well i have this boifriend and i have een goinout wit hym for over 3 month n i really like hym and people told hym that i have been kissing other guys and i havnt so how do i get hym to belive me
no_commitment_69 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 8:55 pm: u might hear this a lot but if he really luvs u he'll believe u if he doesnt i kno it sounds bad but dump his ass..
BeezKneez answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 8:13 pm: Well, if he's ur boyfriend all u should have 2 do is tell him that wut ppl are saying isn't true. He should believe u, cuz (even tho it sounds corny) in a relationship u should b able 2 trust 1 another with ur whole heart. U know? [ BeezKneez's advice column | Ask BeezKneez A Question ]
Jane answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 7:06 pm: *Relationships are all about trust. If he can't trust what you say, then the relationship is a lie.* [ Jane's advice column | Ask Jane A Question ]
xOx_AdElA_xOx answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 6:51 pm: just tell him u didnt do anythin nd that u wudnt do that nd u rly rly like him and if he doesnt believe u then he doesnt trust you nd then u need to leev him cuz if he cant belive/trust you then hes not a good b/f..hope i helped..<3 [ xOx_AdElA_xOx's advice column | Ask xOx_AdElA_xOx A Question ]
SwEeTeStSiN7 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 6:49 pm: I would talk to him about it. And if he dosn't beleave you then that shows he dosn't trust you and thats what a relationship is mostly about.
xxhotsexycutiexx answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 6:31 pm: well u tell him that ppl are talkin n if ur so clear on dat one...talk to him n tell him that...wut ppl sayin aint tru...n w/e w/e...he has to trust u...n give u another chance...let him check up on u...n wit time he will belive that ppl just like to talk n make up shit...if he doesnt give u another chance then it wasnt meant to b...forget him... also did ppl say dat to him infron of u? if they did...then u should've stand up for ur self n bla bla...but if they didnt n he sayin dat...he might just say dat cuz he doesnt feel da same way no more n he dont wanna break ur heart by telllin u that so he just made that up to make u feel responsible...feel me?!?!? so hmmmm i dunno think..xoxo effy [ xxhotsexycutiexx's advice column | Ask xxhotsexycutiexx A Question ]
Mercy_x_Me answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 6:28 pm: well this one isnt too hard. Just go up to him and say do you trust me more than you trust the rest of the world? Have I ever proved unfaithful to you? And then tell him all the trust you have in him, explain. Make him have reasons to believe you. Tell him how much you love him and how you have no other reason to be kissing other people when you have him... which is more than you can ever ask for.
xo_dream answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 6:24 pm: Just tell them they're just stupid rumors, and if he trusts you [[ hopefully he does ]], he'll believe you instead of the other people. [ xo_dream's advice column | Ask xo_dream A Question ]
NicoleMarie answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 6:16 pm: Is it possible to find out who is starting the rumors? If so, confront them and ask why they feel the need to say these things about you. It sounds like there could be a specific person behind all this who is trying to break you two up. Perhaps your man is envied. Hopefull your boyfriend can trust you. What more can you do but tell the truth> Hopefull he believes you [ NicoleMarie's advice column | Ask NicoleMarie A Question ]
Katie answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 6:14 pm: if he trusts you, he will believe you. if he doesn't then he isn't worth it and you really don't have anything. because trust is a BIGGIE in a relationship. tell him the truth - straight out he should know that you arent a cheater if you have been going out for 3 months already...and if he does thats just stupid...you could get better (not trying to be mean or anything) and those people that told him that - 1. why? and 2. they are jerks hope i helped. good luck and God bless!
laurengotback015 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 6:13 pm: Well, he should believe you over them. Tell him that if he really likes (or loves, whatever stage you guys are at) you he would believe you. Because you like him and noone else and you would never do anything to hurt him. If that's the case. And if he keeps accusing you of things you haven't done and believes everybody but you then you don't need him anyway. [ laurengotback015's advice column | Ask laurengotback015 A Question ]
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