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Did you ever wake up and wonder when your life became a soap opera? A bizzare mixture between 'Dawson's Creek' and 'Days of our Lives'?



I know I've had that feeling - that it's just all too dramatic and ridiculous, and wouldn't it be nice to go and under a nicely-furnished rock for a while? So, whilst I do not promise or claim to be an expert on how teenage boys minds work or how you can uncode your best friend's baffling behaviour, I'll always attempt to empathise and offer some honest words of advice.



I am 21, with a fairly dysfunctional life as a artsy student type. I've recently graduated with a degree in Philosophy, and am spending time working in the law before returning to university for further study. I still don't know what I want to do with my life, but I like where I am at the moment. I like shoes, bad television, chocolate cheescake and pretty things.



I am very busy at the moment, attempting to fund my life as a postgraduate (that's grad school to the Americans). I do still stop by quite a lot to help out with the admin stuff, but my column is pretty lame and inactive. Boo-hiss. I will however still endeavour to answer any questions that are sent my way, so feel free to send questions to my inbox.





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Hey guys it is MariahWannabe and I wanted to ask you guys your opnion, I like to songwrite and I like to write poems,

I'm joined on allpoetry.com and I want your full opnion on my poem I wrote below :


I hid my secrets and dreams into a special box,
But I never trusted anyone so I added on a lock,
I thought if I let someone, take away the key,
they'd see my past, and see the real me.
I have shield that I put around my feelings and heart,
So if someone decides to cause me pain,
I'll never fall apart,
How can I ever put down my sheild for you?
Because I don't know if it's pain you'll put me through.
You're saying it's no pressure,
and that you understand,
How do I know?
You gently touch my hand.
How do I know that you'll pick me up when I fall?
and you're the one that's going to make me stand tall.
I can't put my sheild down,I don't want to get hurt,
My pride and feelings is all it's worth,
Just promise me something,
After, Give me back the key,
Because I can't handle everyone,
knowing the real me.


I didn't approve this question because reviewing poetry doesn't really come under advice. There are many poetry sites out there which would welcome your work and give you helpful responses - try http://wwww.allpoetry.com, http://poetrywithmeaning.com/ or http://www.everypoet.org/

All the best.

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Thanks but i obviously didnt make my question clear, so I added further infomation, thankyou though xxx



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