Kendra is a young woman working as a professional in Toronto. She's a cat lover, a bookworm and has always had a deeply rooted interest in people, love and what happens when the former attempts the later.
She's been in three long term relationships, lost her mother when she was 16 and has lived through her father's alcoholism and drug abuse. She's a college graduate in journalism and art, has a quirky personality and has acquired some realistic yet romantic beliefs about love and relationships.
She lives with her boyfriend. Life may not have always been good, but it is good now.
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I have not gotten my period in over a week late, but i have never had sex with my boyfriend. What is wrong? i cant be pregnant right? im scared pease help. (link)
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If you've never had sex, then don't worry about pregnancy.
Changes in exercise routines or stress can jostle a period around. Some women skip periods regularly. It's hard to say why you didn't get yours in over a week, but I wouldn't worry. This is common. Some women are like clockwork, others are all over the place.
Do some cardiovascular exercise and try to de-stress. Lots of movement can help an expected period along, and stress can potentially make a late period later.
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i'm 18 year old girl
i wouldn't categorize myself as a "sexually active" person.. but my boyfriend and i have talked about it and he really likes to get horny and mess around. I told him i'm willing to do some things with him because i want this relationship to work. i really want this relationship to work. i think i'm in love with him.. i think he's the one.
we have been dating for about 7 months now and we recently had another discussion/argument/kinda fight about oral sex. he said he really wants me to give him head and wants to give me head. I've done it before. i'm no virgin mary. but i'm not crazy about it either. I just don't really "get off" when i do oral sex. can someone help me?
when he gives me head, it tickles. like sometimes i will start laughing because it will tickle. it doesn't really get me horny, but its not like uncomfortable. its just like enjoyable i guess. but i dont get off from it. does anyone know why i don't get off of it? and how i could?
when i give him head, i tend to gag a lot. I don't like the taste of cum or pre cum. i tried licking it and it just made me gag even more. there was a point when it felt like i needed to throw up.. so then i tried just sucking it without tongue and that was ok but he wasn't too crazy about it. so any advice on how i can get past the gagging? we tried putting a condom on him but it just tasted like latex :/ blech.
please help!!!!
thank you!!! (link)
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Are you really attracted to your boyfriend? And are you comfortable around him and telling him what you want and don't want?
The attraction part cannot be fixed. If kissing him isn't fun or arousing, you're not going to like doing anything else. You don't reference any of this, so I'm offering it as a possibility. You can't communicate your way into good sex if there's no attraction.
The communication question is important, though. If you're attracted to him, letting him know your concerns and feelings about what you want and don't want is vital. If you gag while giving head, then try using your fist to grip the penis at the base and just use your mouth near the head.
If you're nauseated by his penis that it's triggering your gag reflex, ask yourself why. Taste? Make him shower first, maybe use chocolate sauce. Also, there's no rule saying you have to taste his semen. Have him warn you before he ejaculates. If you simply don't like his penis and it gags you to be near it so intimately, you may just not be attracted to him.
As for receiving oral, either he's not doing it right and you need to tell him what you want (and he needs to listen!) or perhaps you just don't enjoy oral. It happens. I'd try better communication first-- also a lot of foreplay prior to it starting. A man shouldn't just dive in there cold. If that's what he's doing, no wonder it feels weird.
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So long story short, I'm hanging out with my ex-boyfriend tomorrow, and I still have major feelings for him. But the downside is I do have a boyfriend, but were definatly not as serious as my ex and I were. I really don't know what to do, because I'm not asure on my exs feelings towards me, and if I'd be a mistake or not to end things with my current boyfriend. I know it aounds really bad, but I really haven't been able to get over my ex in the last 2 years. So anything would really help me out! 17/female. (link)
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My advice is to steer clear of the ex. It's such dangerous decision making to go spend time with someone who broke your heart, and who you're not over. Things ended with him when you were 15. This is statistically not going to be the man you marry. The odds of that are so low it's not even worth considering. You haven't even gone to college yet, have you? Oh man, the romantic possibilities at college are enough to erase high school drama boyfriends off the map.
So bearing that in mind, really think: Why aren't you over him yet? Really give that some thought. Personally, when I want to get over a guy, I make a list of all the things about him that make me mad, irritated or hurt. Then I write down all the great things there are about not being with him anymore. Trust me, it works pretty well. Also, you have to stop yourself from fantasizing about the ex.
If you don't really want your current boyfriend, you're better off ending it with him anyway. Remove your ex from the equation before even making that choice, too. You don't want to string someone along as a consolation prize, right? And it's way too much of a bummer to be with someone who's still hung up on their ex, so if you can't focus on your current boy, let him go.
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Hey! I'm seventeen and my boyfriend is eighteen. So the problem is whenever we're getting physical and what not he is super super super gentle. Like to the point where it's not even enjoyable. I mean I love how tender he is but I can always feel him being all catious and careful so I feel like he's not enjoying it or with it at all and thattt turns me off. I want him to actually get into it. I've brought it up with him a few times and he says he's scared he'll hurt or "break" me. I'm like 5'5, 105 lbs and he's 6 foot and pretty built... so I mean yeah I can see how he thinks he'd hurt me but I really don't think he could do that much damage... I just want to feel his intensity and I don't but I don't know how to show him that he doesn't have to be so tentative... (link)
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The time to bring up this sort of thing is in the moment. You don't have a sit-down conversation about it, because you've done that and he seems iffy. You encourage him whilst in the throes of passion, with sexy words and demands and dirty talk and vocalizing your appreciation when he ups the ante more to your satisfaction. Positive re-enforcement works wonders.
And, just 'cause you can never say it enough today, if you have sex, use a condom!
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hi i had sex with a guy i was dating like two or three months ago and i was taking the pill but the day after i ran out and then im just now like a week ago getting back on it but im always tired i get the hickups all the time i fee weak i feel sick i was eating dinner with my mom it was this stuff i use to like and as soon as i smelled it it made my belly turn and i hjust couldnt eat but i took a test a week after we had sex could it be the pill doing that to me ? i hada miscarriage before when i1st started taking the pill but i didnt know i was pregnant until it was too lated and im getting sharp pains that start at my belly button and it shoots all the way down my vag i have no idea what it is but i had the pain before but i was also on the pill before when i got the pain to so idk if im pregnant the test said i wasnt so i didnt stop taking the pill and i dont want to talk to my mom about it she would get mad that im on the pill she got mad when she found out my 35 year old sister was on it she doesnt like it cause what can happen when you on it and she also got pregnant with my brother on it so please help thanks alot
megan
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Okay, you have a lot of questions here. I'll address them as best I can.
1. Have you been getting your period since the last time you had sex? If the last time you had sex was two or three months ago with that guy, and you've had your period since then, we can eliminate pregnancy as a concern. However, when you take a pregnancy test, you need to wait until your period is actually late for it to be an accurate test. Just keep that in mind for the future.
2. Hiccups are not a sign of any known reproductive issue.
3. Feeling weak and sick all the time is a good reason to go to the doctor. Nausea is a sign of pregnancy, but like I said, if you're getting your period (you don't mention whether or not you are) then you're not pregnant.
4. Sharp pains in your belly button that shoots down your vagina is a serious concern, coupled with your stomach pains and weakness. I can't tell you if the pill is the culprit, but you need to see a doctor who can tell you.
5. If you don't want to tell your mother about being on the pill, at least tell her about the pain you're in and that you want a doctor's appointment. You can refrain from mentioning your theory of it being the pill, because really you don't know if that's the cause.
6. Consider asking your doctor to talk to your mother about the pill. The pill is a valuable asset to any sexually active woman and its benefits most often outweigh the risks.
7. You can get pregnant on the pill, yes. When used correctly, 1 in 1,000 women will conceive a year. When subject to typical use, the effectiveness is closer to 3 in 100, which is still better than 6 out of 10 chances of pregnancy when you use nothing.
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hey, well i recently moved to a new school and after a few months i really started to like this guy. He found out i liked him and said to my friends that he wouldn't go out with me JUST because i liked him. i stopped liking him and a big group of my friends went out one day and apparently him and i really go well together. he found out that i liked him again. and now my friends saying that she's going to ask him out for me but i really don't want her to. should i tell him? by the way we are good friends. (link)
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He already knows you like him and that wasn't enough for him to make a move. He's not interested. I wouldn't take it any further or open up to him. All signs point to a rejection.
The best way to know if a boy likes you? When he finds out you like him, he takes the opportunity to ask you out.
Think about it, if you found out someone liked you and you liked him, wouldn't that be enough of a reason for you to want to be with him? And if you didn't like him back, wouldn't his feelings not be enough for you to want to go out with him? That's how he seems to feel.
Doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you, just that he's not into you. It happens to women all the time every day, and to men, too. And take it from me, when a guy doesn't like you that way, there is absolutely nothing in the entire world that you can do to ever change his mind. Males either want someone or they don't.
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Ok Husband constantly texting friends of mine setting up coffee dates, etc that i cancel. Through my phone!! he demands i get new "girlfriends all the time. when i dont go on these "dates" i get the silent treatment for a week or two. just yesterday he texted a new frien of mine ( a massage therapist) and set up a massage for me with her without telling me. I just had a massage elsewhere last week and said I felt great! he said "if you love me, you will get it done, it will make me (him) happy. I am now getting the silent treatment and I wish he would just punch me already! this has been going on for 6 years and shows no signs of stopping.he wont let me have unattractive "friends" either. i think it is totally sexually charged. HELP!!! (link)
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Your husband is being an ass. Lock your phone immediately. If he knows any of your other passwords, you need to change them and keep them private. It's not his decision how or when you contact new friends, or how attractive they should be.
You need to put your foot down and tell him you will no longer be held hostage by his silent treatments, nor will you tolerate any more interference from him in your friendships. He is your husband, not the boss of you. He needs to know you were not put on this Earth to do as he says or else.
I think you two need marital counselling. And frankly, if things have deteriorated to the point you'd rather he punch you (Has he ever?) because his behaviour is this unbearable then this marriage may be over if he won't go to counselling.
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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
Sorry if this is too long! (link)
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Wow... your boyfriend is a massive asshole. You can't stay with a person who does this sort of thing. It's so beyond not acceptable, I don't even know where to begin. You definitely want the group to be shut down.
Here is how it's done:
"Our system automatically deletes groups once they're empty (no members). If you created the group, you can delete the group by removing all members and then yourself. Note that if you were not the first admin and creator of this group, you will not be able to delete the group unless the group creator has left it voluntarily."
So the question is how to get your boyfriend to do this. You have a few options. One is to ask him to do it. If you dump him first, this may prove difficult. Are you in high school? If so, I would take this route:
1. Ask your BFF if you can view the group through her profile. Go in the group and take screen captures of it. Information on how to do that is here: http://graphicssoft.about.com/cs/general/ht/winscreenshot.htm
2. Report the group through your BFF's account and explain what is going on. If all else fails, this may help.
3. Tell your BF you know about the group and have seen it and want it deleted instantly. Make sure you watch him go through the process of removing all the members and then himself.
4. Talk to your parents about the group and show them the screen capture shots and have them contact his parents. This will ensure he will get in deep shit if he makes a new group.
5. The same day, end the relationship with your boyfriend.
Even if you don't want to show your parents the screen captures, this is a lot better than going it alone, which has way, way, way too many unforeseeable issues and potential problems.
Good luck.
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I'll try to make this as short and straight forward as possible. Basically there is a guy that I have known for a while now. He is in the marines and currently stationed no where near to where I am living now. Before he left, the possibility of starting a relationship had been discussed. I drove 18 hours in one day just to see him for the weekend. And after all that as well as other attempts to show him that I am serious and committed he basically said that he was sorry because he couldn't give me what I wanted..a relationship. He said that he wouldn't be able to spend time with me and therefore the relationship wouldn't be equal on both our parts. But then again he has also said that I can find someone better than him. Does this sound like a guy that wants to keep me around but doesn't want to make a committment? Or does this sound like a guy who truly does care but doesn't feel that he can have a healthy relationship right now? Should I just quit now while I'm ahead or just hope for something good to happen in the future? Is it worth it? (link)
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This sounds like a man who may think you're a lovely person and a good catch, but not HIS catch. Basically, he doesn't think you're the one.
If he did, he'd see driving to see you, be the one making the efforts and you would be in no doubt of his feelings. It sounds like he's trying to break things off with you as kindly and gently as he can. Obviously he cares enough for your feelings to want to avoid hurting you, but does not care enough to want you for his girlfriend.
When men meet The One, or someone they think could be The One, they will do whatever it takes. This marine is not into you.
Thank your lucky stars too. You're free to find the right man, and one who is local, one who will call you and meet you and make all the effort you would expect from a man who's falling in love. Don't trick yourself into settling for less from someone who isn't interested. Let this guy go.
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we already know kids / teens of all ages are having sex. but how do you know youre physically, emotionally, and mentally ready to have sex? (link)
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There's a few ways you know.
1. You know you are. You don't feel unsure or doubt. You feel in your gut you're ready. The idea of having sex makes you feel excited and happy, not anxious and worried. If you're uneasy or still wondering if you're ready, you're not.
2. You know you've found the right person to have your first time with if you know you won't regret it. Even if the relationship ends someday, you'll always be glad it was him or her that you shared that moment in your life with.
3. You can talk openly about birth control options with your partner and you're prepared to acquire condoms or pills or whatever other method you've decided upon.
When these things have happened, you're probably ready.
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i'm 16, he's 18. we've been dating for nearly two months and been "official" for one. he didn't kiss me until the third date, though we held hands on the first. since then things have kind of come naturally. we've moved at a good pace. we had our first "intense" makeout session this week. like, really passionate. though we've made out a lot before.
my boyfriend's really creative, which i love, haha. we fool around with each others necks and ears - and we're totally comfortable - and two weeks ago he started kissing my stomach. this week i raised my shirt up rightt to my underwire, and he licked under where i had my shirt pushed up to.
although i like to take things slow, and im saving myself for marriage, im absolutely fine with what he did. it actually felt great haha.
but my boyfriend asked me if i'd be okay if he got some whipped cream. i said that was fine. he asked where i wanted it, and i said to "get creative ;)" and he said he needed a little help. i suggested we play a game where i put the whipped cream somewhere and he had to find it, but could only use his lips. he loves the idea lmao.
anyway. the shirt i was wearing before was a low scoopneck, so when i raised it up its not like there was a whole lot of upper body coverage. im considering taking my shirt off for the "whipped cream game" but i think it may be too soon. this guy respects me and would never do anything i didnt want him to. he knows i'm saving myself for marriage. as long as i make clear to him he's not removing my bra, do you think it would be too soon to have him kiss my upper chest?
this goes against everything ive ever been taught but this guy doesnt want me for my body, hes made clear of that. we're both just passionate people- like, he likes to sneak in quick kisses whenever he can; its cute, not touchyfeely. i just want to have some fun. i dont think this is something im gonna look back on and regret, i mean its not like he's gonna feel me up or anything. opinions? & sorry for the length haha:) thaaanks! (link)
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If you're saving yourself for marriage, then make sure you avoid getting naked. Nudity and touching will lead to sex.
As for what's right or wrong, it's your body and your comfort zone. You need to evaluate what you feel okay with doing and what your boundaries are.
For adult couples abstaining from sex, you have to walk a fine line between sharing physical intimacy and not taking things too far.
For teenage relationships, the same sort of thing applies. You don't want to have sex, your boyfriend knows this, so ensure you keep a good dialogue going about what's working and what is making you uncomfortable and also what is making him too aroused so you'll both know when to stop.
Also know that as you mature into a fully grown woman, your needs and beliefs and plans may change and that's totally okay too. I think you're on the right track by thinking ahead about what you may or may not regret. Keep looking inward for answers about what you want in your relationship.
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iv been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half. but now he cant even make me 'happy' at all like fingering or anything then he gets so sad over it. what could be going on? (link)
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It's possible you just no longer feel strongly about him anymore. If he used to be good at it and now you don't enjoy it, that is my guess.
If you've never enjoyed it with him, either you haven't given him enough instructions, or he's not good at it, or you're not compatible.
Since you're 15, my guess is you're ready to move on from this relationship. A year and a half is a long time for teens to date. You change so much in these important years that it's possible you've grown out of this relationship. And that's totally okay. It happens, and more over, it's to be expected.
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So here's the story...I really just don't know what to think of it all...we are both sophmores in college fyi.
After i broke up with my boyfriend of 6months..because it was a long distance relationship that really wasnt working out anymore...I started hanging out with this new guy. we were hanging out at least 4 nights a week plus seeing eachother & hanging out at parties on the weekend. when we hung out it was just watching movies sitting around..nothing fancy. every once in a while we messed around alittle bit..but not very much. most of the time it was just talking and cuddling..once in awhile we'd spend the night together. after about a month of this he took me to dinner on a friday night. we went to a school basketball game after dinner..saturday I went to his football game & we went out with a bunch of freinds that night. we spent the night together after that & went to lunch the next day. I was really busy on that monday so I didnt get a chance to talk to him..but then when i talked to him on tuesday he had a girlfriend....ummm? what happened? all of his freinds said that they hadnt even been talking and they were all really confused. they have been dating for about 2 weeks now and he continues to call me and text me saying how much he likes me and how much he misses me and how much of a mistake he made....i just dont know what to do now? i was really starting to fall for him and i really wish we could have kept hanging out..he keeps saying hes going to break up with his gf...that hes just waiting for her to give him a reason..idk help? (link)
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If this guy wanted to be with you, he would stop seeing the other girl. Two weeks is not any kind of emotional investment that he can't call it off easily.
He is playing you like a fiddle. He wants to keep you on the side so he can continue to fool around with you no strings attached. This other girl likely needed a relationship before she'd let him get in her pants, so he went with it.
Now he's trying to manage seeing two women at the same time. Don't fall for it. Also, in the future, if a guy spends the night at your place, doesn't have to make any effort towards you or make his intentions known, this sort of confusing "hanging out" and moving on will probably happen again.
I'd drop this dude like a bad habit, no matter how much you like him. Guys who really like you back don't date other women. Guys who really like you won't lose the chance to make sure you're their girlfriend and not some other lucky guy's girlfriend.
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In the beginning (like the first four years) I was very into the idea of living together. Now, not so much! Things have changed like my daughter (22) had baby and they live with me right now. I don't want that to change until she is ready to make it completely on her own. I see that my boyfriend might someone who wants to be in control and I am not willing to give up that position. I know he wouldn't be comfortable with my daughter and the baby living with us. I have been married four times before and I am not so good at relationships if they are too close and now I've decided that living together is not the best choice. How do I tell him that I've changed my mind? (link)
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Well, first off he's not going to be happy, so be prepared for disappointment.
I would not bring up the control thing. Rather, tell him your priorities have changed and you really feel the need to focus on your daughter and grandchild right now.
Also tell him that you realize that you may not be interested in living together anymore because you're happier in relationships where you have your own place.
Acknowledge his feelings about this and also be prepared for him to want to end the relationship over this issue. Apologize for leading him to believe this was the direction you wanted for your relationship to go in, but you've changed as a person these past few years.
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I'm married and have only been that way about a month or so.
My "husband" is a SERIOUS neutral party.
He rarely speaks, he rarely gets up and goes anywhere aside from work, and more and more I'm finding out just how different we are.
When we got together he put on a jolly good show, but now that he's got the girl...the show's over folks...
Here is my complication.
I live in the states with him.
My BEST FRIEND, is in love with me and has proposed to me countless amounts of times (and still begs me to move overseas to be with him).
He says, if I get there I won't have to worry about where we live or whatever because he will have it taken care of. He says he KNOWS we're meant to be together and that he can make me the happiest woman in the world. I want to be happy.
I love my best friend, and he knows far more about me than anyone on this earth. He's literally prince charming. (Tall, dark, handsome, kind.)
We have the same tastes and have had our fair share of healthy disagreements.
My "husband" (quotations used to emphasis emotional absence) is insanely jealous? Upset? With the fact that we, being my best friend and I, get along so well. He keeps telling me that he wants me to stop talking to my best friend.
It's now been about 2 months since I've seen my best friend. My "husband" wouldn't let my best friend come to the wedding! This is the longest we've ever been without one another. I miss him a lot.
WHAT DO I DO?!
Annulment?
Divorce?
Just Deal?
My "husband" and I have tried to talk it out, and by try I mean...
I express my feelings as he walks around the house cleaning up or whatever. He then says "I don't give a shit anymore!" or "Whatever! Go do your own thing then!" He's even called me selfish on more than one occasion!
...Help?
If there is any.. (link)
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Why didn't you accept your best friend's proposals when he made them? I don't think you're in love with him, but rather you see him as an out to your marriage.
My advice is to see a marriage counsellor. You've made a lifetime commitment to someone and you need to try your hardest to make this choice work for you.
My guess is you didn't see a pre-marital counsellor before getting married. You and your husband have unresolved issues hurting your marriage. You need them laid out on the table and discussed openly.
1. his jealousy
2. your male best friend who is in love with you
3. the lack of romance and emotions
Your husband is rightly seeing this best friend of yours as a threat to his marriage. And it is a threat, isn't it? This man loves you and wants you to leave your husband. So you can see why your husband would not be keen on the friendship.
Seriously, talk this over with a therapist. No marriage, no matter how short, should be cast aside because of poor communication.
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Me: 14/F
Him: 15/M
Okay, I have JUST turned 14 and I have no experience with boys. I've liked boys but I have always wanted to wait to date an all that. Well I really like this boy and I think he could be my first boyfriend. But the problem is I have never made out... Actually, I've never even kissed... This boy seems really sweet and knows I've never had a boyfriend which I hope means he knows that I'm not experienced at all. If he knows this, shouldn't he be uninterested? And if he doesn't, won't he be disappointed? He's pretty experienced and I don't know what he'll expect or if he'll I don't know, not want me? Once he finds out that I don't know what to do... Help? (link)
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14 is really young. It's not a negative thing against you that you're inexperienced. I didn't have my first kiss until I was 16. Everyone's different.
Try not to put so much pressure on yourself. And no, inexperience should not turn a guy off. You are who you are. A male's interest isn't based on what they think a girl's skill level is going to be, but is based on how pretty they think she is, how fun she is to be around, how happy she makes him, how interesting he thinks she is...
Don't worry about experience. It will come in time and with the right boys. Remind yourself that you have chosen not to dive into dating super young (like 12?) and that you're a normal girl who can figure out dating just like everyone else.
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for awhile and have not had any kind of sex. I am now getting more and more comfortable every time I hangout with him. We have been talking about having oral sex for awhile but im just soo nervous. How do I get passed my nerves? I need help! I have only done this once and I was drunk. He has had alot of experience and I havent had any. Maybe thats why im scared. I dont know I just need some serious help! (link)
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I don't think you sound ready. You'll know you are when you're not scared.
But there's something that concerns me. What about you receiving oral sex? Before giving it, you need to be getting it. This can't be just about his needs and his expectations.
Giving oral is more intimate than intercourse because it's totally about giving. If you're going to go down that road, you're not going to be ready until you're comfortable receiving pleasure first.
Why? Because having a sex life means you give AND take. Sex is reciprocal.
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i'm asking both guys/girls for advice on this subject. so, my boyfriend and i have been heating things up lately, (having sex, naked makeout sessions, etc.) but i've been looking for new ways to turn him on while we're making out/laying near each other. so girls, tell me your dirty little tricks to get him horny, and guys, tell me what you like. (eg. kissing tricks, what to do with my hands?) thanks, anything will help. [: (link)
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While you're having sex, trying telling him a fantasy you have to excite his imagination.
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I like this person and he is all about just having me as a friend with bennifet.. I had sex with him once and he said it was ok. I dont think he is going to come around again. I really do like him but I dont think I am his type because he is into the skinny weman. I am thick.. I would want some type of a relactionship with him. Is there something I can do to get his attenction?? I know by writting this it is very stupid of me to like something like this but I know I would be good for him but he doesnt see it. (link)
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Never have sex with a man to try to get him to like you. It will never work. He will only grow closer to you if he's already falling in love.
Having sex too soon has given him what he wants out of you and he'll likely keep taking what he can get out of you while giving the least effort possible.
This is a road to heartache. Forget this man.
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I'm 13(m) and I might be going over to my crushes house this weekend and I want to find out if she likes me the way I like her. To do that without asking her anything, dont give me don't do it, it's wrong, I want to read her diary to see if she talks about me or not, but I need to know where some places are that she might keep her diary. What I'm trying to ask is, what are some places girls hide or put their diaries and if theres a key to it where are some places girls hide or put that key? (link)
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If this girl ever discovers you read her diary, not only will she hate you, but she'll likely tell all her friends and they'll hate you too. And then you'll be the guy who reads diaries and no girl will want to go out with you.
And if you are caught looking through her stuff (there is a very good chance of this happening) then she's going to think you are creepy, and again will tell all her friends and you'll be the guy who snoops through girls personal stuff and no girl will want to date you.
This is a terrible idea. If you want to grow into a man women will want, you need to develop your integrity. Girls like confidence. If you tell her how you feel and that you want to go out with her, odds are she'll be impressed.
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