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revenge
well today my bff called me a pendeja(its a bad word in spanish)when i walked away she told me that she was just joking around and that i take everything to personnal she said that i was like her mom then she said that she was just getting revenge for freshmen year when i got mad at her for wat other people said(we are in 10 grade now)then 2day after school she waited for me but i was so mad at her that i walked ahead of her she then her friend asked why i was doing that she said that i was mad at her i just left and she just stayed wit her other friend.Wat should i do?
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You have a true right to be mad, and if I were you, especially, knowing the meaning of this word -- I wouldn't even be friends with her again. Of course, that is up to you, but if you still want to be friends. I would have another talk with her, and explain to her it's not funny and it isn't cool. So never do it again, and if she did again I would say, "Bye!"
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Nothing. She called you a pendeja, you have the right to be mad.
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I think that you took this too seriuosly. You should just let it go. I mean thats your bff. If she said she was just playing then im pretty sure she was just playing.
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You need to talk to her about it. Yeah she may not understand but just try. And if she still doesn't just forget about the whole thing and hang out with her again. If she does something like that again then you need to ask her to stop. And if she doesn't then you need to find a new friend that won't hurt your feelings.
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Well I looked up pendeja and ya it is bad word and no one should be called that for no reason. If nothing happened before that she probably was joking around, but if something did happen then she wasn't joking around. So say something didn't happen before she called you a bad word...she probably was joking, but she should also appoligize because that could hurt someone joking or not. I see why you are mad at her even if something didn't happen before. Then think about what you could have done to make it stop there. Maybe you couldn't do anything and that's fine. From what I've heard I'm on your side. Then she said she was getting revenge...revenge is a preschool thing when it comes to a year or more dating back. That is very stupid and it is no excuse for calling you an asshole. You were right to just walk away. You needed time to cool off and maybe now you are ready to talk to her about. It is a good thing you walked off and didn't start a confrontation. So say something did happen to make her call you a pendeja...you should think about what it was that set her off and ask if maybe you were the one who really started this whole thing. If it was you apologize and expect one from her too. The revenge thing once again is immature. Tell her if she is still whining about that one thing one year ago she isn't a really true friend. True friends forgive and forget. And once again you were totaly right to just walk away. So what do you do...tell her how you feel about the situtation. Tell her that you were offended by it joking or not. Tell her that is not acceptable behavior. You be the bigger person and maybe next she will have more respect for you. Respect=Love=Relationships=Communication. Get her to respect you she will love more. Build a better relationship of love and respect. And then the last part. Communication is what keeps us on our toes. So talk to her if you are having a problem with her. Don't start the conversation out with yelling. Just tell her everything (from the first time you saw her to now) of how you are feeling about your relationship. Open up to her it will make it better I promise!
Hope I helped
Kelse Kaye
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Hmmm tough situation. Mabye you should just tell her how that made you feel. Im sure she didnt think you would get mad and the only reason she said it was revenge is because she didnt know what else to say about it.She probably didnt want to ask you herself if you were mad at her just in case you were thats why she sent her friend. Just tell her if she does it again you will be mad at her but this time youll let it slide. Hope i helped.
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well your friend keeps grudges (you prob already knew that).i would talk to her and explain you were mad because of what she said. i know even though she said she was "just joking" it still feels real. tell her that your going through a lot and it's hard for you to handle extra stress from friends etc... if she doesn't understand then she must not be a very good friend.and by staying bak with her friend instead of catching up with you she was probably "getting revenge" for you not waiting with her. and maybe talk to her other friend and see what your friend is really thinking about.
hope i helped =>
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