I'm about 5 foot 7 and 13 years old, but i sound a lot older then i am. I'm a brunette with green eyes. I've been wanting to have an advice column forever and i finally made one. I think i give good advice and i hope i can help everyone. I can answer pretty much any question. Esspecially about friendship, love lives, and music (i'm a guitar player) I never give useless answers so feel free to ask anything!
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ok well this ?????? really isnt for me its for my best friend but anywayz. he is having REALLY BIG Trouble wid his gurl friend like i think she is prude or sumthin b/c they have been going out for 6months & they havnt hugged,kissed,made out or anything yet & like today @ da movies he tried to hold her hand & kiss her but she pulled away & leaned away from him da WHOLE! MOVIE! u no the ironiclly thing is me & my g/f r totally fine l0l we r perfect for each otha but anywayz i need some advice to help my frined b/c hes thinkin bout breaking ^ wid her this is serious please help! i'll give u a 5!
sincerely ANTHONY me & my friend r both m/13! (link)
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Tell your friend to ask his gf why she isn't comfortable with getting close to him. She either doesn't like him or is scared to get too close. Hope i helped!
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Alot of people are starting to say that my boyfriend doesn't care about me very much. He is always putting his arm round me and hugging me but he can be really insensitive whenever I'm upset. He says it's just because he isn't good in those situations but other people are saying different. What should I do? (link)
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I'd believe ur bf. He might make it look like he doesn't care, so ppl will tell u he doesn't. But if he says he just isn't good at that kinda thing, then beleive him. Hope i helped!
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Last night I found out my bf did drugs. He never told me or anything but they were talking about it and my friend told me. I also found out that he was ganna dump me because he did it. It really made me mad. Like its not the fact that he does it, but the fact that he never told me about it. He knows i dont agree with that stuff so what should i do because i dont want him keeping stuff from me. (link)
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Get away from him! He might rape you or something. I know it sounds crazy, but most of the guys who do drugs rape ppl. Just dump him and hurry!
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okay so my boyfriend we have been dating for about 3 months now and we talk on the phone constantly! i mean i really love him but i have a life and i dont have time to just talk to him for hours every night! and like when he calls he barley has n e thing to say! wut should i do? i dont wanna break up with him but i mean it will b really hard to tell him not to call me n e more!
aahhh please help me sooon!! b4 he calls again!! lol jk but yea i need advice soon (link)
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If you have caller ID, when he calls at a bad time. Dont answer. But it sounds like u have a good catch, not many guys will call often.
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Hey, I have a scenario for you all. female responses would help the best, I have this friend at church, that I hardly talk to, and in the last 3 day,s we have gotten closer, she gave me her cell number and we talk all the time. So I told her 3 day's ago that we should hang out, and she said yeah, we should. So today, saturday, Im gonna call her and find out what time to pick her up, and find out where she lives. Since it's just me and her, and we have gotten closer, what do u think this means? She just wants to be closer friends, or is this a date and we're not just hangin out? what do u think, anyone help me? (link)
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It sounds like she's interested. When she's in the car or sitting next to you or something. If she's leaning towards you, even slightly, she likes you. If she's sitting straight, she's scared to make a move or anything. If she's leaning away from you, she's very uncomfortable. Hope i helped!
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Ok, i was at sonic and a really hot girl brought the food out to me. Ive never seen her before in my life, but i got the nerve to ask he for her number. and she actually gave it to me. Ok now im stumped. What do i do? Should i call her n ask her out, or what? help plz. (link)
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YES GO FOR IT!! If she actually gave u her number, most likely she WANTED you to call her. Dont wait too long to call. Girls hate it when guys dont call. Hope i helped!
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Ok, well my good friend has a boyfriend, I've known her since I was 6 and her and her bf go on the bus. And it turns out that now I have feelings for this boy and it doesn't go away, and I'm starting to get jelous when he kisses her and things. Am I a bad friend, what should I do? (link)
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You're not a bad friend, i had the same problem. If you like him, you like him. You can't control your feelings. I wouldn't make a move or anything but they might not last, and if they dont, hint to the guy that u like him. You might not think it's good to like a guy that ur friend went out with, but u have to do what makes you happy. Hope i helped!
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I talk to the guy I like alot on AIM and alot in school. We're great friends but it seems like I always IM HIM! I don't know if he doesn't want to talk to me but when I IM him we usually get into long conversations but he never starts them. It's always me. Is this a hint he doesn't want to talk to me? If it then why do we always talk up a storm? Pleae help!!
x0x0x Hopelessly Devoted
13/F (link)
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IT might just mean that he wants YOU to start the convo b/c he's afraid he'll look stupid if he says hi first. Hope i helped!
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can you be in love in 7th grade? i mean, if you think about this person a lot and stuff, is it love? is love even possible in 7th grade? (link)
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well, i dont think it really matters about age. If your too young, u wont be sure what love really is. I kno u think about him a lot, but love is wanting to spend your life with a person. wanting to always be with them. And love can't work if only u love him. he has to love you for it to be TRUE love. It's not imppossible to be in love in 7th grade, but i doubt that it's true. You're still a kid, think about things more. Do you think you're really in love? Hope i helped!
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why is it that every time you are realy in love with someone they go and break your heart? (link)
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It seems like u haven't fallen in love with the right guy yet. When you do, he won't break your heart, but mend it. Hope i helped!
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hey i went out wit this kid tom and we went out for almost 2 months and i really liked him but i broke up wit him twice and we havent gne out since n now wen i think about it i didnt realy like him like that i didnt even make out wit him it felt wrong because i saw him making out wit my friends for no reason before at parties bu that was before we went out and anyways i went out wit this kid matt after him for 3 weeks and i really eally like him like i think it might even be love i cant stop thinking about him i broke up wit him though because i had no time to see him and he understands and we still hang out and he messages me on his phone calls me flirts wit me in school anything u kno i never seen him wit a girl an maybe thats why i htink mor of him i dunno i need ur help i didnt make out wit him yet either well our tongues touched but it was for a sec he was wasted so i didnt want to do anything so help me if u can thanks i rate really good but i wanna know do i feel this way about him cause i didnt se him wit a girl b4 or becuase i really like him and should i make a move on him and if yes then wat???
thanks for reading i rate good xoxo toodles (link)
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The first guy seems a lil more easy then the second. MAtt seems like a good guy and wont go to fast. Unlike the first dude who was making out with all of ur friends. I think you like Matt b/c of that and u have good taste to feel that way. I'd stick with Matt and ask him out again. I kno u dont really have time, but i'd get him back b4 he gets taken. Hope i helped!
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Okay, There's This Kid Named Jacob That I Really Really Like. Problem Is, I Live In Pennsylvania And He Lives In Florida! I Didn't Meet Him In A Chat Or Anything, My Friend From School Moved From Florida And Knew Him. He Visits Pennsylvania A Couple Times A Year To Visit His Friend!! And He Said He Really Likes Me And He's Just All Confused Cuz He Really Wants To Date Me And Stuff! I Like Him Alot.. And I'd Be Able To Meet Him Eventually. And I Don't Mind Long Distance Relationships, Do You Think This Is Okay?? (link)
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i wouldn't get too in to it. But if ur like in love with him, it's worth it. But if ur not, and it's just school love, then dont do it. Long distance relationships almost never work. ALMOST! Hope i helped!
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my boyfriend wont look at me straight when i talk ta him or he will just leave me on hold for a long time when eva im talkn' ta him on tha phone.1 day he asked me was i cheating on him and i told him NO WAY bcuz i would neva eva do a such thing like that but i neva asked him was he cheating on me.cause when i call him he hangs up on me on purpose but when he calls me i do tha same u kno. i kno its wrong but if any1 kno's if thats actually a sign of him cheating, bcuz he makes me cry and wanna hang up on him just pleaze HELP and i will really appreciate if u dont delete this and only gurls will answer this question thanxxxxx
noh hatas
and i rate very high (link)
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Just ask him if he's cheating on you. Say that if he was, it would hurt. But lying would hurt even more so ask him to tell the truth. Hope i helped!
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like a couple weeks ago i thought a lot of girls were hot and i liked 2 poeple but now i dont and i dont relly think those people r hot either and i look for somebody u no like my friends that i thought was got but i dont now i mean i like girl of coures but i just cant find anybody speacil (link)
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u shouldn't like girls for their looks... but u'll find sumone. The right girl will cum when u least expect it. Just open ur eyes to the girls who aren't hot, or pretty or anything.
Hope i helped!
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well my boyfriend is sweet and everything but he is too sweet , I mean he watches out for me and he said that I was the only one in the world for him , he even promised that he didnt like no other gurls like cheerleaders and movie stars , stuff like that, but I cant stand it any more! he calls to check on me at 4:00am! what do i do ?
I dont want to break his heart but I need some time alone, plz HELP!!!! (link)
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for one, tell him not to call so early. And dont be all yelling at him or anything. Just tell him calmly that sum of the things he's doing are a little... extreme. if he rally loves u, he'll understand. Hope i helped!
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ok i like this guy that all my friends think is a dork and they dont know i have a crush on him. you see i've started going to this school a couple of monthes ago and well i am sorta dignosed with paranoia. I have a real hard time opening up to people cuz my experience at my one other school and when i was there people that i thought were my friends told the whole grade who i liked and when it happened to them they didn't care to much but i did and now i'm afraid of telling my new friends about my crush and what they'll say. PLEASE HELP!
P.S. i'm really shy 2 so that might play into all this but i dont know ;)and i'm a 14 yr old female (link)
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If you can really trust them, tell them. Buti recomend that u only tell ur closest friend and see how she reacts. If she reacts well, i still think u should keep it between u and her but if u trust another friend, u can tell them. But dont tell a lot of ppl. Not everyone is a good secret keeper so dont forget to be wise. GOOD LUCK!
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my boy friend is always calling my bf a bitch..shes like awsome though and i tell him not to call her that infront of me..but he still does..what do i do?
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try calmly to tell him to stop again. Then if that doesn't work, tell him if he doesn't stop dissing ur friend, then it's over. Friends are more important then guys.
Hope i helped!
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Hey.. This is pretty general. What are some basic signs that a guy likes you? (link)
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If he flirts, smiles at u constantly, and talks to u a lot. This might mean he's just a flirty friend, but most of the signs point to a guy liking u. hope i helped!
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Okay, I like this guy we will call him M. I only have one class with him, but he sits at my table so we talk all the time. So I asked my friend K to see what he thought of me and K was like M said you were cool and he doesn't know if he like likes you and he doesn't know you that well. So I was talking to one of my friends online and hes like you should go for it and ask him out. I just don't want to get hurt again so quickly after my last crush. I don't want to rush things but I really want a b/f. What do you think I should do?
thanks
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UR just like me. I got hurt by a crush last year. I think u should wait a lil and get to kno him more, and when the time is right, make the move. Unless he makes it first. Just wait a little, and when u think the time is right, just move in and ask him out. i think it'll work. Hope i helped!
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ok i no x mas is still not that near but also not that far and i have NO IDEA what 2 get him i mean i no him and all but i dont no what to get him guys r so hard 2 shop 4 a lil help... please (link)
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A favorite of mine is to burn a cd of all of his favorite songs. IF you dont really kno any of his fav songs, a gift card to Best buy or Borders (for music and movies) is always a good choice. But think of an inside joke if u have one and try to get a funny little thing. And as a classic, a pair of boxers is always fun. I recomend Mickey Mouse prints. lol
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