Im having a hard time choosing what i should do on this. You see, I have this friend, and I'm in love with her. Ive loved her since we began to talk. Shes been my best friend for a while now and yeah, we have our ups and downs and such matters, but nothing really bad. Shes suffers from alot of things...Depression, and a bad homelife make her the person she is today. But i love her anyway. It seems that when your friends with her, nothing is as it seems. When we were in the beginging of our friendship, she started to liek me, and it was mutual, but then it just disappeared. Then she told me she loved me. But once again it just disappeared. I mean yeah, i still love her, but it seems she is playing games. I mean now she is treating me like shit. Ive been there for her through everything that has happened to her and ive been the only one whos ever stuck by her side. And to repay me with being a bitch to me. I measn wtf is that? I got so pissed at her that i told her i hated her, and i kno she is sad about it but she told me that she was gone for good. But right before she stopped tlkn to me, she said that she had always loved me. Now when she said that my heart sunk, and i knew i had made a big mistake. I still love her but i jus tdont kno what to do. I mean everyone knows i hate her, well they think it, but i do hate her. But i love her at the the same time. I guess in this case its loves fault...its to complicated. But i really need to kno if i should say" hey, i still love you but we need to work this out" and be friends again. But if i do then i look like a jackass to everyone who i told that i hated her. But if i dont tell her then i loose my best friend and a girl that i love with my whole heart. Im so upset about this, its just eating away at me and thats all i can think about. Please help me.
P.S. And yes michele you probably already kno who this is...in fact I kno that you kno who this is. But i dont wanna make a big deal outta it and i needed to get it off of my chest before I seriously killed myself. You can talk to me about it later i guess.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Askme247 answered Monday June 12 2006, 8:41 pm: O Wow! Okay i think i can give you some advice right now but most of it im gunna have to tell you online one on one... but i think you have to tell this gurl that you still love her i mean i know you are going into 8th grade and like youll have to spend another whole year with her and that wont be good if theres bad vibes between you to... and i dont think ur ur a jackass and i know for sure that she wont think that because i know she still loves you like a brother and she wants to still be your friend because you have always beeen there and she honostly loves you but shes just not showing it...but thats just how she it....and who cares what other ppl think the only person that should matter in this case is her.. well ill talk to you more bout this in person [ Askme247's advice column | Ask Askme247 A Question ]
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