and i dont really know what to do. i went to my friend and she said "follow your heart" how typical... ;D (luv ya tho sis!!!! if ya see this here! lol) ...anyways. i dont know what to do because i simply adore him, and my mom is okay with us hanging out and holdign ahnds and stuff, but i dont know about dating. help me!!!! cuz i dont wanna lose him (not that i am gonna do anyhting sexual with him anywayz! ) and i dont wanna dissapoint my mom... so either way some oen gets let down, and i really dont know what to do!

i think that you mom is over-reacting cuase i mean im 17 and my bf is 18 and everything its not like your too far behind him and all but i think that you mom needs to take a chill pill i mean alls you can do is show your mom that hes not a bad guy or nething good luck
-Cass-

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Can anyone give me Ideas? I want to get my boyfriend a gift and I'm all out of ideas!!! Some info that might help you is he is kinda in the middle of punk and prep not in clicks or anything he is 17 and we have been dating for 7 1/2 months. I want something thats cute and shows I love him but does not but cost a lot of money~ Please help me out~

you could make him something if you wanted to or something like that its not that muchi know that i have done it for my bf of 4years and he loves that kinda stuff cause he thinks it means more
-Cass-

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ok i gotta ask this now..i heard someone say something bout there bf bein bipolar..what does that mean? is it like split personality?! also..my ex was really mean and called me hoe and stuff then like the day before that he was like baby i love you ill never leave ur side..is that bipolar?

no its not bipolar its called a fucked up exboyfriend if you ask me bipolar means that they can have various mood swings like go from happy to depressed in like no time but i dont think that you exboyfriend is bipolar hes just gay
-Cass-

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this question is for my friend:

my boyfriend is so sweet. he'd never cheat on me and he never acts Interested in another girls or stuff like that. do you think he could be gay? because he doesn't seem to be interested when girls are wearing skimpy clothes on tv or pictures and id ont think he looks at it on his own. but he gets horny around me. i don't think he is but soemtimes i wonder.

i think that hes trying to show you that your the only thing on his mind just cause he doesnt do the normal guy thing yeah is some cases he could be gay but i dont think that your guy is hes trying to show you that like i said your the only thing on his mind and that he loves ya
-Cass-

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i jest found out that my boyfriend was cheating on me with my bff should i not be her friend or dump him or do both.

BOTH
-Cass-

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ok...i've like this kid for almost a year now. he's my friend, but he might like me, i don't know. yesterday was the first day of school, and i couldn't open my locker. After 3rd period i went up to him and one of my other guy friends and said "help me beat up my locker"...so we went to my locker, and he offered to open it for me. he got it open, so i gave him a hug, cuz i hadn't been able to open the damn thing all day. after that, he asked me if i had lunch then, i said yes, and he said "cool." so we walked outside, and i tried not to follow him like i do sometimes, but he sat where i did. we hung out at lunch again today...do you think he might like me?

it could be possible and everything but i mean just get to talking to him and be yourself aroudn him a bit more and just tell him that you like him if you can maybe he might like you too?!?!?
-Cass-

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OKay i really like this guy .. i mean like i love him n he loves me..! I just got out of this whole real love relationship n i truely loved him but i got hurt a bunch of times within that relatinship so he dumped me! Then this guy i like was going out with my best friend so my best friend dumped him n went out with my ex i was talking bout.. so now i like her ex! [[i know its confusing but try to help]] but see i dont wanna go out with him n hurt her like she hurt me.. but i like him alot! WHAT DO I DO! I RATE HIGH!

you need to tell him that and all and just dont lead him on cause you might be hurting him and everything like your ex did you i mean thats not right b/c you guy broke up and everything but then she is just like johnny on the spot of him and everything to me i think that you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel but just dont lead the other ex on tell him how you feel as well
-Cass-

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okay so im a 15 year old female
and i have this huge crush on
one of my brothers friends
his name is wesley..but hes 21
and in the marines..hes leaveing
for iraq in 8days..but i like him
allot and dont no how to tell him
or how him being in iraq and me
being 15 and in pennsylivania er
w/e my state is spelled would work
but i saw him at the mall tonight
and he was at my house tuesday and
at my brothes game..and when i saw
him tonight we stared at each other
for a longgg time..and we talked at
the game last night..and for like
an hour when he was here tuesday
so i really am starting to become
attached to the kid but im not sure
what to do ya know? well i hope some
one can help me

i mean your age is a huge factor in the situation and everything but feeling somethign for someone isnt...i think that you need ot be straight with him yeah you have feelings for him and everything but i mean hes leaving and all, and who knows you guys could still stay really close while he is over there and everything i mean i would just tell him upfront how you feel about him i hope all goes well and everything turns out okay
-Cass-

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okay well im not bi but like i've thought bout it n like.. i look at my friends as if i like them n u know wanna make out with them.. does that make me bi? I rate high please help?

not necessarly and all but i mean i have done the same things and all but your mind could change but im bi and everything but thats all on how you act on things from now on and everything but that doesnt set in stone that you are bi
-Cass-

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This question has to do with my boyfriend again. We've only been dating for 4 days, but have known each other for about a month. We talk even before we were dating every night for like 3 hours on the phone. So far, he treats me so great and I dont have any reason not to trust him. Let me add now that he is friends with my father and alot of my Dads friends. Well, he sometimes talks about marriage, which scares me a bit, but I honestly could see myself marrying him. Anyway, to get to the point, I was told tonight by 2 different people, my ex boyfriend and my best friends sister that I hate & she hates me, that my boyfriend has probably already cheated on me & that I need to keep an eye on him beacause he likes to cheat. Im really scared because, what if they are right. But considering the people that told me I dont know if I should believe them. I really like this guy am Im scared that if I say anything about what I heard that he will be pissed at me. What should I do? Should I say something to him & if so, what? Please let me know ASAP, I need to figure this out before he calls me later on tonight!!!

You need to ask him before just jumping to conclusions about things and i mean if you like this guy and all i mean i think that you should take what he says cause you getting advice for people that you relaly dont get along with and all and by doing that your misjudging your bf
talk to him before doin nething
-Cass-

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i love my bf a lot hes a very good person hes never done anything to hurt me but sumtimes i just get really paranoid and i feel like i cant trust him i think too much and im like what if this what if that even tho i have no reason to not trust him how can i stop being so paranoid?

u have to learn to trust him better cause if you dont your relationship is going to go down in flames in the long run if u dont start trusting him and everything, and just dont think about it as much
-Cass-

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how do you know when you are truly in love with a guy and how do you know when it is the right time to tell him?

Its up to you when you know that your truly and honestly in love with a guy and you tell him when it feels right you always ask yourself that question cause no one can answer that but you and your heart
-Cass-

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i want to get something for my boyfriend who i have been going out with for 2 years on june 26th, 2004. i feel like gettin him something or making him something just because ... anyone have any ideas ?

What i have done in the past if you have pictures of you two together take them or scan them and everything make copies and take a jar and put the pictures on the out side of the jar and fill the jar with memories you guys have had together or just inside jokes that you two only know or whatever then put like candy or a rose ini the middle of the jar...You could also mke a mini scrap book for him of you two together with pictures of your friends if you want i know that my bf loved these both but its up to u
-Cass-

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okie well i want to have guys over n i want to go to gusy housess to hang out but im a lil scared to ask my mom if i can hang out cuz me n my mom r rele tight n she might makefun of me bt neways how do i ask her w. out having to b scared

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just tell her that its like a little get together or somethingand you and some friends are going over there to just hang out or whatever visa versa and everything i think that she woud be cool with it if your already taht close
-Cass-

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is it weird that i don't like anyone? i mean all my friends obsess over who they like, but i seriously can't think of anyone that i like. and im 14!

you may only be 14 but there are some many guys out there yeah they might not be the ones that are aroudn you or whatever but i mean there is some one out there that youll begin to like they just havent showed up yet
-Cass-

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i have fallen in love with my best guy friend, and i told him that i love him he said that he loves me back, but says that i just cant be. we hug, kiss and are all over eachother, but we're not dating, and everytime i bring it up to him he just says " it just cant be right now". i feel hurt but yet i cant stop thinking of him. what should i do? am i obsessed? ( i am 13/female )

i think that you just need to talk to him and everything i mean he has to understand the way your feelings are becomeing and all i mean he cant say that he doesnt want what you want when you kiss and everything like that i mean you dont just kiss some one to kiss them you have to kiss them for a reason and maybe hes just afraid that he will lose his bestfriend by becoming more then just friends
-Cass-

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