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I`m Desiree

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hiya
recently i have been getting deeper feelings for my best boy mate (liam) i want to do stuff with him like give head, kiss etc.... but i dont know how to seduce him what to say or whatever. any help would be good.
oh by the way we always talk about sex and stuff like that.

Maybe one day when you guys are together.. or talking aboout sex ask him if he'd ever want to do anything with you.. then see what his response is then do something from there.. ♥ Dez

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OK im 14/f and i wear a 32C and im not sure if guys like the big breast? ANd i dont wear padded(Spelling?) bra or anything and their really big. im tiny and i have big breast is that normal?
I rate High for real answers!
thanx

I guess its normal.. im real small too i wear a 38 double D and i only weigh 110 lbs i think the 10 lbs is my chest.. and i think guys perfer big breast then little things so your okay.. ♥ Dez

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has any one got any tips on how to seduce my mate? (im female hes male) i want him so much but i have no idea where to start. i see him where he works most of the time so i need some pointers on how to get him on his own and that kind of stuff. thanx

ask him to come over your house and just make a move.. maybe start out by kissin him then move your hand down by his stuff rub it while kissing him then move your hand inside his shorts/pants or whatever.. then move his hands where you want him to touch you make him want to take your clothes off.. not that hard.. ♥ Dez if you need more advice gimme a holla..

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guys do like big boobs? well thats to bad!! guys you will like small boobs now! lol.. god why am i so cute..

uh huh..... ♥ Dez

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I put eyeliner on the bottom lid. The pencil stuff smears so I decided to use liquid. Well with the liquid stuff, I put it on the skin-colored barrier between the skin and the red part right above the eyelash. Does liquid eyeliner ever dry? How long does it take to dry?

Yes liquid eyeliner does dry.. it shouldnt take no more then 5 minutes but it depends how much you use.. i've tried it once and it all ran into my actual eye so i havent tried it anymore.. ♥ Dez

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i bought a really cute sweatshirt at aeropostale but when i tried on at home it was too small. i bought it at an outlet mall in st. augustine but i'm not there anymore. can i return it at a normal aeropostale store??

you should be able to if you have the receiet.. ♥ Dez

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i'm in love with this guy that lives all the way across the country.. and now he keeps telling me to think realistically and that we're probably never going to meet. what should i do about this? i am also female and 15 years of age, and i live in pennsylvania. and he is 18, and lives in california.

i think your insane and dumb..you dont need to worry about somebody far away.. and i think that guy is right.. wake up to reality.. if you go money to go see him then go for it.. but since you aint seen him and you did i bet we'd all see your face on a milk carton.. ♥ Dez

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Ahh, okay I know this is weird but um..Every time I shave "down there", it seems like I still have some stubble or w/e..Does anyone have any tips or something because this is starting to bug me..And please dont say waxing, Ive tried it, it hurts lol..Ill give you a 5 if you give me a good idea!

okay well try gettin a new razor and use shaving cream.. maybe try a mens raozr they seem to work real good on thick hair.. you can also try usin conditionor it works good down there to shave too.. also you could try shavin with baby lotion.. but always shave downwards first then shave upwards.. you can use nair bikini stuff it works good.. and its really smooth down south too.. ♥ Dez

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im 17/f me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months and about a month ago he broke up with me cuz we fight too much. that lasted about 2 hours and we got back together. last night i broke up with him because i never see him....he chooses everything else over me. we both said it wouldnt be a permanent thing but now 12 hours later, i want him back. i told him this and he said its too soon and we should just wait it out but i cant live without him. im not suicidal so dont say anything about that but i love him so much and i dont want to just wait it out...WHAT DO I DO? HOW CAN I GET HIM BACK?

well you havent lost him you'll most likely get him back it sounds like.. just try not to get mad at him and try to talk to him about your problems and if he continues to choose things over you then just get rid of him hun.. ♥ Dez best of luck! if you need anymore advice leave it in my inbox..

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what happens when you get raped?? im totally scared of it......HELP PLEASE!!!

you should go to the police.. ♥ Dez

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Im 13. Female.
My brother is so disgusting. He's 19 .. almost 20 and he NEVER flushes the toilet *we share a bathroom* After he shaves he leaves all the little hairs all in our sink. He farts in public and burps randomly. Ive talked to my parents about this but he ignores them when they tell him to stop!
What should I do. Hes so disgusting!!

do what your parents do ignore him.. or just go anywhere with him.. ♥ Dez

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i got my first holes done and i took them out 4 weeks after they were peirced. but they werent healed and they started bleeding. do i have to wait another 4 weeks now?

i'd wait a lil bit longer.. if you want to change your earrings just do it anyways i use to do it all the time but i just did it real fast so it didnt bleed or hurt.. ♥ Dez

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how do i tell my mom about my first kiss?

just tell her like you would tell her anything.. if you dont want her to know and think you'll get in trouble keep it to yourself.. but if you have a close relationship with her like i do with my mom you'll have no problem just coming out and sayin it.. ♥ Dez

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I just got my first kiss. It was sort of a game, if the guy made a shot in basketball he got to kiss me and my friend, and he made it. I kind of like him, and I want to hook up with him, maybe even go out with him. The problem is, my friend wanted to hook up with him and she was all over him. Shes kind of a hoe, and if we ever meet new guys, she tries hooking up with all of them. I dont think she hooked up with him yet, but I think he might be liking her more than me. I dont want to attack him, so what are some moves I can make to get his attention more? How do I get to him before my friend does? Should I just straight out start making out with him?

No dont throw yourself at this guy.. just try talking to him like a normal human being.. if he cant respect that and wants a hoe like your friend then he wasnt no good for you anyways.. ♥ Dez

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so like my bf and me have been going out for 10 and 1/2 months, and we always fight about the same thing, Him going out, and today he told me that we should take a break, what is a break really and what should I do, I was so upset all I could do was cry... and whats worse i actually let him take his stupid break, and I dont know what to do, im so confused and hurt, and I cant break up with him because i love him, and he told me like a million times today he loves me, but i just feel like this is going to change our relationship, what should I do, i really need some help!@ im 16/f

Hun you need to talk to him.. usuaully these breaks turn into break ups.. ive seen it happen many many times.. try to get things straight before it becomes more then a break.. maybe try not trippin on him so much about him going out or what ever you argue and fight about it.. ♥ Dez

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i had my period for about 3 months. i never told my mom because she died.. so now i have a step mom and we were never close. i was planning to wait until she asks me if i have it and then say yeah. but im afraid she'll never ask. if ur wondering how i get my pads i get them from my step sister. should i wait?? please help ASAP!!

every female has a period.. you shouldnt feel embarassed about it.. just tell them when you need stuff and if they ask questions tell her like i been started my period i just didnt want to tell you.. its really not a big deal i mean she cant make fun of you or anything about it cause she gets it too.. ♥ Dez

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Can I still go to the gyno for my first check up if I have my period?

make another appointment.. thats nasty.. ♥ Dez

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Ok my hair is curly and a little past my shoulders! I have some questions about it.
Does leaving it in a towel after a shower make the curls less.....well curly? lol

What are some ways to make the curls less intense after its wet without the use of a relaxer?

Thnx!

My lil sister has this same problem.. well i use this stuff on her hair called hair mayonaise.. its used to condition afican american hair.. well it works real good and makes it also more easier to brush.. i suggest tryin that.. also if you cant find that try queen halene.. it works good too.. hope i helped.. ♥ Dez

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Well theres this new line of eye make up[[Instence eyes i think its by Alaba or something like that...]] it brings out brown eyes [[its eyeshadow,eyeliner,and mascara]] I would like to get it but are they expensive? and are they worth the money? and also where can i buy these?

Yes its by Almay..i dont think its no more then 10 dollars.. i do make overs all the times and ive used it on friends it works good.. i didnt but it they bought it but im thinkin about buyin it lol.. you can but it at any store with cosmetics.. like walmart and so on and so on.. ♥ Dez

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ok i love this girl sooooo much i think im crazy. We are going to a movie 2 weeks from now with friends. I need someone OLDER LIKE 16 & UP to answer this- what should i do? should i put my arm around her and for how long-should i try to hold hands?? i am almost positive that she would do whatever back (holding hands, putting her arm around me etc.,)PLLLLLLLEEEEEEEEEEEEZ help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

-wondering

i think either would be okay but if i was this girl id want his arm around me.. espically if its a scary movie lol.. sometimes if your arm is behide her head a long time it can get uncomfortable.. so maybe ask her if she comfortable to while you do it.. and if she's not just hold her hand maybe like rub it while holding it.. ♥ Dez

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