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i'm a really dark brunette.
and i've been considering going blonde

yes or no?

and if i did get it done,
they'd be able to dye my eyebrows too right?

oh and is it true that if you have dark hair
you're eyebrows shld be atleast one shade lighter than you're hair color?

thanks, i rate.

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i don't think you should. you probably don't really wanna hear that, but i really don't think you should lol. you have to keep coloring it over & over because your roots grow back & then when you dye your hair back to brown it's not your original color, blah blah blah & waste a lot of money. that's juss my opinion though. you should dye your eye brows though if you do it.

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Hey I know this song is by Fall Out Boy but I just can't figure out what song it is. I've looked and searched but none of the lyrics are right. Can you guys help? Here the only parts I know.

"The pepper something something.." I'm not sure about that part. Heres the other part I know.

"Nothing comes easy when you lay in your bed all day"

Thats all I know. THANKS SO MUCH! I like the beat to the song but I can't figure out what the song is!

Xo Kristen

i think this is the song-

fallout boy, nobody puts baby in the corner

http://www.sing365.com/music/lyric.nsf/Nobody-Puts-Baby-In-The-Corner-lyrics-Fall-Out-Boy/3AA49B8098A446D548256E64000AAA7D

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Now, I've had myspace for quite a while, but I have no idea how to add a picture onto my layout. Perhaps you don't understand what I'm asking, so I'll give you an example. When you have the section, Who I Want to Meet, and add a picture of someone famous, how do you do that?

Thanks in advance.

there's an actual code!! ok first you need the html for the pic. soo go to the pic and right click it & save it under whatever you want. then you need a photobucket account, it's easy.

www.photobucket.com

sign up & load your pic on there then it'll give you like 3 links. pick whichever one you want, but since you're doing myspace, the 2nd one might be the best & copy that code whereever you want.

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Im 13/f and my friend realized that she has a trust problem with guys. She wants to improve herself by trusting more guys more and she wants to have some guy friends but she has no idea how to trust them more. What can she do or what can I do to help? Thanks!

she can only trust by expierence. you know, going out & trying to trust different guys, getting to know them, being open, etc. you can't juss want to trust anyone, because all guys are different. i guess you can't really help her with it, but juss be there for her when she needs it because sometimes guys can be mean er juss not understand it. she shouldn't get stuck on trust issues, because she doesn't want to miss out on a great guy because she thinks she cant trust him, when she might've been able to.

good luck!♥

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My dad always plays halo 2 and he always get angry after he plays. Well I hate him when he plays halo The. Whole family plays but we dont get like him. what can I do to make him stop playing Halo?

hide it?? lol =) idk that's all i can really think of, but i think i know what you mean. most guys in general, (not saying any of you), get mad at that & the best thing for you to do is tell him to stop and shut him up about it. plus he's a grown man right?? tell him that. yeah, its okay to be playing games & w/e, but if he gets overworked about it?? that's not good.

good luck!♥

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Thing is this is about guy whoes my bestest friend, and there for eacher, right now I am graudate Hs, He still in hs for another year. we are close age and we were together for while and still want be friends see other people, but problem thati never did care or didn't had that kind feeling becouse i want meet other guys, ok my ponit is that he hase gf right now i am happy for him, and know that we always good friend, thing is in summer he told me that i was the one for him. we are so connected, ,now his new gf he said she the one, thing is tha i am the one want meet other guys and thing like that but it hard becouse he was only guy ever was in my life, i hoppe someone understand i saying i know cuffusing, i just want act normal and stil his firend way was before i found out about it.

i'm a tiny bit confused but i think what you mean is you want to be his friend..but want to be totally okay with dating someone else & him dating someone else? you don't want to be with him, but you still may have feelings for him? i think you like him as a friend & nothing more. you're probably caught up in what it was before he had a gf, he liking you & you're used to that. all you need to do is go out & look for guys to become friends with, hang out with, date, etc. you juss need to get your mind off it. definately be his friend though, no problem in that. juss look around & meet new people. talking to him about it might help.

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GIRLS
does any girl know how to make ur eye makeup look really pretty so they like sparkle??

GUYS
can any of u guys tell me what eye makeup or w/e looks good on a girl...like when they have sparkle on their eyelids or wat???

you need non rub off make up. it doesn't even have to be expensive either. like some places such as JC penny er Macy's have good make up but it's too expensive. try cvs, eckard, etc. if you go to bath&body works, in the mall er w/e, they have glitter rollers that its clear glitter & you can put it right over the make up itself & it'll stay & won't rub off. it looks pretty natural & sparkles for a while. if you need stores er anything try google.

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Hey Guys ! Does anyone know the code for a dropdown music player on xanga ? If you do i would really apprecitate it if you gave me the code !

Thanks a Bunch !!

k i can't give you the exact code, but go to www.xanga.com & at the top there's a search bar with tabs. go to the 'user' tab & click on it & then type in 'darkplayer code' & websites will come up with instructions & the code itself.

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ok this prolly sounds weird but wen me and my b/f are 2gether we get each other in themodd and then we start having sex then i always stop him in like 5 min and feel gulty and start cryin, i prolly sound very stupid but y am i doing this?

you aren't ready yet. idk how old you are, but with my religion, im catholic, & i believe in sex after marriage. you obviously don't want to go through with it even though you like him er love him er however you feel about him. juss explain that to him, & if he feels the same about you as you feel about him then he won't pressure you into it. you might think you're ready, but you arent. sex shouldn't be rushed & you should really think about it before you have it er not, because you don't want to regret it.

good luck!♥

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well i go with a dude and he brought me a 100$ pair of earings,and i brouht him a 150$ 24 k bracelet and he let a girl wear it and she broke it on pupose what do i do.

PFF tell him. that's ridiculous & absoulutely rude. idk him but i think that's jerkish. talk to him about it & explain how you feel. that way you guys can straighten things out.

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is 5'7 too tall for a 14 year old girl

nope definately not. i'm 5'9 & i'm 15. if you're saying that because the guys are shorter than you..believe me, they grow. a lot of people want to be 5'7 er taller =) it all depends with your body & puberty & stuff. if you have any questions ask your family doctor next time you have an appt.

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ok when my mom was my age she had epelepsy.she said it started where she would black out for a miliseconnd and drop sompthing and not no how. the other day i dropped a bowl, but i dont remember it slipping out of my hands, i never let go! also i was holding a "shampame glass" by the stem thingy and i judt totally did the same thing. also a lot i get these bad heaedaches and i get dixzzy when i move my head. does anyonge no if i might have it? what shuld i do? please help!

hmm..idk if this will make you feel better er not, but epilepsy isn't generic, like only 10% of people who have it pass it to their children. you might get migrains, which throw off your vision & give you a headache. sometimes people with migrains mix them up with have epilepsy. you should go to the doctor & get it checked out. if you have any specific questions, try googling it but remember that people on advicenators aren't doctors so they don't know exactly. try making an appt. with your family doctor.

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16/m. A guy in front of me in one of my classes drew an X on the back of his hands and said something about 'straight edge'. I was too much of an idiot to ask him, so can anyone help me out on what exactly that might mean? Is it bad or no?

no. =)

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i heard a rumor that this weekend is national making out weekend... is this really true?

no, they're juss chain letters that go around but you can make it national make out weekend if you want haha!!!!

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a girl in my grade named anne, whom i know (I am friendly with her, but not really friends) told a friend of mine (elle) about these pants, and then elle told me about them. i went to the store & i really like the pants. they are very distinct jeans with flowers all over them. i really want them, but anne has them already. would it be bad for me to get these jeans? anne isn't in any of my classes, and she's a nice girl, but i still don't know if it's okay (I AM NOT GOING TO ASK HER). i see her on occasion at the end of the day. these aren't just any pants, they are very cool with flowers down the leg & on the butt. do you think anne would get mad? do you think elle would be like "you bought those pants after i told you where they are from & anne already has them!" do you think anyone would be mad or do you think it's okay to buy the pants? THEY ARE SO COOL!

get em!!!! haha i would =) it doesn't matter. plus they probably won't be mad about it & if they are mad about it, then let them be mad over pants.

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I cut myself and i want to stop!! How can i make myself stop??
Will rate

sorry to hear that. i'm not into that whole cutting thing but i think you should get professional help, because it's the only way you can stop & stay away from cutting. really, it'll help you out & save you from hurting yourself more. soo do it. i mean maybe your parents er friends can help you out. try talking to someone about it. there's clinics & things you can go to around your area.

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Occasionally I'll just catch a 'glimpse' of a girls chest when I'm talking to her, sometimes they notice, sometimes they don't. Do you think its rude or offensive? I don't do it on purpose, but I do realize when I do it. If most would rather that not happen then I'd try to stop. So what do you think?

nahhh you're a guy..right? haha sorry if you're not =) i think it's totally a guy thing, so don't feel bad about it. if you do it on purpose it's offensive. juss try to keep focus on their eyes & stuff.

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how do you become a moderator?

kk well you have to be on the site for about a month so you have to wait until then, soo if you've been on for a month you go to the moderator tools FAQ & it should be there, so you click the link & ask to be one & they'll it'll ask you a few q's like is your rating above a 3 etc etc. it's pretty easy. from there you're a moderator I and you can go to II, III, etc.

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What are some good ways to start getting your advice column noticed? How did you do it?

put it your profile & websites & any of that. become a moderator & then you can be on the main page when you first log in, like they use random people..hmm answer a lot of questions & rate. stuff like that.

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