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confused with what i should do
i just started going out with this guy i meet at cokemusic playing the matching game thing there. well i dont know what he looks like. he says he has hazel eyes and blonde hair. he sounds really cute. well he doesnt have a scanner and cant give me a picture. he told me his name and age etc. before i told him mine. im pretty sure its true {{the info. he gave me}} well i want to know what he looks like and i really dont know what to talk about. all we talk about is cokemusic.com so i dont know i think i need more to say to him and stuff. im 13 and he just turned 14. im going to turn 14 november 16 2004. well i dont know what to do someone help!! he sounds sweet. i know i dont know him that well but i want to. im really confused.
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Okay..you met him on the computer? Well, this is time for my lecture i'm sorry to say. This same thing happened to this person in my town. She talked with this guy on the computer who was "the same age" as her and they started e-dating. Then, her curiousity got the better of her and she asked what he looked like and he told her and then said he couldnt send a pic..same situation as you, remember. Okay she was really pretty sure he was telling the truth about everything and then he invited her to meet him at an airport to go across the world to another country. She snuck out against her parents wishes and she went and it turned out he didn't lie about his looks but he wasnt the same. He lied and it ended up he raped her. So you see, he could be telling the truth..but he could be lying. I dont think you should compeletely trust someone you met on the computer cuz even tho you are "pretty sure" you just cant ever be 100% sure. You need to be careful. you dont wanna end up like that girl in my town. I hope you do the right thing and be careful at what you tell him from now on. you dont want to get hurt. If he asks you to meet somewhere in person dont go and make sure to block him. Never ever do anything that you don't know for sure what's going to happen. Do the right thing and be careful. Good luck. :)
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well he cant possibly give u what u want...unless he gets a scanner or youll meet somewhere
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umm..just dont. dont give him anymore information, and you really shouldnt be "going out" with him. When are you ever gona see him? and how do you kno hes not some ugly freak guy whose 35 & has no life so he hasta pretend to be someone else. Because if he was really THAT cute wouldnt you think that he would already have a girlfriend?
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Ehhh...that whole thing isn't very smart. You never know who is on the other line when you are talking on the computer. If you want a boyfriend, get one you can see and talk to. It's a lot safer AND a lot more fun when you can see and hang out with the guy. For all you know you could be "dating" a 50 year old perv. So if I were you I wouldn't give out any info and just keep it on a "totally friends" basis cause you never know who you are talkin 2 on the computer. Be careful and never give out your last name, address, city, or phone number cause he might be a crazy lunatic and come track you down and stuff. So be very very carefull, hun. <3
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he's probably an internet pedophile... just watch yourself and stop talking to him because there are psyco people on the internet... someone murdered my friend because the same thing happened to her... she was talking to this guy that claimed to be so sweet and he wanted to do anything and everything for her and they met and he killed her... now he's in jail so just watch yourself... never meet people over the internet it's a little too desperate sounding
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I really don't think you should give him anymore information, because you don't know for sure that he's telling the truth [[ he could perfectly well be an innocent 14 year old boy, but he could just as easily be some 6O year old pedophile ]] .. so, yeah, if you want, you can keep chatting with him and stuff, but don't plan to meet him or give out your phone # or location or anything. Yeeah, that's just my opinion ..
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Id say as hard as it might be.... dont give out your info. And stop 'going out'. Because obviously if you dont know eachother it really wont last long. And if all you talk about is Coke Music... your barely in a relationship.... barely. And no matter what or who he says he is... he can be a 60 year old man.. no matter how old you want to believe he was. And sooo many people a year get abducted for getting in trouble and giving out info online. Seriously. dont put yourself in harm... its cool to make buddies online but stop telling him personal things about him and just say you want to be friends... that relationships cant exactly work out online. I dont recommend it... I've had friends who actually try that and totally run into trouble....... please..... go w/ my advice.
good luck
xoxo
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Well, in all honesty, you really don't know him at all, do you?
The joys of being on-line is that people can make up anything they want.. they can lie however they choose... until they get caught somehow by the truth.
Unless you actually talk to him on the phone to hear his voice, you know nothing about him - only what he's chosen to tell you.
I would not put a lot of faith in that. I try to be as picky and selective as I can about handing out information about myself on-line. Anonymity is a difficult thing to maintain.
Whatever you do, just be careful.
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