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my friend...
I helped my friend get a boy, who is also my friend. She said she really liked him and totally wanted to go out. So I hooked them up. The boy is really sweet and really likes her. The day after they were together. She says to me that she's going to break up with him because she's in love with her ex from like a year ago. (And he doesn't like her like that.) She got me to hook them up, and she's going to break his heart after he admits his feelings for her. I don't think thats right. i told her she said she'll give him 1 week tops. I don't know what I should do
PLease help
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I think that if she didn't like him, and only him, she shouldn't have went out with him in the first place. Explain to her that its wrong, but don't say that she should go out with him when she don't like him because you are giving him false hope. Besta Luck
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Well, if she feels that she wants it to be over, let her break up with him. i know it sucks because you put forth the effort to get them together, but she isint happy in the relationship and it would suck having to stay with that guy. So yeah just let her do what she wants..sorry!
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Well tell her that its not right i mean and also maybe warn him befor he gets to serious and get hurts.. and if she does that to him explain to him that your sorry bout the whole thing..much luv dez
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your friends a player
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Tell your guy friend in privet what happened. Let your girl friend screw up her love life. This happened to me alot, they guy gave me like 10 days tops cuz we never kissed. Hope I helped!
TarA
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Maybe you could tell her that her ex probably wont go for her. I know it sounds mean, but if she likes this guy even a little... then she should wait. But you cant get involved to much. Its their relationship... not yours. Try talking to your guy friend about how hed feel if anything went wrong. Unfortunatly... she needs to follow her heat. And if it tells her to go for the other guy you have to let it happen. i know it sux, trust me i do. but just back off a little. maybe you could talk her into waiting more than a week?
sorry i couldnt help more...
N I K K I
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Talk to her in two days and she what she says -- Tell her straight up what you just said "he doesnt like her like that" -- You can always clue in your guy friend and let him know whats going on in her mind and let them settle it, if shes gunna dump him then its her loss not your fault
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You definitely need to talk to this guy that she is going to break up with because he doesn't deserve being done that to, after he admits his feelings to her. Tell him privately so he will know before hand and he probably will break up with her instead or just talk to her. It's not right for your friend to actually say "she'll give him 1 week tops." Just let him know what's going to happen and he'll handle this because this is between your friend and him, even though you hooked them up. You're right, this isn't right for your friend to do this to him. You should also try talking to your friend and ask her why she is going to break up with this guy to go back out with her ex-boyfriend, when he doesn't even like her as a girlfriend. Ask her what she would do if this guy was going to do this to her. It may change her mind but then it might not. Just let this go know what's going to happen so he won't get hurt that much.
-Karen
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No offense, but your friend sounds like a slut. And she's going to be that way no matter what. She's the type of girl who thinks boyfriends are toys and throws them out when she gets sick of them. Since she's going to break up with him, you should be there for him. But be her friend, too, and don't let her relationship choices affect your friendship. Also, in the future, don't set your friends up, because if they have a rough breakup you will probably be caught in the middle and that is never fun.
Good luck.
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wow this girl sounds pretty mean and a little too full of herself. tell the guy, its only fair. i wouldnt want to be hurt like that if i were him.
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Your friend doesnt sound like she should be with him at all. Your guy friend doesnt deserve that. I would tell your guy friend to give him a heads up. Break it to him slowly. then maybe he can break up with her..or he could talk to her about it. Shes timing the guy to make her happy? "i'll give him a week tops" she says. Well..she doesnt sound happy soo i dont think its fair to either one of them to be together. There isnt much more you can do..because it involves her and the guy. Its upsetting i know you want to help..but after talking to your friend and your guy friend..there isnt much more you can do.
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