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do u guys like long or short hair better? (link)
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I suppose this is only an opinion, but I prefer short hair on a guy. And it's also what compliments the guy's face shape, so that plays into hand, too.
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is it normal for a puppy, to eat its own wastes,(poop)? (link)
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This is completely normal for a puppy/dog to do, however, it's not good for them. So be sure to always clean up what the puppy leaves behind, so it has no chance of doing it again.
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I need a cute idea for a 7th grade class for a talent show. They are the graduating class and would like to do something great that kids and parents would always remember. Any ideas would be appreciated. (link)
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1. You could have the graduating class sing a song together, that would be very memorable.
2. They could do a dance with the song as well, of course, depening on the song. I'm suggesting a madrigal type of thing, it would be really memorable for the class. :)
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I'm 14 and I'm not old enough to go get a regular job so is there anything else I can do for money like
I know babysitting is one but if there anything else I can do?
thanks ;] (link)
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You can do a little extra around your house, and your parents could pay you for them. You could mow people's lawns, and do things for your neighbors, such as cleaning their houses.
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im confuse i like this boy alot and i mean alot and every time i see him in the hallways my whole body just heat up and i feel so wierd at times. And i think about him everyday and he has a myspace and i go on it and look at his profile everyday. and when i see him with another girl i get jealous real easy even though we dont go out. i dont know if its a crush or is it realy love because i dream about him and daydream about him everyday and i even made wedding plans huh call me crazy. so plz what is this that im feeling. (link)
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I wouldn't call this "in-love," more like puppy love and a crush. This happens to many girls, so you aren't alone, in what you're feeling. Maybe, you should talk to him or hang out with him more often, and get to know him even better. This should make you two more comfortable around each other, and hopefully, make things progress! :)
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does pore strips do good for your face or does it hurt your skin in any way at all? (link)
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They're good for your face, because they open up your pores, and cleanse them.
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Ok so I am 13 and hav alot of hair on the bikini line and vagina. I dont know how to ask my mom if i can get a bikini wax. Also is 13 to young what is a good age? I wanna look oGood in a bikini this summer. Also is there any good advice to make it hurt less or any kits even (link)
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No, you aren't too young. I'm sure you would feel like I would feel asking my mother this -- uncomfortable. So I agree with one of the columnists below, you can buy a bikini wax kit quite cheap at your local drugstore, so I recommend gettting one of those instead of professionally having it done.
And I'm sorry, there really isn't anything you can do to make it hurt less -- unless you shave instead of waxing. You're only downside to shaving, is that it can cause ingrown hairs and you'll have to do it daily, because of stuble.
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I know i shouldnt hook up with him. If this was the first time he has brought this up i would be scared, but it isnt. When he was single he wanted to hook up with me still, but i was just getting over him so i said no. Then he kept writing me and i started to fall for him again. I liked him for three years, after i pointed out how hott he was the other girls jumped for him. He knows i like him but he has been showing feelings for me in the past 4 weeks. I want to go for it, but i dont want to hook up in school. What do i say to him to convince him to do it outside of school????
---Troubled Heart
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Dear Troubled Heart,
I think you should talk to him, and let him know that you're not comfortable hooking up in school. If he's a good guy, he'll understand. If he doesn't, I would move on to someone who will treat you as you deserve.
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do i have a yeast infection if my discharge is whiteishh or is that normal. oh yah and there is not itching or burning. (link)
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No, this is completely normal so you have nothing to worry about. Here's what a yeast infection is like: A bread-y type of odor, and the discharge will be yellow. You may experience some burning and/or itching with a yeast infection, those are some of the common symptoms.
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i'm 5'5 and weigh 158lbs. i've been going on and off diets for awhile, and the one i was recently on worked great. i lost 15lbs on it! well, this weekend..i kind of over-ate and gained 5lbs back on (on thursday i weighed 152lbs).
i need tips on how to keep myself from cheating on my diets, and stick to it. i also need tips for snacking, excersising, and a way to beat cravings..
i have no deadline, really. if i can loose this weight before school ends, i'll be happy.
thank you so much for the advice :) (link)
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I myself, am not a fan of diets. I'm healthy, and suprisingly, that word isn't in my vocabulary (diet.) I recommend some excerise each day, such as running a mile, or on a treadmill -- you could join a gym. There are lots of ways to stay healthy, and lose weight in a good, healthy way. :)
1. Try to think of the reasons for your health, that you need to lose weight (if that's your reason.) Let those remind you every time you want to cheat, and that should beat your craving. If you want my advice though, eat what you want in small portions. It won't make you gain weight, if you eat in moderation and in small portions.
2. My tips for snacking are when you want snacks, go for the trail mix, yogurt, peanuts, fig bars, turkey sandwhichs, fruits, vegetables -- these are some of many healthy foods you can eat. They're yummy, and much healthier for you than candy bars and cakes.
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i know this girl and we have been best friends for the past three years. the thing is, i do not get attached easily. unfortunately, she does. i've been thinking about cutting her loose for a while now, i mean she's conceited, rude, melodramatic, and jealous. i do care about her, because i know that she is a good person with good intentions. we just dont fit together anymore. anyway shes really, really emotional and i don't want to tell her that we shouldn't be friends anymore, and she's in my math class and i don't want to have to see her everyday, i mean that's so awkward. she hangs out with me EVERY DAY so it's just habit by now, and it's hard to kind of limit the amount of time we spend together because she really notices, u know? anyway, i guess my point is, help? (link)
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Maybe, you should talk to her first, and let her know how you're feeling. I wish I could tell you there's an easy way to do that, sadly, there isn't. However, try to be as nice to her as possible and not go off on her, or anything of that matter.
I'm a girl, and if it were me, I would want to be talked to first -- rather than ignored, or just have said, "I don't want to be friends with you anymore..." I would want to know the reason, even if it's going to hurt me. So I recommend talking to her and explaining to her that you really do want to be friends with her because you care about her, but she's acting differently now, etc.
Or if you'd rather just not be friends at all, no matter what she says -- just talk to her, still let her know how you're feeling, and go from there.
Good luck!
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hi, i know this is going to sound weird and embrassing and this is the reason why i can't tell anyome. im 18
basicly, im still a virgin, but my boyfriend always brushes his penis on my vaginal area and sometimes just leaves it at the entrance. his never cummed on me but sometimes he does have pre-cum on his penis. i last came on my period on the 4th february 2007, and i haven't come on my period since. im so scared that i could be pregnant that i did a early first response pregnancy test on monday which was the 5-03-07. however, it came out negative but i still haven't come on my period. i sometimes get cramps like i feel my period is going to come but it still hasnt.
2 weeks ago i lost a family member and have been really stressed out. do you think this could be the reason for my late period.
i beg you reply back a.s.a.p. im so scared im always crying. please help thank you very much (link)
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I hope I'm quick on replying to your question, sorry, if I'm not. Honestly, I do not think you're pregnant. Especially, after taking a test and it coming out negative. I believe you're having an irreglar period, because of the stress of your family member that has been lost (I'm very sorry for you loss!). I have been through this before, as far as the family member, and I didn't get my period as it was supposed to come. It was due to so much stress, and I would say with you being scared and crying, that it's causing your period to be irregular.
Here's what I would do, wait about two weeks from now and see if your period comes. If it does, great! And even if it doesn't, I suggest getting another test at that time. If it comes negative then, I would say most definitely you aren't pregnant.
Please, try not to worry about this too much. And try to keep your stress level down. I know, it's hard, but I really do not think you're pregnant. I honestly, do not. So again, try to stay calm and get some rest. You'll be okay! Good luck, I'm sure everything will be a-okay! :)
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im 16 female turning 17 in 3 months and im 5'6 1/2 and i was not suppose to get up to being that tall my doctor told me that i was most likely going to stop growing when i reach 5'4 but i havent grown since last year and iv been 5'6 1/2 since last year and people keep telling me that im going to grow even taller than i am now because im not fully grown yet but i dont really believe them and i dont want that i dont want to be all extra tall so is being 5'6 1/2 at the age of 17 tall?? (link)
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Honestly, you have nothing to worry about, and your height is actually considered to be more on the short side. So being that height is just fine, love your height. I'm 14 and 5'8" and I'll probably be 5'9" or be 5'11" one of these days. Being tall and short are both good things, either one that you are is always okay. They both have their advantage, no matter what height.
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how come no one gives you "feed back" on your answers anymore. like serouisly. (link)
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Many just don't like to do this anymore, probably because of they're lazy. Also, some people seem not to know how to rate, so that's a possible reason, as well.
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Has anyone used the music program called Bearshare? If so- does it work well? And do you get viruses from it?
Thanks. (link)
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I've known people who have used it, and they thought it worked well. However, you have to go through making a profile, if that doesn't bother you. Keep in mind that all illegal p2p sharing contains viruses, trogans, worms, etc.
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does anyone know how to take back an e-mail sent to someone? i wanna know how if there is a possible way. could i take it back if it's an e-mail sent to a website that has an address to where they want people to send them e-mail and is it the same on those other ones where you fill out an information entry. (link)
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Unforunately, there is no possible way of "taking back" and email that has already been sent. Once an email is sent, that baby is a done deal. Sorry!
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I want to be remove from this site. what do i have to do? (link)
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Just as YG said, you'll need to email DN (dangernerd@gmail.com) to be completely removed from the site.
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i would like to tell you all, that you are beautiful. everyone on here are the greastest among people. for we are all hear to help and be helped. and this is no question. and if i get suspended or deleted from advicenators for it or something, so be it. but the main point is, you are all wonderful people and every one of you are making this world a better place by signing on here everyday and helping someone half way around the world that you don't even know. that's what's gonna change the world. if everyone was like the people here, the world would be a better place. but sadly it's not. but maybe someday, it will be. so if you see a struggling man or woman, do not laugh, stick out your hand to help them. do good in the world, more than you already have. and maybe someday you can change the world. and i write this becuase someone answered the boy from pakistan in a way that really moved me. and it makes me appreciative of what we do here. and it makes me aware of how good i am. compared to some people in the world without homes, money, food. or are young parents. and their last hope in the world is here, and when everyone gives a helping hand, it's something beautiful and unreplacable. God bless all of you! (link)
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I wish all people thought the way you do, and I agree with you. I hope that not only I, but all of us here on advicenators help out people on a daily basis. As YG explained, we'll never really know if we helped them or not, but there's always that hope -- or that little message with a thank you from their feedback to make someone's day. It's always makes mine, knowing if anything, I helped them a little bit with their problem(s).
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well today my bff called me a pendeja(its a bad word in spanish)when i walked away she told me that she was just joking around and that i take everything to personnal she said that i was like her mom then she said that she was just getting revenge for freshmen year when i got mad at her for wat other people said(we are in 10 grade now)then 2day after school she waited for me but i was so mad at her that i walked ahead of her she then her friend asked why i was doing that she said that i was mad at her i just left and she just stayed wit her other friend.Wat should i do? (link)
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You have a true right to be mad, and if I were you, especially, knowing the meaning of this word -- I wouldn't even be friends with her again. Of course, that is up to you, but if you still want to be friends. I would have another talk with her, and explain to her it's not funny and it isn't cool. So never do it again, and if she did again I would say, "Bye!"
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okay, i never had a boyfriend before up until last week. he's coming over sometime in the next few days. i think we're watching a movie but anyways. there's a few problems.
1. my dad doesn't like the fact that i'm dating guys and he'll probably say no. how can i convince him to get to know him? my boyfriend is probably one of the sweetest guys in the world..i just don't know how to get my dad too give it a chance.
2. how can i make this night, not so boring? like, i've never been kissed before or anything, and i don't know what he's expecting of me. so we watch a movie, and then what? board games?
3. does everyone feel so insecure when they start dating? or is just me?
please help. (link)
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1. Boy, do I know this problem! However, the only difference is my dad wants to meet the guys (scary!). I would talk to him alone, and let him know that this guy really is a good guy. You want him to meet the guy, ask him over for dinner and then, he'll be able to meet him. Because I'm sure, if he doesn't know this guy, and he's anything like my dad -- he will never let this guy come over, especially, if you two are going to be alone.
2. Board games are okay, but they aren't suggested by me. You two could just talk and have a conversation, take a walk together, or bring on the board games. :) By the way, you never have to do anything you're uncomfortable with, so if this guy trys something he shouldn't -- show him the door.
3. No, you're not alone. Many feel insecure, especially, with their first boyfriend. I did at first, and as I got more comfortable with the guy everything was just fine. So really, you have nothing to worry about. Just don't let those insecurities get in the way, of your relationship.
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