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okay.. theres no topic for this cuz I dont knwo what it should be but what ever... anyways... my mom is constantly finding my money that I hide and or takes it from me as soon as I get it to go get drugs.. I dont know what I should do about my whole situation and she is very manipulative so if u say go to the police she will get her way out of it (believe me Ive tried) what should I do?
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I would either talk to her about it, or talk to a close family member/couselor. She shouldn't take money from her kid, that's just wrong. Hide your money at school, in your pockets, in a safe, anywhere she would never think of (such as in a pillow). Besta Luck
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Well first off maybe not put all your business on this site like that like why you need the money cause that kinda pathic.. and it might be for the best that she does take your money..and if you dont want her to take it then keep it on you at all times..much luv dez
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Try talking to your guidance counseler about it. Unfortunately she isnt suitable as a mother, and will probably lose custady of you. When high she could end up hurting you, and that cant happen. What i suggest you do is keep your money with you at all times. When you're awake keep it in your pockets. and then when you go to sleep tuck it somewhere in your pajamas, and lie about having money. You could also try to get her to stop... try talking her into checking into rehab or look up on the internet some groups that could help her. Im sooo sorry about your mom, and i wish all goes well.
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more: i am sooo sorry to hear about that. thanx for the 5.... and i apoligize again for her behavior. no offense to her if you care, but my god bittches like that piss me off lol. she doesnt deserve you, and you deserve a lot better. just think that in 2 years you can leave forever... thanx again
NIK
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this is serious ive read about this happening ther is a hope house take her there look it up in the yellow pages
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wow. you should talk to her about it, and hide your money in a new place.
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Your mom is crazy. You need to seriously talk to someone like a counciler or a cop in privite. Do you have a dad? If so talk to him about it. Also theres such a thing called Child Care Services.
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CALL THE COPS!! thats soo not fair...its crazy.
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Call the child hep agency. They believe YOU there not your mom. Is there any relative you can live with? If there is you mmust go there. Is there a friend you can live with? Same thing go there. You can't really live with your mom anymore. You can try family consuling though or call rehab to get your mom there. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck
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My mother and father have done the same thing to me. They were constantly asking me for money to "help buy food" and when she comes home she never had any "food". I also know that your right about the cops. Sit down with your mom and tell her how you feel about her doing drugs. I never did and now I no longer live with her because of her problem. Tell her that your money is yours. Hiding your money is only going to make her look for it because she already knows you have it. Maybe you could confide in a friend and have her/him help you hold onto your money. I know how hard this is for you and you just have to be strong, have faith, and help her work through this problem Trust me you don't want to be taken away and then not be able to live her again. Tell her you DON'T want anything to happen to her. Hope that helps. ~*Halie
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Is your father living with you? if not..do you keep in touch? If you do call him and tell him about it..maybe live with a relative. Maybe your dad could take it to the police? Um try talking to your guidance conselor..maybe they could do something? Is it bad enough that your considering calling Social Services so you dont have to live in that kind of environment? Your mom has a drug problem..and people with drug problems will do anything to get their drugs. You shouldnt be in a house like that.I would try getting out. Maybe talk to your mom..try and get her to get help? She could go to rehab maybe. Sit her down when she isnt high..and tell her that you want her to be a mother and just tell her everything your feeling. Im sorry if you tried all of these suggestions. This is a hard situation. I wuold really try getting out until your mom gets help. Maybe if you leave she will see how much shes screwed up and maybe she'll get help. This isnt your fault and you dont desserve to be in that kind of environment! Get yourself out of there sweetie.
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