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Question Posted Friday December 30 2005, 7:54 pm

Hi. I like this girl a lot so i figured if i got her a present some sparks may fly. So i want to give it to her, but i can't figure out if she still has a boyfriend. I think they broke up, but im not 100% sure. If I give her the gift should i try and kiss her if they're broken up?

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syireen answered Monday January 2 2006, 7:04 pm:
I think you should first make sure if she is still in a relationship. maybe ask her indirctly as joke ex. if shes on the phone be like "oh talking to your boyfriend lol" or something like that, then if she says yes or says shes still with her boyfriend i guess you know what to do, but if she says no or not really then go for it i guess!

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Askme247 answered Saturday December 31 2005, 12:18 am:
I think you should give her the present, but wait to kiss her, but if they are broken up I think you should try to move foward with her. Don't go to fast, because she could still have feelings for her ex. So make sure that she has moved on from him.

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ShYbl0nD3 answered Friday December 30 2005, 9:51 pm:
sure i think that would be cute and sweet :D Go for it!! Just make sure she likes you too but the present is a good idea to make some sparks fly.
simone

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deathwillcome answered Friday December 30 2005, 9:27 pm:
you are smart to give her a present, and you should give it to her no matter what. but save the kiss until you are going out with her, and until you find out for sure that she broke up with him.Then if you find out if they are still together, then make your move! hope that i helped and remember that my inbox is always open. You don't have to rate but it would be nice,thanks!

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bagdad answered Friday December 30 2005, 9:08 pm:
I don't think you should give her a gift at all, you don't need to buy her ya know, and unless your dating a gal, it's just a bad idea.
See, if you give her a gift, and generally treat her like a queen, she'll think "oh, what a nice guy, he's a good friend." and there you are, stuck in the friends zone, and it's usually a one way ticket. All girls are different, but for most, you have to be a challenge, and also a bit mysterious, so if you really like this girl, don't treat her like you have to deserve her, treat her like she has to deserve you (i'm not saying treat her like crap or anything, then she'll just hate you). And don't reveal all to much about yourself, keep it intresting and she'll come back for more.

a saying that's usually applied for something else works quite well here:
"Why buy the cow, if you get the milk for free?"
and that's what your doing if your treating her like a queen, your giving away milk for free.
You might not believe me, you might not wanna believe me, but you should.

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shopoholicgrl answered Friday December 30 2005, 8:56 pm:
i think u should take it slow. give her the present, say, i got you this to make u feel better, look into her eyes, smile a sweet grin, and walk away. keep her thinking..oh that guy is so sweet..so much better than my ex. good luck =]

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ForUFromMe answered Friday December 30 2005, 8:54 pm:
I don't think you should try to kiss after giving her the gift. It may be taking things a bit to fast. Once you give her the gift I think sparks may fly. But slow down try to get to know her.
-Talk to her in the hallways at school.
-Try to get her number.
-Try to hang out with her on the weekends sometimes.
These are all methods of ways to get to know a person.
If you try them then she will see that you really care. Once she sees this chances are she will definitely want to kiss you.

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naimee answered Friday December 30 2005, 8:41 pm:
Nope, definitely not. She may not be the type of girl that would like to get kissed, y'know? Honestly, even if I would've just ended the relationship with my boyfriend, and a couple days later another kid came up to me, gave me a presents & kissed me. I'd be super pissed & I probably wouldn't ever give him a chance.

The presents a great idea, don't get me wrong. Just DON'T kiss her.

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