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♥ Hey everyone, my names Michele and im 17 years young. I love to give advice to everyone and i usually have the anwsers to almost any question! Please dont be shy (I wont bite) and ask any question that you need anwsered! Feel free to IM me if you have a question you really need anwsered fast. The picture i have is not of me its just a regualar picture that i pimped out!!


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so yesterday i met this guy and he lives a good 20 mins away, so i have his sn and im talking to him on it...but idk what to talk about with him?
what are some good "getting to know you" questions and topics to talk about with him ?

thanks

The best thing you can do is ask
"wanna play 21 questions"
Its pretty much the best way to get to know some1

How many girlfriends have you had?
What movies do you like?
What sports do you play?

You can pretty much ask him andything!!

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hey i was thinking of going christmas shopping tomorroww and i was thinking of buying a perfume for my self =] Do you have perfume ideas that would attract guyss =] and would make me smell good?? THANK YOU!

Princess by Vera Wang
It is to die for
Its kinda expensive...But i mean if your going Christmas shopping maybe you can splurge??

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hi i'm victoria.um i was wondering if you have any advice on what to do about going out with an 8th grader when your in 6th grade.i like an 8th grader but i can't ask him out cause i am too shy.what should i do?Plese resond back?thanks.Victoria215

Hmmm... well like there is a little age difference
but i think you need to hang out with him a lot not skalkerish though..like talk to him online and ask him what he is doing over the weekend and just start random convos... and when you get more confortable tlaking to him like drop hints that you like him....say "ohh well in single and i like some1" talking to him is the first step.... and dont let the age difference bother you..... love doesnt have an age difference!!!
GOOD LUCK!
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Dear Ask me247,

Im having a hard time choosing what i should do on this. You see, I have this friend, and I'm in love with her. Ive loved her since we began to talk. Shes been my best friend for a while now and yeah, we have our ups and downs and such matters, but nothing really bad. Shes suffers from alot of things...Depression, and a bad homelife make her the person she is today. But i love her anyway. It seems that when your friends with her, nothing is as it seems. When we were in the beginging of our friendship, she started to liek me, and it was mutual, but then it just disappeared. Then she told me she loved me. But once again it just disappeared. I mean yeah, i still love her, but it seems she is playing games. I mean now she is treating me like shit. Ive been there for her through everything that has happened to her and ive been the only one whos ever stuck by her side. And to repay me with being a bitch to me. I measn wtf is that? I got so pissed at her that i told her i hated her, and i kno she is sad about it but she told me that she was gone for good. But right before she stopped tlkn to me, she said that she had always loved me. Now when she said that my heart sunk, and i knew i had made a big mistake. I still love her but i jus tdont kno what to do. I mean everyone knows i hate her, well they think it, but i do hate her. But i love her at the the same time. I guess in this case its loves fault...its to complicated. But i really need to kno if i should say" hey, i still love you but we need to work this out" and be friends again. But if i do then i look like a jackass to everyone who i told that i hated her. But if i dont tell her then i loose my best friend and a girl that i love with my whole heart. Im so upset about this, its just eating away at me and thats all i can think about. Please help me.

P.S. And yes michele you probably already kno who this is...in fact I kno that you kno who this is. But i dont wanna make a big deal outta it and i needed to get it off of my chest before I seriously killed myself. You can talk to me about it later i guess.

O Wow! Okay i think i can give you some advice right now but most of it im gunna have to tell you online one on one... but i think you have to tell this gurl that you still love her i mean i know you are going into 8th grade and like youll have to spend another whole year with her and that wont be good if theres bad vibes between you to... and i dont think ur ur a jackass and i know for sure that she wont think that because i know she still loves you like a brother and she wants to still be your friend because you have always beeen there and she honostly loves you but shes just not showing it...but thats just how she it....and who cares what other ppl think the only person that should matter in this case is her.. well ill talk to you more bout this in person

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okay so my boyfriend wants to have sex but i don't..i love him so much but he says hes gunna break up wit me what do i do

I think that if your boyfrend is going to break up with you just because u wont have sex with him that he is just useing you and he doesnt really love you.. but i think i you should tlak to him about it and see what he says but if he does break up wit you it mnight accually be for the better... But if you feel you are reay to do that then i guess thats your desion

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What are some tips to getting the guy you want to want you?

Ummm.. i suggest just being yourself around hiim and if he really does like you then he'll ask you out but if you change yourself your realationship is prettty much based on a lie... but i do suggest flirting with him more and you two talking more and you guys just hanging out 1 on 1 so you can accually talk to him

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ok well u no who i am but anyway there are these 2 people i lik a lot n they lik me but 1 is goin back out with his ex and the other 1 i will barley get 2 c n i want them both at the same time i jus dont no wt 2 do ?

Okay 1st of all you CANT have both of them ou have to pick one and stick with him... do not keep going back and forth between the two because that will only hurt your relationship with both of them.. i think you should pick out the qualities of both of them and if that means making out a list then i think you should do it. But befor you go any further with either of the relationships you HAVE to have made a choice a real firm desion and you have to stick with that desion. I think if one of them is going out with another girl they might not like you that much anymore or he is trying to make you jelous and even though you can see one of them doesnt mean you cant still talk to them alot but i do understajd that you want to see him.. you have to make a desion here

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hey...so the guy i like..hes like really punk..but im really prep..and all of his friends are gonna be all like omg! i cant belive a prep like youu! and from there on idk what i should do

Well i mean if this guy accually like you it shouldnt matter what his friends say... he should go with his heart not by what his friends say and if he goes with what his friends say he obiously doesnt like you like that. Also if they were his true friends they should support him no matter what desion he makes. I think you should tell him about your feeling and if he listens to his heart mabey you two can become more than friends.. but if he doesnt wanna be more still be his friend and dont let that interfer with your friendship

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me & my boyfriend are great together we`ve been together for 4 months and everything is great its just im afraid that were not gonna be together for a long time & i really want to be ; i mean we talk about this a lot how were gonna be together forever and he says hes never gonna leave me and stuff but i just wouldnt know what to do if we broke up. please help

Well i mean if he is talking to you about it he obiously isnt going to do it any time soon because if he was going to he wouldnt talk about being together forever... but if he did break up with you then its going to be hard for you because i can tell that you accually like him but you have to try to move on as quickly as possible.. but i dont mean just get some random guy i mean wait a few days or possible weeks to see if anything might happen between you and your ex... but dont wait around forever... also it would help you deal with losing him if ou still kept him as a friend or better yet your best friend because if you know that he is your friend you might not want to be anything mope

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i have a guy friend who i wanna b more than friends wit. We went out once but i found out he cheated on me but it turned out it was all lies. I told him i still like him n i wanna go bk out but hes already got a gf. It makes me sad b cause i really liked him. Now he never calls me. This always happens 2 me. It seems like love has turned its bk on me.

what should i do??
*** teary eyes ***

Well i think that if this boy doesnt want to be more than friends with you rigth now i think you should try to become better friends with him and when him and his new girlfriend break upi you be there for him the whole time and mabey he'll wanna be more than juust friends.... you need to be the one to call him every once in a while but dont be like stalking him at all and just like tlak to him online and stuff...When you say you think love has turned its back on you i think you just need to wait for the rigth guy to come to you and mabey this guy is the right guy and mabey you should mabey wait for him because mabey he did love you but mabey he thought you didnt trust him so you need to get that trust back to normal and i think you need to become good friends first and then try to become more i mean he might be reluctant to get into a further realtionship because of what happend but just give him time thats all he needs

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Ok, my best friend, a wonderful beautiful girl. I'm in love with her, she knows i'm in love with her, but she's dating someone else, she refuses to tell me how she feels, she also refuses to tell. I'm 15 going on 16, she's 14 going on 15. I'd do just about anything to be with her. I'm a musician right now and that is my future but for her i'd give it up just to be able to hold her in my arms and kiss her for an instant. What should I do, how can i get her back?

Well hey if you honostly feel this way about her yoou need to tell her ASAP!!! but i mean you might want to tel her in a letter so she can find out all the information withought jumping to conclusions..... be super nice to her!!!!I mean if she loves you they way you love her i think she relize it and talk to you and if she wont express to you now she might be hiding her feelings about you but i mean if she reads the letter she might be ready to tlak to you


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Askme247

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I am 146 lbs. and am only five feet tall. I recently started a new diet and joined a gym. My boyfriend has been VERY supportive of me through this. I recently said something(dont remember though) that brought up a conversation and he said "I dont think you're fat..you're just big boned" ..and i got soooo mad...then he said he was just kidding. Should i be hurt by this??

Okay the joke about not being fat just big boned is from South Park.... dont be offended he probably just heard it on there... and the other one guys like big butts. that almost like a compliment!!!!!

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Soo how do i no when theres TOO much love in the relationship? I mean ... Im kinda ready to take time off and spend a night by myself. I mean i spend everyday with my bf. It wasnt a problem till now?

Why am i feeling this way?

Trust me nothing is wrong... just go tell your boyfriend that you are goin out with your girls or that you might just want to stay home..... if he really loves you he wont think much of it

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hey im 13 and a female. i was wondering are looks an important part in a relationship? all my friends say it is but i think its a lil shallow.

**sleepiesheep**

Well i do think it is a big part because you need to be attracted to eachother when you first lay eyes on eachother because if you like what you see you will go tlak to talk person ... i mean yes this is VERY shallow but its the truth... i personally dont belive in this but it does happen.. over half of the time... But SOME people who are headstrong will not really worry about looks but on personality... BUt its always that first imperssion when you first see that peron that attracts a person to another person

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i picked this out to show a girl how much i care what do you think?

I'm not sure if you know or not
But I really do love you a lot.
You still hold a special place in my heart
And you did, right from the start.
But when he came along and took your breath away,
I was devastated and didn't know what to say.
I spend my nights crying, time after time,
I spent my days lying, saying I was fine.
Little did you know, my heart was crushed inside,
And on that day, a little of me died.
But with her, you look so in love
'Cause you are an angel from above.
I now have to teach my heart to move on,
For, you are now forever gone.
But about one thing I am unsure:
Why it can't be me, and not him?

AWWW!Thats really really good!!!! i think that she would LOVE it and i think thats one of the sweetests thinkgs a guy could do for a girl
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Hi. I like this girl a lot and i was thinkin of writing her a poem or song but i cant play any music for it since i play the drums not the guitar. I'm having trouble writing the poem. Any ideas on what i can do?

AWW!! Your a really sweet person and i think that you should right her a poem ... i mena not all poems have to rhym but when you get the 1st line down i think you will have no problem
You could burn her a cd that has some sweet songs on it
But i mean if your poem is not the best i sill think that the girl will still like it because it came from your heart and it really will show her that you like her

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so my boyfriend who is really afectionate never calls. he used to call, but ever since we started going out he has stoped. i no he stil likes me but i feel liek i dont ahve a boyfriend because he never makes much of an effort to contact me. so anyadvice on what i shoudl do or why he is doing this.
and yes i no hes buisy, but it doesnt take much time to quickly check p on someone if u really care for them

Well guys will be guys and he probably tells himself he will call you but then forgets

I think that you should call him every once in a while .. not to much or he'll think your obbsessive... but i dont htink hes doin this on purpose he probably just forgets
You could jsut be like 'Hey call me tonight' after a conversation wiht him
You could write hin a note during class that says hey call me tonite or sumerhting
But if you really are concerned jsut go up to him and be like hey you never call meand i was wondering if something is wrong and he should get the point that you want hin to call

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Do you think that it's ok for a girl to date a guy who is shorter than her?

Yes i dont think height matters at all... as long as both of you are okay with it you should be fine

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so i like this guy from camp and he lives like 2 hrs away from me. like i want to call him and everything but im really shy and i wouldnt know what to say. can you help me think of topic to talk about or some way i can get over my shyness?

thanks

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Well i would just call him and tell him you were bored and that you havent talked for a while so you wanted to call him... talk to him about camp and talk to him about how much you cant wait to see him again... but he might even be the one to start up a conversation......

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Hi. I like this girl a lot so i figured if i got her a present some sparks may fly. So i want to give it to her, but i can't figure out if she still has a boyfriend. I think they broke up, but im not 100% sure. If I give her the gift should i try and kiss her if they're broken up?

I think you should give her the present, but wait to kiss her, but if they are broken up I think you should try to move foward with her. Don't go to fast, because she could still have feelings for her ex. So make sure that she has moved on from him.

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