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does he care?
Alot of people are starting to say that my boyfriend doesn't care about me very much. He is always putting his arm round me and hugging me but he can be really insensitive whenever I'm upset. He says it's just because he isn't good in those situations but other people are saying different. What should I do?
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I think they are just saying that..don't go for whatever they say just go with whats in your heart...He cares for you but probably on when your upset he doesn't really know how to comfort you in a way!!! All boys do this usually!!! they'd back off when your depressed but then again they're some that just comfort you hug you and all but he can do that stuff he might not know the words to say to comfort you!!!
Hoped I helped
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Kelly
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I'd believe ur bf. He might make it look like he doesn't care, so ppl will tell u he doesn't. But if he says he just isn't good at that kinda thing, then beleive him. Hope i helped!
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thats a reallly difficult sitation your in.. and i know you probably dont know who to believe. you might just have to ler it go and see where things end up, this could mean dont get to attached to him until you know that he still cares about you.. guys are really insenstive towards girls crying when theyre younger? how old are you? because i know when i cry my boyfriend comfurts me and tells me not to cry.. overall though guys are really big jerks hun so dont get all bent outta shape, but deffintly look into it and see if you think he really cares anymore.. Maybe ask some of your or his bestfriends to ask him if he still cares about you!! Goodluck!
-Megan*
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my friend had the same problem. ask him if he still feels the same about u. if he gives a questionable answer then leave him. if he says yes give him another chance. good luck i hope everything works out for you!
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guys aren't exactly good with handling girls' feelings. he might not want to get caught up in the drama. and don't listen to other people and do not repeat what other people say. believe me, i know from experience. if you repeat what other people say, they could say you said it and your boyfriend might end up breaking up with you if word gets to him. just don't pay attention to what other people say. hope i helped!
xoxo *MiZZ niCoLe LYnn*
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No offence to guys but a lot of them arent good at those things. It has a lot to do with the age of them. But if he can put his arm around you and hug you when you are not sad, then he should be able to do that when you are sad. Then agian he could be shy and he could be telling the truth because he might feel bad that your sad and doesnt know what to do. He cares enough to go out with you and put his arms around you. I woudlnt litsen to yours friends right now. This isnt between them and they dont know anything at all except the little things that they see. I would believe your boyfriend. Good luck.. gbye
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dont listen to what other people have to say! what do they know anywayz? there not the ones going out with them. there just those gay rumors who only gay people believe. unless hes the one whos saying he doesnt care about u them it isnt true. just tell those people to f*ck off and spend time wit ur baby! lol good luck
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First of all what is between you and your guy..is just that..ok..YOUR friends HAVE nothing to do with your things wiht your guy.Jeez tell them to go meddle in someone else's lives. G/f and b/f is HARD enought without other trying to INTERPRET your emotions.
So listen to your guy...and to only him...
if your buddies need some advice to give..tell them to sign up here and give some to other people..just NOT you.
Sounds to me that your guys is totally normal..ok adnif not..it is up to YOu and him to do something about it.
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