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Last night I found out my bf did drugs. He never told me or anything but they were talking about it and my friend told me. I also found out that he was ganna dump me because he did it. It really made me mad. Like its not the fact that he does it, but the fact that he never told me about it. He knows i dont agree with that stuff so what should i do because i dont want him keeping stuff from me.
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You need to tell him it's okay to tell you anything. I'm strongly against drugs, and my guy used to do weed. He told me only after I reminded him that he could tell me anything and I'd rather hear things from him than from other people. He also knows I don't want him keeping anything from me, and you need to tell your guy the same thing. If he doesn't know that, he needs to. Communication is a HUGE problem in relationships nowadays. What should you do? Tell him what you just told us. That finding out all that stuff from other people makes you mad. Just tell him everything, tell him how you feel, and what you want him to do - or not to do - in this relationship. No one's psychic, so you have to tell him how it has to be.
I hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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Talk to him.. Its the best thing to do really. I was in this situation and you just need to talk to them and tell them how them doing drugs makes you feel. Ask him if what your friend said was true and tell him if he is dumping you cause he made a mistake then he is making a HUGE one by dumping you. please rate me ~Bee~!
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this guy is an ass! he had sex and never told you!oh dump this loser hes not good enough for you!
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Get away from him! He might rape you or something. I know it sounds crazy, but most of the guys who do drugs rape ppl. Just dump him and hurry!
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he most likely didn't tell you because he knew you werren't up for the whole drugs thing. i suggest you keep with your inside sourceyour friend) for information about his problem. he's probably not going to come straight out and tell you he's doing drugs unless you confront him about it. just don't get involved in his drugs. if it wasn't him who told you he was going to dump you than it may not be true because people have a tendancy to make stuff up, so don't believe it until you hear it from him and(i hope you don't).good luck & hope i helped!
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*
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Personally, this guy doesn't seem that great. If he keeps something so important from you, then how can you trust him when things could get worse. I mean honesty is the base of a serious relationship. Maybe you two should take a break form each other, see other people. When he is clean and ready to tell the truth, talk to him and tell him how you feel. Then maybe your relationship will be ok.
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RELATIONSHIPS CAN NEVER WORK IF TRUST IS BROKEN i think that if you feel like you cant trust him.. then you should call it quits... if he does this bad stuff and never tells you.. thats not a good sign and things will only get worse for you. sorry hun...hope i helped !
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ok..i am very fuddy duddy about drugs. See even if you are not doing them..you could get into trouble.(the b/f gets caught and the WIGGED out parentals think you do it to) Like alcohol sometimes people get into BIG trouble and believe me I am not one of those adults who preach.
But if he did not come clean about it to you..that means he knows that you are not cool about it. So yes I would be mad and tell him this is his last chance..Either he is honest with you from now on..as this it seems to me is what you really are upset with..or your guys are trough.But people that do drugs are usally very selfish..so do not be surprised if he chooses the drugs over you.
So..force the issue only if you are ready and able to accept a life w/o him..if not..just realize that durgs do change people...
I feel for you...I hope it works out for you.
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Just talk to him& tell him exactly how you feel. Let him know you really don't agree with that kinda thing, but you aren't gunna make him stop. I'm not sure why he would break up with you b/c HE did it? Just tell him that no matter what the situation, you don't want ihm to keep things from you& that you want him to be completely honest with you. Hope I helped! -Amber
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