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confused
this might be long
i got my first kiss at this campground i go to, and it was with this kid whos always been my friend, and we always hang out with like 8 other people. none of them know that me and him had a connection. well a couple of days ago my brother called me on my cellphone while i was out with my boyfriend and a couple friends and he said that the boy i kissed had called him and told him because he couldnt keep it a secret anymore. so my brother called me and told me he knew, and he was flipping out on me, and i guess he was being so loud that my boyfriend heard it, and he got upset and wouldnt talk to me and was always avoiding me. it was a long time ago that we kissed, but he didnt know that so he thought i was cheating on him, and he got pretty upset. i dont know what to do, because he wont listen to anything i say. and im afraid my brother will tell everyone else at the campsite, and i dont want them to know because then when we hang out things will never be the same.
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you have to try to talk to your boyfriend again and be honest.just tell him that it wasnt when you guys were going out. if he doesnt want to listen to you talk to one of his close friends and maybe he could talk to him. x0
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Write a little note that says what really happend to your boyfriend. Then yell at your brother to shut the fuck up! Hope I helped!
TarA
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Dear CoNfUsEd,
You should tell your boyfriend that you did not go out with him at that time.You should also talk to that boy and tell him that that is over and you dont have feelings for him.If your boyfriend dont listen write him and note and give it to one of your friends to give it to him.
HoPe I hElPeD
SaRaH
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Well, if you 've tried talking to him and that didn't work, you should talk to his close friend and tell him that you kissed this guy a long time ago and that you would never cheat on your boyfriend. Try talking to him yourself again and tell him that you didn't know that this guy would all of a sudden call up your brother and tell him that you two both kissed after a long time of not telling. If he still doesn't believe you, then it will take a while for him to actually know that you aren't cheating on him. Are you starting to develop feelings for this guy? If so, you might want to talk to him to and then ask him why he called after a long time and told your brother that he kissed you. There is probably a reason to this too.
-Karen
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Talk to your boyfriend -- Sit him downa nd tell him what happened -- If he doesnt understand then hes not the guy you thought he was -- Im sure hell understand when you tell him just gotta find a way so hell sit down and hear you out: Call him, online, email, when you see him pull him away from everyone
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Just tell him that it was a long time ago and you only have feelings for him, that you dont even like that kid anymore. That it was an unexpected thing and it was WAY before you met him/ like him. Tell him you were embarassed about it and didnt want anybody to know. Tell him you'd never cheat on him, or anybody else. That you think cheating is stupid. i hope it helps ya hun
N I K K I
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Tell your b/f straight up that it was a long time ago and that he is the one that has all of your heart. not that other kid but him. He is what your world revolves around and that that is what he needs to understand and he also needs to trust you. Tell him that you would ever in a million years do anything do jepordize the relationship... tell me how things work out with u 2...
-ashley
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