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My name is Emily and blah blah blah.


:.I have a lot of personal, family, and friend issues of my own so a lot of times, I can probably relate to you a lot of times if you have personal, family, and/or friend issues.


:.I can offer a lot of information, help, and advice on family and friend relationships, love lives, depression, stretching/flexibility, weight loss, violin, being organized, dog training, forensics (public speaking), keeping up with school/extracurricular activities, eating disorders, writing (stories and poems), and probably a lot of other random stuff like what to drink when you eat something spicy and why.


:.Although I can help a lot of you guys on the above subjects, I don't tend to take my own advice so it can become quite an awkward/ironic/contradicting situation for me or make myself sound like a complete and utter hypocrite.


:.Hannah Whitall Smith once said, "The true secret of giving advice is, after you have honestly given it, to be perfectly indifferent whether it is taken or not, and never persist in trying to set people right." I agree 100% of it. Advice is advice and it is given when asked for. I give it and I leave it at that. It's up to the questioner/advice seeker to take it.


:.That point leads onto my philosophies in advice giving:
1. Advice is given when asked and no time else, unless your friend is about to irritate a black bear, then you should definitely advice your friend to back away and run for his or her life.
2. Advice is not critical, not judgmental, and definitely not biased. Advice is advice and should remain neutral.
3. Advice is to help, not to get 5s on every answer. As a result, my advice ends up being quite blunt and frank with a hint of rambling mixed in.

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:.If you want to ask me a question directly...
a)if it is not urgent and can wait a week or so, inbox me.
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sorry i couldnt get the category.
ok so i consider myself punk/emo. and theirs this girl in my school she called me a poser! and i dont kow why. i listen to rock music, and i thought i had my sense of style. i really dont think i am a poser. she told me jsut cuz i dress that way doesnt amke a rocker.
so i am asking what makes people rockers? i listen to rock. heavy metal so i dont get it? what should i do like make up sheos and clothes. thanks. iwant to improve my style

I personally think that there is no such thing as a poser. People can be whoever they want to be and if they want to label themselves, it's at their own free will.

Disregard the girl because she has no better things to do in life.

And personally, I think people are what they believe they are but if they get so caught up in trying to prove to someone else that they are what they claim to be, they're not true to themselves but putting up false pretense. The fact that you're on a site asking what you should wear and what you should do to be "punk/emo" proves that you're caught up in this girl's stupid word. Be a non-conformist and you'll find it much easier to live. The kind of music you listen to or what you wear or how you do your make up---that means nothing. You are you. Not your clothes, not music, not make up. You're just you and if this girl doesn't like it, then it's her own f---ing problem.

Wear what you want. Listen to what you want. Do whatever you want because if you're going to try and change to be someone you already are, you're changing yourself and that would be giving into this girl's motive.

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(Rating: 5) hey thnaks so much
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