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don't want to be friends
i know this girl and we have been best friends for the past three years. the thing is, i do not get attached easily. unfortunately, she does. i've been thinking about cutting her loose for a while now, i mean she's conceited, rude, melodramatic, and jealous. i do care about her, because i know that she is a good person with good intentions. we just dont fit together anymore. anyway shes really, really emotional and i don't want to tell her that we shouldn't be friends anymore, and she's in my math class and i don't want to have to see her everyday, i mean that's so awkward. she hangs out with me EVERY DAY so it's just habit by now, and it's hard to kind of limit the amount of time we spend together because she really notices, u know? anyway, i guess my point is, help?
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There's only one thing to do besides talk to her and it would end in a big mess and a big fight and hurt feelings.
If you're too scared to talk to her (At least sit her down and explain whats happening) just try and fade away from being friends. Don't exactly ignore her and blow her off but just start to slightly fade and fade.
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Maybe, you should talk to her first, and let her know how you're feeling. I wish I could tell you there's an easy way to do that, sadly, there isn't. However, try to be as nice to her as possible and not go off on her, or anything of that matter.
I'm a girl, and if it were me, I would want to be talked to first -- rather than ignored, or just have said, "I don't want to be friends with you anymore..." I would want to know the reason, even if it's going to hurt me. So I recommend talking to her and explaining to her that you really do want to be friends with her because you care about her, but she's acting differently now, etc.
Or if you'd rather just not be friends at all, no matter what she says -- just talk to her, still let her know how you're feeling, and go from there.
Good luck!
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