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what should I do?
Okay, I like this guy we will call him M. I only have one class with him, but he sits at my table so we talk all the time. So I asked my friend K to see what he thought of me and K was like M said you were cool and he doesn't know if he like likes you and he doesn't know you that well. So I was talking to one of my friends online and hes like you should go for it and ask him out. I just don't want to get hurt again so quickly after my last crush. I don't want to rush things but I really want a b/f. What do you think I should do?
thanks
<3333333 rachey
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ask him for his screen name or phone number adn talk to him but say its for home work or somethign and then ask him how he likes the class you two have together then go from there
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well he said he DOESNT NO U TAHT WELL so idk if i woudl ask him out get 2 no him a lil more mayb invite him sumwere w. friends
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aSk HiM oUt iF yOu LiKe HiM...
and it seems like you do so GO FOR IT
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Maybe you can be friends with him for a while. Even if he doesn't like you right now he might once he knows you a lil better as a friend. If he does already, excellent. Being friends is just another way to hang out and avoid being teased. As many cheesy advice givers say, "follow your heart."
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- The d0rk1e ArchAngel
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AAWWWWW sweetie! i know how you feel! dont do anything that will have a chance of you getting hurt! take it slow and enjoy it! start with a hi then sitting next to him then flirt and keep on going! enjoy it and get to know him really! dont ask him out until you feel he does like you or he knows you well! dont be act desperate or shy! be confident!
good luck!
liza
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UR just like me. I got hurt by a crush last year. I think u should wait a lil and get to kno him more, and when the time is right, make the move. Unless he makes it first. Just wait a little, and when u think the time is right, just move in and ask him out. i think it'll work. Hope i helped!
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Hi Sweetie,
God I see more than one problem. Personally I understand your feelings and motives. But... when I look at them as logicme I see it hopeless. I'm sorry for saying this sweetie but first you have to think about just what you feel for this guy. I mean it's okay to feel bummed out about a crush rejecting you or whatever but... it's not supposed to be that big of a deal. (It's more of a self-esteem thing than a loss thing.) I'm only assuming your last crush was a big deal although you didn't give details. if I misunderstood something I'm really sorry, I did not mean to.
To get hurt feeling loss you have to have an emotional attatchment. Most crushes are strict infatuation and like I said it's just a self-esteem issue when you get rejected. Not a heartbreak.
Not rushing things is good. It seems to me you're smart just... in a stage in life when you want to feel attractive and more than a friend to someone (Crap, I sound like a counsler!) What you should do is get to know the guy more.. as just friends. There may be things about him you don't like. You shouldn't settle because you deserve a nice guy. Get to know him will also give him the chance he'll get to know you. He may start liking you and he'll be asking YOU out and you'll be the one "considering" it.
Hope you find answers. Good luck! Remember: you deserve a nice guy. Best wishes to you and this guy. May you be good friends and perhaps sometime in the near future even more than that. If not may you both find happiness somehow. ~Blessed Be...
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ask him out but just as friends..be like "do u wanna hang out sometime with a bunch of my friends" and get to know him better that way. Once you both get to know eachother..then you could probably see if there is something or not. Just be patient and good luck.
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