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Did you ever wake up and wonder when your life became a soap opera? A bizzare mixture between 'Dawson's Creek' and 'Days of our Lives'?



I know I've had that feeling - that it's just all too dramatic and ridiculous, and wouldn't it be nice to go and under a nicely-furnished rock for a while? So, whilst I do not promise or claim to be an expert on how teenage boys minds work or how you can uncode your best friend's baffling behaviour, I'll always attempt to empathise and offer some honest words of advice.



I am 21, with a fairly dysfunctional life as a artsy student type. I've recently graduated with a degree in Philosophy, and am spending time working in the law before returning to university for further study. I still don't know what I want to do with my life, but I like where I am at the moment. I like shoes, bad television, chocolate cheescake and pretty things.



I am very busy at the moment, attempting to fund my life as a postgraduate (that's grad school to the Americans). I do still stop by quite a lot to help out with the admin stuff, but my column is pretty lame and inactive. Boo-hiss. I will however still endeavour to answer any questions that are sent my way, so feel free to send questions to my inbox.





Frequently Asked Questions


Actually, I made them up. But they are questions that I've seen more than once around this site (and, indeed, in the real world), and so have created general responses to them, linked below. It's a little sparse at the moment, but I'll be adding to the list as I think of more questions (and, er, answers to them).



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hailebop





Gender: Female
Location: England
Occupation: Student
Age: 21
Member Since: December 30, 2003
Answers: 455
Last Update: June 7, 2009
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Wow! what an awesome answer! Thank you so much for your time. I hope you do this kind of thing professionally and get paid for it!! This is the first time I've asked for advice like this and I really appreciate your thorough and "2-sided" answer! Thanks Again!

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thank you very much. that was helpful and informative.

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well umm thank you but thats not the reason i was puttin up the question...but anyway thank you for ur answer im new to advicenators so i didnt know its just i used 2 see people with questions like which haircut is better nd they would post pictures of themselves so i just thought i would anyway thank u bye

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Thanks! I don't think I'll take it up with DN though.. BTW- SpreadLove is my ex-girlfriend.. so she's being entirely hypocritical.. haha Thanks again! --Jack

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Thank you for your answer, I think you were quite right about Rick's motives. He really doesn't strike me as a hypocrite, so this situation confused me.

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Rating Changed by admin ------ http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=477802 http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=453687 http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=377619 <that question is very inappropriate. http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=377066 http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=367418 http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=490991 http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=490910 http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=490833 Those are just a few questions I found that are basically the question I asked but re-worded. Some of them are way more "inappropriate" than the one I asked.

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Thanks but i obviously didnt make my question clear, so I added further infomation, thankyou though xxx

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I wasn't asking for someone to DO my homework. It's part of a project and I simply don't know how to interpret it. It's funny how other people can ask for help in doing their work, but I can't ask for something simple, such as helping me interpret something. Rating changed by L2 mod

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thank you so much..

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Thanks SO much!

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thanks for answering my question a long time ago, I missed rating a few people so I'm going back to rate =D

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Mucho Thanks[:

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Thank you

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thanx you! ill try my hardest! he actually just called me and told me he loved me and wants me bac!! i guess its game time! TIME TO LET HIM GO!

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thanks

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well ive babysat before so i know them pretty well. we just need so activities b/c i have to watch their babysister too so free play is kinda hard. and i cant have them color. i take child developement now and we learned coloring like in coloring books is bad because they know they cant stay in the lines and stuff. and i was thinking of more of a singing game over singing to them thats why i mentioned it. and i would love to paint but we have to stay indoors where there is white carpeting and its close to bed time thats the only bad part

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thank you <3

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Thanks so much. And yeah he does have a concussion but they already told us that at the hospital. Thanks again.

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thankyou! your advice was the best I've gotten for this question!

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lol

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I already looked up the critics reviews. I was asking if the people on advicenators liked it. You didn't really help.

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You are completely correct,because of the fact that I do not eat any types of meats or poultry, mantaining myself on the low carb diet is quite a challenge,food to me is a temptation,due to other factors of my life..I rely on food, but this has become an issue for my health. Then beginning the low carb Atkins diet, at first I was satisfied and quikly seeing results. Unfortunatelly it shouldn't be referred to as a DIET because as soon as you begin to consume carbs again you gain the weight as easily as it was lost. I don't know what to to, but I will definitely check out those websites. Thank you for your concern and suggestions, they were greatly appreciated. Sincerely Yours, A wise bystander

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thank you sooooooooooooo much you helped alot

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Thanks! :)

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Thank you sooo much!

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thanks so much. i think i'm just going to let her do what she wants. and hopefully like you said, come to me for advice when she makes the mistake. =)

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thank you

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Thanks. assuager

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thanks a bunch u rock! xoxo

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Thank you. I'll consider all of that. =)

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=)

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=)

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very good advice, thankyou

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Thx!

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Thank you! I really enjoyed the website and advice. The root canal went pretty smoothly! .. But anyway you rock!

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thank u soo much

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thx

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Thanks! Very helpful!!!!

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Thanks alot

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Well, I think you should be given the level twoness back.

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Thanks~ that really helped me out a lot with the situation. I realize that it isnt the worst thing he could do and your advice made realize that I should be happy that he was being honest with me and I respect him all the more for it!! Thanks a ton!

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Thanks for answering!! you know i enjoyed the romance part!! but i didnt like the beginngng i thought it was pretty boring!! o well!!! im glasd you enjoyed the book!! xOxO

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thanks..that was a BIG boast in confidence!

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thanks for the advice

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THANKS SO MUCH! &hearts;

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Thz that has helped

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thanx!!!

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thank you

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Alright I'll give you a 5 cos you were so gracious, but face it, you lucked out there. Nah I'm joking, i wouldn't wanna spoil your flawless average.

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Thanks, Its like we can agree to disagree!!! thanks so much! :)

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Hey me and the guy made up today and i found out that all the other people were just lying

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wow- thanks a lot..

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thanks alot!

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thank you..oh and im 5'9'' and 105 (its like im anorexic) and ive tried to gain weight for years and it just hadnt happened :( thanks anyways!

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oh ok good, im relieved now lol thankYou!

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ty lol

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thanx much.. mwah...

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Thank you so much!! you deff. deserve a 5

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I didn't know that... as exposure to germs and viruses is good for their immune systems and makes them healthier and more resitant to bugs in the future... that's cool... well sort of. Thanks

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Thanks, great advice!

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Thanks =)

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Thanks. I really appreciate your taking time to answer this. I'll talk to him about it. =)

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thanks!

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wow your the only person who actually gave good advice to this question, thanks so much! Rainbowcherrie x

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thanks so much! x3

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thank you so much!

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Thank you. Your input is appreciated because it was intelligent input.

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Thanks!!! :)

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thanks, thats really good advice

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Ok...you have the middle "C", then 1 octave higher, that "C" I can hit in my chest voice and almost can hit the "D" note in my chest voice. I can go higher in my head voice 2 octaves higher but I want to improve my chest voice. Does that make sense? Sorry if i'm confusing you. Your advice was good though. So thx!

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what do u mean "Do you have any idea what you are doing to yourself?". OMG ur so judgemental! u've never seen me! what am i doing to myself?? i eat normal and exersize. im tall and skinny i cant help it! im not dangerously underweight. hate to break it to u but ur NOT a doctor.

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thank you for taking the time to read my question and also thanks for being so straight forward about it-i guess i never looked at it so matter of factly. great advice.

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thanks :D

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thankyou

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thanks!!

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That was a great article. I hope I can open my mind more. It's hard though being brought up the way I was, by the Bible and all that.

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thank u so much!

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cheers for that! well...I live in Bristol but I want to live in Manchester when I'm older

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Thanks

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Yeah, they're worth discussing. I've had bad luck with doctors in the past. If I don't mention every possible option, they will fail to tell me about it. So, if I don't know about a certain birth control, then they fail to ever tell me. I'm 21 with no kids by the way.

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WOw, that was the best advice I got for this question so far. Thank you so much. Your responce was detailed and very helpful. Thank you again.

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wtf, i don't think you know whats best for me

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thanx you've really helped me...

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That's a great idea, and it would work if I could just get a copy of the slides. But we have to go to the class and study, and they're slides, so I can't really mix them up. I did discuss it with my teacher, and now the test doesn't seem as hard. Thanks.

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sorry! and thanx!

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thanx a lot!!

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thankyou so much for your refreshing point of view. I appreciate it.

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That's a great idea. Faith is very personal and she makes me feel like I'm wrong for questioning God. Hopefully if I say what you said she will understand. Thanks!

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I'm sorry. I shoulda read that before I asked it, but I has saw it on tv and I was honestly curious. Sorry about that.

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thanks, you gave the best advice!

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Fuck you..by the way your pic is ugly as hell. :)

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thank ytou so much your advice actually makes alot of sense and it sounds liek a good way of telling her w/o her getting mad but also to be able to express my feelings to her. thanks so much!

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Thanks!

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hey im 17 and i dont live with my parents i moved out this year. but see our family isnt that close we dont have family events and stuff like that. but thanks for the advice.

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thanks a bunch :-)

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thnx soo much

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thx




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