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im so scared i might be pregnant


Question Posted Wednesday March 7 2007, 6:11 am

hi, i know this is going to sound weird and embrassing and this is the reason why i can't tell anyome. im 18
basicly, im still a virgin, but my boyfriend always brushes his penis on my vaginal area and sometimes just leaves it at the entrance. his never cummed on me but sometimes he does have pre-cum on his penis. i last came on my period on the 4th february 2007, and i haven't come on my period since. im so scared that i could be pregnant that i did a early first response pregnancy test on monday which was the 5-03-07. however, it came out negative but i still haven't come on my period. i sometimes get cramps like i feel my period is going to come but it still hasnt.
2 weeks ago i lost a family member and have been really stressed out. do you think this could be the reason for my late period.
i beg you reply back a.s.a.p. im so scared im always crying. please help thank you very much


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alisonmarie answered Friday March 9 2007, 6:37 am:
Does your period normally arrive like clockwork? If not, then you're not late enough to cause a huge amount of worry.

Bereavement is a huge stress, and this can affect your cycle. The cramps you have felt are probably due to PMS, and your period is likely to arrive any day now.

If it's not here within the week, take another pregnancy test. If it's negative, you may want to see a doctor just to confirm everything is okay.

Once you're over this bump in the road, you might want to consider if you are happy with the level of protection (or not) you are taking. While pregnancy isn't hugly likely from the scenario you describe, it is possible.

Sorry to hear of your loss, and I hope you can be gentle with yourself during this time.

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LagunaBabe answered Wednesday March 7 2007, 6:39 pm:
I hope I'm quick on replying to your question, sorry, if I'm not. Honestly, I do not think you're pregnant. Especially, after taking a test and it coming out negative. I believe you're having an irreglar period, because of the stress of your family member that has been lost (I'm very sorry for you loss!). I have been through this before, as far as the family member, and I didn't get my period as it was supposed to come. It was due to so much stress, and I would say with you being scared and crying, that it's causing your period to be irregular.

Here's what I would do, wait about two weeks from now and see if your period comes. If it does, great! And even if it doesn't, I suggest getting another test at that time. If it comes negative then, I would say most definitely you aren't pregnant.

Please, try not to worry about this too much. And try to keep your stress level down. I know, it's hard, but I really do not think you're pregnant. I honestly, do not. So again, try to stay calm and get some rest. You'll be okay! Good luck, I'm sure everything will be a-okay! :)

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khadiya answered Wednesday March 7 2007, 3:28 pm:
Yes this could be from stress. Wait this month out and then if it doesnt come on, take the test again. If you continue to feel bad go to the health department. They cant tell your parents anything because your an adult in their eyes.

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