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Too Much Love??
Soo how do i no when theres TOO much love in the relationship? I mean ... Im kinda ready to take time off and spend a night by myself. I mean i spend everyday with my bf. It wasnt a problem till now?
Why am i feeling this way?
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just because you want to spend time alone doesnt mean theres too much love. ok put it this way, think of your favorite food. thats all you eat everyday, nothing else. now it may be your favorite food, but that doesnt mean you wont get tired of it. theres so many other kinds of food, and you know that, so your wanting something else. (the other food being your friends and family) tell him you need some time apart, just time for yourself. he should understand that if he loves you as much as you lead us to believe he does. he should want anything for you to be happy. all relationships need space, and everyone needs other friends. space is good, it can either make the two of you realize how much you need eachother or help you realize your better off apart. you see what im saying? everyone needs "me time". i hope it works out for you!
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i think it depends on how far you are in your relationship.. unless you are at the point to where you are getting engaged or even after that you shouldnt spend everyday with him! besides the fact you will get bored faster it makes it harder for more excitement. maybe tell him that you need some girly time in your life too and you should maybe only see each other every other day or something along those lines
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Hey,
I can really see where your comming from on this. Things are probably just boring and you just need to spend some "Me" time. Just explain to your boyfriend that your need some time by yourself, if he really loves you he will completely understand!
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your problem was just like mine not to long ago my boyfriend was getting to seriuse his friend was my x best friend we still talk now and then i found out he was wanting to screw me not for fun but love i just about threw up im only 14tn im not ready for thattalken about soulmats i told him to shutup i still got a life i felt smotherde thats how your fillen right now i dumped him but i was nice about i told him what was bothering me so you should do the same thing just say you need a break
love blueberryblonde
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Trust me nothing is wrong... just go tell your boyfriend that you are goin out with your girls or that you might just want to stay home..... if he really loves you he wont think much of it
Hope i helped
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Nothing wrong with spending time by yourself or a night with the girls. Talk to him about it and tell him exactly how you feel - all of it. Let him know that you don't mean it in a bad way, and that you are in no way calling the relationship off. As to why you are feeling that way, I'm not sure. I know they do say: too much of a good thing can be bad...but who's 'they' anyways. At least try to look at the bright side - you aren't faced with the situation where you barely see or get to talk to your boyfriend. So yeah let him know how you feel and take a little more time for yourself. Things can get complicated with school and everything else you might have going on. Sometimes some alone time is all you really need to get things feeling back to normal. Hoped that helped and good luck.
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everyone needs time to themselves once in a while, explain to your boyfriend that you want to chill with the girls or go do something fun. Then you can call him afterwords and tell him about it, you will still get to talk but you will get some time apart and it will be good for both of you.
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i dont think the problem is "too much love". what i think it is is that.. well put it this way. the things that surprise you about your boyfriend are whats special and nice right? so if your with your boyfriend every moment of every day nothing really becomes special anymore. thats why it takes so much to be married. also, you never have any time for yourself. make a night with your friends that are girls or something.. take the time to just sit at your house.. im sure your boyfriend will understand..
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You know when there is to much love when you start feeling the way you do. Like you are being suffocated and just need some time off.
I think you'll should give each other some space. Meaning you'll don't have to spend time together everyday,etc.
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