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ok this one is going to be long, so bear with me. i have this guy friend (he's 15/m and i'm 17/f) and our relationship is kinda brother/sisterish. a couple of weeks ago, i was talking to him online and he admitted that he had a crush on me. well this totally surprised me, cause i had a crush on him too. i told him and we were both shocked but then thought that we should try and maybe go out (in secret at first, just in case it didn't work out), and just see how it goes. well we did that, and long story short, we made out a few times then i told him that i didn't think it was a good idea. i'm not really sure why i did it, but i did. but now, i think i have "more than friend" feelings for him again (but i'm not exactly sure), but i don't want to hurt him again. oh, and he still likes me a lot. what should i do? (link)
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If you made out and wanted to end ur more than friend relationship, its probably because u feel so close to him in a "hes my lil bro" way. I dont think you should try again. Next time you could get hurt, and your friendship could be ruined forever. If you feel like you really care about him in a more "loving" ;) way then have a friends with benefits kinda thing, that way you can see other people. hope it helps
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okay i have a b/f now well call him "K" okay well we've been goin out for a lil while but i wanna call him but im afraid his mom or something is gonna answer what do i do/? (link)
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well if he isnt allowed to have a girlfriend, wait till a parent isnt around, or call a cell phone. Try talking on the computer or going out on dates instead of talking on the phone. if you're nervous ask him to let his mom know. She could be really nice and interested to meet ya
hope it helps
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well i am a male and i am 15 i have a problem with my love life.... I am a tennis player and this 1 girl i was playing with i sorta like. I never talked too her... she seems nice... and she is pretty.. im sort of a shy guy though when it comes to me talking to a girl. I dont know y though. I am afraid of rejection. that is a maid reason i am afraid to talk to her. How do I get over my fear and work up the courage to talk to her? (link)
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There are millions of us gals out there. Just realize that if one doesnt like you, someone else out there is better for you.
Get to know her, or have someone talk to her for you. Its better to talk to her yourself though. If you were playing with her, you probably get along at least a little bit. If you get choked up compliment her tennis skills, its an obvious thing you have in common. And its an awesome ice breaker
good luck. hope i helped
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ok. So I met this girl on the internet, shes really nice, my age, lives near me etc.. but just a little while ago, I rang her up.. and she sounded like a guy.. I mean, I'm not shallow or anything, but it kinda just freaks me out, And now I don't know what to do.. should I give her a chance, or not bother?
BTW I have another girl I aslo likes.. she is also really nice, 15, fun, and yeah...
signed, Confused 17/m (link)
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if she sounds like a guy, and it makes you feel uncomfortable, just stay friends with her. You shouldnt comepletely ditch her though. She probably knows that her voice is deep and it will hurt her to do that.
As for the 15 year old: She is 2 years younger than you, but us 15 year olds are madd awesome. lol. I think you should go with her. You sound like you'll have more fun.
hope i helped
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how long do you think me and my gf should start kissing? 2 monthes 3...? (link)
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Whever you both feel comfortable. And if you're asking, you're not. It doesnt matter how long you are going out, it matters how well you guys feel about each other. Make it feel special, and dont care about time.
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My mom waon't let me have a b/f or watch some R movies. It seems like she is Overprotecting me from the outside world. What should i do? HELP!
Feelings from the inside out,
Jess P.S- I rate HIGH! (link)
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Tell her you're a big girl and you can take care of yourself. Remind her that eventually you're not going to be there with her all the time. And you need time to experiment now so you dont rush things later on in life.
it also depends on how old you are. The R thing could mean that you really shouldnt be watchin them
I gave my INSANELY strict parents the same speach and they let me do whatever I want now as long as Im safe, check up with them, and IM back by curfew.
Tell them that you'll call every now and then when you're on a date (( but only a few times )) and that you'll let you're mom at least check out the movie before you go to it.
hope i helped
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hurry i need advice quick wut does it mean when a girl is going to "play" a guy??? (link)
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when a girl goes out with a guy just to dump him or to seem cool, or when she goes out with more than 1 guy at a time :D
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this might be long
i got my first kiss at this campground i go to, and it was with this kid whos always been my friend, and we always hang out with like 8 other people. none of them know that me and him had a connection. well a couple of days ago my brother called me on my cellphone while i was out with my boyfriend and a couple friends and he said that the boy i kissed had called him and told him because he couldnt keep it a secret anymore. so my brother called me and told me he knew, and he was flipping out on me, and i guess he was being so loud that my boyfriend heard it, and he got upset and wouldnt talk to me and was always avoiding me. it was a long time ago that we kissed, but he didnt know that so he thought i was cheating on him, and he got pretty upset. i dont know what to do, because he wont listen to anything i say. and im afraid my brother will tell everyone else at the campsite, and i dont want them to know because then when we hang out things will never be the same. (link)
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Just tell him that it was a long time ago and you only have feelings for him, that you dont even like that kid anymore. That it was an unexpected thing and it was WAY before you met him/ like him. Tell him you were embarassed about it and didnt want anybody to know. Tell him you'd never cheat on him, or anybody else. That you think cheating is stupid. i hope it helps ya hun
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one of my friends asked the guy i like if he likes me and he said he doesn't know and he likes a lot of people. so when he says he doesn't kno...does that really mean "No but i'm not gonna say it"?? thanx! i rate high (link)
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It may, or it may mean that hes just trying to be sweet but he doesnt even know who you are. It could also mean that he doesnt know how WELL he likes you. Maybe if you tell him that you like him, or ask him out, hell say how he really feels.
hope it helps
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Hey,
well ive liked this guy for a long time now, and i heard he likes me to but hes gone out with a couple of girls...
now its like hes been ignoring me and i told my friend and she asked him and he said its cuz i was ignoring him...
but he said that he likes this girl danielle.
so what should i do?
i realli like him... (link)
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Tell him YOURSELF that you like him and would like to date him. If you make the first step he may realize that he likes you better than that other bitch ;) lol. hope it helps
N I K K I
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Hey how do u first kiss ur girlfriend without the chance of embarrassment like if she doesnt want to. got any techniques on kissin too (link)
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lol. I dont understand... but ill try my best. If its both your first times, then ask her if shed like to kiss you. If its your first time, try practicing on a doll (( i know its funny and weird... )) or on your hand. If its her first time, act like you know what your doing and just lean in for it. Most first kisses work much better if they are just a pack on the lips or cheeks.
as for kissing techniques and tips? Im the master, lol. but it all depends on what you want. Let me know if you need any more help
15~~~ N I K K I
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How do u get a girl to kiss you? Or find out if she wants you to kiss her? or let her know that u want her to kiss you or be kissed by u?
Thnx 4 da help! (link)
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haha awwww you seem really sweet :D
are you going out with her? i know its a dumb question... but it means a lot lol.
If you are, when you guys are on a date ask her really nice if it be ok to kiss her. If she says yes just lean in and do it. lol. If you arent going out, then ask her if its ok, or ask her out first.
Being romantic is the best way to a girls heart, but dont go overboard. Even the littlest things can make a girl swoon.
hope i helped
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I helped my friend get a boy, who is also my friend. She said she really liked him and totally wanted to go out. So I hooked them up. The boy is really sweet and really likes her. The day after they were together. She says to me that she's going to break up with him because she's in love with her ex from like a year ago. (And he doesn't like her like that.) She got me to hook them up, and she's going to break his heart after he admits his feelings for her. I don't think thats right. i told her she said she'll give him 1 week tops. I don't know what I should do
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Maybe you could tell her that her ex probably wont go for her. I know it sounds mean, but if she likes this guy even a little... then she should wait. But you cant get involved to much. Its their relationship... not yours. Try talking to your guy friend about how hed feel if anything went wrong. Unfortunatly... she needs to follow her heat. And if it tells her to go for the other guy you have to let it happen. i know it sux, trust me i do. but just back off a little. maybe you could talk her into waiting more than a week?
sorry i couldnt help more...
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I am an 18 year old male. My best friend and I have been talking on messenger and we have both realized that we have extra feelings for each other. She is coming to my college next year to be with me. The only thing is she is bringing a guy who I am pretty sure is her boyfriend. She says she wants to start something when she gets down here but now I'm afraid with this guy coming too that I wont get my chance with her. Should I confront her about this guy and see what she says? Is there anything else I can do? Thank you (link)
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I think telling her not to bring they guy would be wrong. I mean, it could be a co-worker or friend that wants to go to that college. Hell, he could be gay ;) I think you should ask her about him without seeming like you dont want him to tag along. But if you guys really like each other, a guy coming with her might not matter.
hope i helped....
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my b/f wants 2 make out in a few days.. how do you make out again cuz i havent made out in 3 years? (link)
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wow... sorry, but its a dumb question... and i really feel weird answering but...
ok, you open your mouth, close your eyes, and lean in and kinda play with your toungue against his. A lot of guys like when you roll your toungue when your making out with him. Touch him... i dont know. lol
wow...
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every time i go out wit some one they just feel bad for me wat should i do? help i rate high (link)
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Dont tell them your sob stories... if you do that is. that way they wont feel bad for you. dont keep things from them though. Tell them not to feel bad for you. that you love your life and theres nothing wrong with it. wish i could help more :D
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when it comes to tryin to get a guy...how do know when ur tryin too hard, or not hard enuff.Or wen u should give up...?? (link)
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dont get all obsessed or anything. Flirt with him and see if he flirsts back. Or just ask him out. If he says no or doesnt seem interested when you flirt of flirt back then try wit sum1 else. hope it helped
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theres a stupid dude I hate a lot, but he LOVES me. he follws me everywhere at school and wont shut up. how can i tell him to back off? i dont even like him as a friend. agghh (link)
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lol... im sorry u seem funny. Just tell him you want him to leave you alone. But if you cant find a better way to say it lie... i know its bad but it works. Say your boyfriend is really jealous, or your parnets wont let you talk to people like him. i know its bad... but its alli got rotflmfao
sorry....
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Today i found out from alot of people that my boyfriends been cheating on me with this girl that i absolutly hate and wen i asked my boyfriend about it he sed it wasnt true and they are lying to me, but i dont know wether to trust him or not because he has cheated on me before and tryed to hide it but i found out and idk why but i let it slide (plz noone give me a lecture on that). His bestfriend even told me that which is why im questioning him but he keeps on saying its not true. I dont know what to do, should i break up with him even though hes saying it not true or should i stay with him? someone please help me! btw me and him are both 15 and weve been together for 10 months, and we also dont go to the same school. thanks for your helf (link)
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I think you should try asking her. Sometimes guys lie....but maybe he learned his lesson. As doubtful as that is. I say you dump him. Him being at a different school could make it easier to hide things from you. Hope I helped out!
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I just started at this new school, although i;ve been there about 2 yrs ago. I met up with an old friend and we feelin eachother. But me..i aint the type of girl who haves boyfriends in school cuz they be acting immature. He's a year older then me....But im trying to see if i should give this a chance. holla back (link)
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If you like him I think yuo shud go for it girl. And if hes an upperclassman mayb he wont be so immature. hope it helps
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