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hi i had sex with a guy i was dating like two or three months ago and i was taking the pill but the day after i ran out and then im just now like a week ago getting back on it but im always tired i get the hickups all the time i fee weak i feel sick i was eating dinner with my mom it was this stuff i use to like and as soon as i smelled it it made my belly turn and i hjust couldnt eat but i took a test a week after we had sex could it be the pill doing that to me ? i hada miscarriage before when i1st started taking the pill but i didnt know i was pregnant until it was too lated and im getting sharp pains that start at my belly button and it shoots all the way down my vag i have no idea what it is but i had the pain before but i was also on the pill before when i got the pain to so idk if im pregnant the test said i wasnt so i didnt stop taking the pill and i dont want to talk to my mom about it she would get mad that im on the pill she got mad when she found out my 35 year old sister was on it she doesnt like it cause what can happen when you on it and she also got pregnant with my brother on it so please help thanks alot
megan
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i advice you to keep taking a few more pregnecy test and if if says that your not pregnet then i mean you have nothing to worry about.
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Take another test. Chances are you aren't, since the first one was negative. But it wouldn't hurt to be sure. I had a similar experiance with my boyfriend and a pregnancy scare. I got really paranoid and was freaking out for a week for no reason. Stay calm and take another test if you need the reassurance :)
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Hey there,
If your pregnancy test said you weren't pregnant, you likely aren't.. but you never know, there are those odd cases. I think that the pill could be making you feel different towards foods you like or else your diaphragm could be irritated. You can have hiccups from eating too quickly, feeling nervous or excited, or by having a little irritation in your diaphragm. Birth control can have side affects such as changing hormones, feeling sick at times, having depression, changing of your periods, and making you feel tired. If you are having sharp pains in your stomach, I would go see a doctor. They know more than myself.
I used to have a sharp pain where you mention having yours, and at first the doctors thought I might of had appendicitis but it just turned out that my period was causing this pain and it eventually went away. It was extremely painful, I was in tears. Have a warm bath or use a warm damp cloth to soothe it. You likely have pain because of your period like I did. The only other reason I could think of why you would have it, is because you may have a non-cancerous liver tumour. No worries though, it is just a thought, cause I heard about people that have had sharp pains there and happened to have this. It is not too common, but if you continue to have pain there for several days, I would definately go see a doctor.
As for being on the pill, there isn't really any records of birth control harming a baby if you happen to be pregnant and still continue taking it. Sorry to hear about the miscarriage and I hope that next time you can find out right away whether you are pregnant or not. If you know you feel the symptoms and even if the pregnancy test says 'no' the first time, I would still check a few days later with another tester... just in case.
I wouldn't tell your mom that you are on the pill right away, but maybe eventually you will have to. It does come with side effects, but its always better to be safe then sorry <3
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Okay, you have a lot of questions here. I'll address them as best I can.
1. Have you been getting your period since the last time you had sex? If the last time you had sex was two or three months ago with that guy, and you've had your period since then, we can eliminate pregnancy as a concern. However, when you take a pregnancy test, you need to wait until your period is actually late for it to be an accurate test. Just keep that in mind for the future.
2. Hiccups are not a sign of any known reproductive issue.
3. Feeling weak and sick all the time is a good reason to go to the doctor. Nausea is a sign of pregnancy, but like I said, if you're getting your period (you don't mention whether or not you are) then you're not pregnant.
4. Sharp pains in your belly button that shoots down your vagina is a serious concern, coupled with your stomach pains and weakness. I can't tell you if the pill is the culprit, but you need to see a doctor who can tell you.
5. If you don't want to tell your mother about being on the pill, at least tell her about the pain you're in and that you want a doctor's appointment. You can refrain from mentioning your theory of it being the pill, because really you don't know if that's the cause.
6. Consider asking your doctor to talk to your mother about the pill. The pill is a valuable asset to any sexually active woman and its benefits most often outweigh the risks.
7. You can get pregnant on the pill, yes. When used correctly, 1 in 1,000 women will conceive a year. When subject to typical use, the effectiveness is closer to 3 in 100, which is still better than 6 out of 10 chances of pregnancy when you use nothing.
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Hello.
If I were you I would take another pregnancy test. I mean, you took a pregnancy test, but you took it really soon. At this point the results would be more reliable. You don't need to tell your mother yet, but taking the test would definitely give you your answer. Based on the symptoms that you have been having, it certainly is possible that you are pregnant. Please take another test and, if you are pregnant, please tell your mother. Even if she gets upset, you will really need her support through this.
Good luck and take care.
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If you didn't stop taking the pill until after you two had already had sex, then you're probably not pregnant. There's always a small chance, though, so I wouldn't completely rule it out yet. The pains in your stomach don't sound normal, though. Unfortunately, I can't offer much advice on this except that you should really see a doctor. If your mom has to take you to the doctor, just tell her you're having bad pains in your stomach. You don't necessarily have to mention anything about the birth control. But if it comes down to it, your health and safety are much more important than not upsetting your mom by being on birth control, so go to a doctor as soon as possible.
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Just know, whenever you have sex, its a risk. But, I think you have realized it.
I am also on the pill, but I have only taken one brand of them. You have to test out different brands that leave you with the least side affects. The hickups, feeling weak and the loss of appetite sound like side affects of the pill. Try a different brand, but before that- TELL YOUR MOM. Sure, she might be a little mad you went behind her back, but she can help you with finding a good brand for you. As far as the sharp pains, i would see a doctor. They don't sound too pleasant and can only really be cured and examined by a doctor.
Talk to your mom and see your doctor. For the time being, when the pains come, put a heating pad on your stomach, and take advil. It will heal the pain temporarily.
Hope I helped and ask me anything else you need!
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