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Did you ever wake up and wonder when your life became a soap opera? A bizzare mixture between 'Dawson's Creek' and 'Days of our Lives'?



I know I've had that feeling - that it's just all too dramatic and ridiculous, and wouldn't it be nice to go and under a nicely-furnished rock for a while? So, whilst I do not promise or claim to be an expert on how teenage boys minds work or how you can uncode your best friend's baffling behaviour, I'll always attempt to empathise and offer some honest words of advice.



I am 21, with a fairly dysfunctional life as a artsy student type. I've recently graduated with a degree in Philosophy, and am spending time working in the law before returning to university for further study. I still don't know what I want to do with my life, but I like where I am at the moment. I like shoes, bad television, chocolate cheescake and pretty things.



I am very busy at the moment, attempting to fund my life as a postgraduate (that's grad school to the Americans). I do still stop by quite a lot to help out with the admin stuff, but my column is pretty lame and inactive. Boo-hiss. I will however still endeavour to answer any questions that are sent my way, so feel free to send questions to my inbox.





Frequently Asked Questions


Actually, I made them up. But they are questions that I've seen more than once around this site (and, indeed, in the real world), and so have created general responses to them, linked below. It's a little sparse at the moment, but I'll be adding to the list as I think of more questions (and, er, answers to them).



Getting back together with an ex



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Gender: Female
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do people really like stick gerbils or animals in thier buttholes?



I'm deleting this for being indecent content as defined http://advicenators.com/faq.php?mode=qreject:

"Indecent Content
Like many other sites, we use the "Miller Test" for defining indecency. There are three guidelines used in this test:
The average person, applying contemporary community standards, would find that the work, taken as a whole, appeals to the prurient interest; (meaning: the question isn't meant for an honest advice columnist just here for fun, it's meant for cruel people who don't take the site seriously and prefer indecent content)
the work depicts or describes, in a patently offensive way, sexually explicit conduct; (pretty obvious)
a reasonable person must find the work, taken as a whole, lacks serious literary, artistic, political or scientific value. (meaning: the question doesn't contribute a darn thing to the site)."

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I'm sorry. I shoulda read that before I asked it, but I has saw it on tv and I was honestly curious. Sorry about that.



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