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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave it
I'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=



Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.


I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.


I do not like when people have issues with typing.

iif u typ3 liik3 thiiz iit piissesz m3 0ff. Alot.

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I am 14 and i havent started my period. I have been have this white stuff come out for about a year now and sometimes very heavily. Is there something wrong with me? I thought I would of started my period by now..

you'll eventually start your period soon you just have to keep an eye on the "white stuff" (it's called discharge) and there's nothing wrong with you... that happened to me before i started my period and alot of girls don't get their periods until they are 14-15... one of my aunts didn't get hers until she was 20... i know that sounds weird but don't worry... you'll be fine! if you have any questions about your period just IM me or Email me
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Email- matchbookrmnce15@hotmail.com

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Whats a good place to get supplies for your dog?

petco (where the pets go)

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well i have this boifriend and i have een goinout wit hym for over 3 month n i really like hym and people told hym that i have been kissing other guys and i havnt so how do i get hym to belive me

he should trust you bottom line he shouldn't believe other people and if he does then he's a god damn moron

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Ok i have a huge problem. See tomorrow i start school and my parents told me that i have to take this other person to school w/ me. Well He is just so happens to be my moms boss's little brother. Unfortunatly he is my age. i really dont want to take because i know my mom and his brother will try to hook us up. what should i do?

just tell her you're not interested... you can't be forced into something you don't want and don't try to act too nice to him just be on a friendship level and make it clear that that's all that you want out of him and tell your mom that too... honey you can't be forced into something that you don't want it's so stupid.... hope it helped

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Email- matchbookrmnce15@hotmail.com

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i just started going out with this guy i meet at cokemusic playing the matching game thing there. well i dont know what he looks like. he says he has hazel eyes and blonde hair. he sounds really cute. well he doesnt have a scanner and cant give me a picture. he told me his name and age etc. before i told him mine. im pretty sure its true {{the info. he gave me}} well i want to know what he looks like and i really dont know what to talk about. all we talk about is cokemusic.com so i dont know i think i need more to say to him and stuff. im 13 and he just turned 14. im going to turn 14 november 16 2004. well i dont know what to do someone help!! he sounds sweet. i know i dont know him that well but i want to. im really confused.

he's probably an internet pedophile... just watch yourself and stop talking to him because there are psyco people on the internet... someone murdered my friend because the same thing happened to her... she was talking to this guy that claimed to be so sweet and he wanted to do anything and everything for her and they met and he killed her... now he's in jail so just watch yourself... never meet people over the internet it's a little too desperate sounding

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what do you think is really in style this year... and what to wear to stand out from the crowd?

thx xoxo

:-/ sorry.... fashion is NOT my category... i just by crap from macy's, hot topic and pac sun (that's my style) but if you pick up the latest LUCKY mag. or TEEN VOUGE you might find hot styles for this comming school year... i know that wasn't great advice but i just wear what ever i feel most comfortable in. sorry :-/

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i don't want a bf bc i luv 2 b sinlge but i never get ne action when im single. i mean there are sooooo many hot guys around and i really wanna make out wit sum but i never knoe how to approch them... any tips???
show this gurl sum luv and answer asap!

it's ok to flirt and have friends with benifits.. alot of people have friends with benifits... i had one but don't become a slut and start making out with every single hot guy you meet

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do girls care or think its gross or w/e if a guy mastrobates?

some girls do because they are afraid to admit that they do it themselves... they try to make themselves look innocent... it's completely natural (in my opinion) to masturbate... self pleasure... everyone needs a little lovin' at one point... even if it's from themselves... it's not gross
IM- xxxpinky615xxx
email- matchbookrmnce15@hotmail.com

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hi, my name is Trisha and I am 14 and 5"3 tall and wieghs 127, I really wanna lose wieght fast! like in a week or sumthin without sacrificing my eating habits, and pleez dont say anything mean or inappropriate pleaaz , thanx!

don't lose weight.... i'm the same age and height and i just weigh 2 pounds less than you you probably look fine i'm sure your gorgeous as you are but if you want to lose a couple of pouds cut out alot of sugar from your diet and do crunches (50) every night... it sounds like alot but it will have great results... hope i helped! but don't go anorexic on me please!!
if you need anything IM me or Email me
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Email- matchbookrmnce15@hotmail.com

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any tips of what to do not to do or what to watch out for with having a boyfriend?
THANKS!!

try not to be too clingy... guys hate that just give them their space don't be asking them all the time where they are going or who they are going with... they will get pissed off if they are upset and you ask them what's wrong and they say they don't want to talk about it... leave them alone and just let them know that if they need anything that you are always there to talk. if his back hurts, massage it, just not the feet for god's sake don't massage the feet unless you have a foot fetish... when you are getting your period don't bitch at them and let them know that you are getting your period or that you're pmsing so that they can give you room... don't depend on them to do everything for you if he offers once or twice to buy something for you say thank you but return the favor and buy him a few things... pay for dinner on dates occasionally don't let him pay all the time... hope it helped.... if you need anything IM me of Email me
IM- xxxpinky615xxx

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im 13 and im 5'4..i weigh 140..am i fat?

well you might not be fat but you are a little bit overweight... you should weigh about 125 which is what i weigh and i'm 5'4" a good way to lose some of the extra lbs. is to run a lap or two around your devlopment and eat 3 meals a day.. cut down on sugars and fatty foods do this for at least a month and you should lose about 10 pounds.. maybe more if you're lucky!

hope i helped! IM me of Email me if you need anything!
IM- xxxpinky615xxx
Email- Matchbookrmnce15@hotmail.com

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my ex... i miss him... even tho he was such a big jerk... i need tips on getting over him... any ideas? things to do? ANYTHING. please and thank you. so much. bye all!

if you really want to get over him do not think about all the good times you had with him... if he was a complete jerk to you then think about what he did to you that got you so upset... that's what i did with my ex because he ran off and had sex with some chick and he's 14 years old and she was 17... you deserve to be treated better that what he must have treated you because it sounds like you don't like him too much... hope i helped... IM me or Email me if you need anything

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i really like this kid..and he knows that i do..and he said he doesnt like me..every time i try to talk to him..all he does is nod his head at me..and sometimes i catch him stairing at me..(or is it my boobs? cause he told my friend that i have big ones)how can i get him to like me?

well if he told your friend that you have big honkers then chances are that if at any point he comes up to you and asks you out it's because of your tits... you do NOT want that... you need a guy that's going to repsect you and like you for who you are not because of your boobs. you should sit down and talk to him and tell him that you like him alot and you'd like to go hang out with him sometime... always watch where his eyes go though when he looks at you because he might not be looking at your face it could be that he's staring at your twins... if all that he looks at is your boobs then he's really not a great guy and you should give up on him because he's a pervert and an asshole... hope it helped... if you need anything IM me or Email me

Email- matchbookrmnce15@hotmail.com
IM- xxxpinky615xxx

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ok . heres my deal , im going into high school on aug. 23 , and i really want to get a boyfriend for the first time cuz ive never dated b4 . im getting braces to which might turn a guy off . how can i get a boyfriend evn tho braces r a total turn off

you have to find a guy who's gonna like you for you... i've had braces for 3 years now and i've had about 4 boyfriends within those 3 years... i have a boyfriend right now and he likes me for me he doesn't care about me having braces he think's i'm beautiful on the inside... we were introduced to eachother over the internet and he didn't know what i looked like (i met him through a friend so you all know) and he said to me "i could care less what you look like, even though i'm sure you're absolutly stunning i don't care if you're the ugliest girl i've ever seen... what won me over was your personality" and we've been dating for 2 months now and things just keep getting better... just find the right guy that likes you for YOU hoped i helped if you need anything else just email me

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does fingering hurt if your a virgin?

nope... i've a virgin and i've been before... but it depends on if your coochie is like big or not... if you're tight it's gonna hurt. if you wear a tampon when you get your period it shouldn't hurt because you're used to having things shoved in there... hope i helped :-D

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umm this is kinda embarrassing. so im just gonna let it out...i always get a boner for like no reason..(im a guy)...ill just be sittin there and all of a sudden..ITS THERE! i dont like it. sometimes it can show. is this a problem? is it normal? im cinfused! >>ILL RATE

you're going through puberty still most likely so that happens (i'm a girl but i have MANY male friends) so if it shows my suggestion to cover it up is to lean forward and kinda put your elbows on your thighs and rest your head in your hands until "he goes down" one of my good friends who's younger than me he would wake up every morning and he'd have a boner... but as he got older it went away so there is no need to worry for that much longer unless you're like 12... then it's gonna suck... but if you're having wet dreams... that's another story... hope i helped

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I have a boyfriend but my parents don't know! I'm only in 7th grade so I don't know if they will be angry. I'm the only girl in my family so my Dad may make me break up with him! Should I tell my parents?

break it to them very easily... my first boyfriend was in 6th grade... you can tell your dad... ESPECIALLY your dad that you met a really great guy and you both like eachother alot and that you'd like for him to meet him. maybe on a weekend or on a friday night have him over for dinner... tell your guy to be himself and if he's really that great of a guy your dad might like him. but keep in mind... daddies are VERY protective of their little girls... just like mine is and your dad will be a pain in the ass because he's just afraid to see his little girl get taken away but you have to explain to him that you like him alot and you'd like to hang out with him outside of school... at first your dad might tell you that he doesn't want you to see him... maybe go to the movies with him and a group of your friends, have him over your house for a couple of hours and maybe your dad will see how much you guys like eachother... hope i helped! if you need anything else just email me =D

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What does a guy do when they finger you ? does it hurt? could you explain what it feels like help please
i'll rate good!!!

he puts his fingers in your cooch and like it goes in and out... and depending on how he does it... it could hurt... if you're really tight it's gonna hurt if he tries to use 2 fingers but after a while it will losen up and it won't hurt as much... and even though the first time it hurts... it still feels good.... very good

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I really like this guy. I like to flirt with him and stuff all the time. I think that if I told him how I feel, we would be going out. The problem is, it's my B/f's ex! I don't know how she would feel! Should I tell him I like him or what?

i think you should talk to your friend first about it and see how she feels... she might be ok with it and she might not be... it really all depends on the relationship she had with him prior to their break up. with my last boyfriend... i thought i was totaly in love with him and every time i'd see a girl with him i'd get super jealous... when he broke up with me my friend started going out with him without talking to me about it first... i might have felt different if she talked to me about it first but now since that happened we are not friends anymore due to "lack of communication and trust" so i think you should talk to your friend before doing anything drastic

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okaii..ever since da 4th grade ive been madly inlove wid my best friendz brother. And we went out for like 3 dais on 4th den in 5th we never went out..in 6th he asked me out but i said no. idk why though..i guess i wus to shy. now im in 8th grade and im styll madly inlove wid him. but in 7th grade for valentimes day i relle wanted to go out wid him so i stuffed my bra. i dont do it to school or wherever cuz i think itz so gay and retarded but i just relle wanted to win him over. he never asked me out but he sais i got a relle good body. the butt is all mine but the chest isnt. and ive been wearing 2 padded bras ever since that day . i dont want to out of nowhere juss stop bc then he;ll know i stuffed and then he seriously never will like me..but i relle want to bc i juss realized i dont want him liking me for sumthyn thts fake . and if he does ask me out and we do go out agen i dun want him to feel up on meh and notice ima fake. how can i stop? also i got another problem.hes inlove wid dis girl steffanie and everytime i c dem together it hurtz me so much. and i cant get over dis kidd bc ive loved him nonstop ever since the 4th grade. and i try to impress him so much..but it never happens..got ne tipz on wut i shuld do to turn him on? thanxs..and pleze help mehh..

well he should like you for you first of all not just your looks... if all he cares about is just your looks then there is no point in being with this guy or trying to be with him and you shouldn't have to prove anything.... that's basically all i have to say

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