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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave it
I'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=



Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.


I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.


I do not like when people have issues with typing.

iif u typ3 liik3 thiiz iit piissesz m3 0ff. Alot.

advice

ok i want chuck taylors and i like all of them but should i get the low tops the ones your roll down or high tops?!?

get all 3... they are mad comfortable and they don't cost alot either. i have all 3 styles in 4 different colors i have red, black, pink, pink/black and i'm getting white ones soon... whichever you feel more comfortable in are the ones that you can just start buying from now on! hope i helped!

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i am a freshman going into higschool, and i have a problem w/ this girl going into 11th grade whos 2 years older than me. well back in middle school we were on the same bus, and she was really mean to me. she would SCREAM mean things to me in front of EVERYONE, like saying im ugly and stuff, and she would take my schoolbag and dump it all over the place, and she would pour soda on me.. it was humiliating.. she used to threaten to beat me up when i got off the bus, and she would have people come up to me and say shit to me. LAST YEAR I TOLD MY MOM AND SHE WENT TO THE SCHOOL AND TOLD OUR PRINCIPLE AND MADE IT WORSE CAUSE THE GIRL ONLY HARASSED ME MORE AND MORE AND PEOPLE MADE FUN OF ME... well now were gonna be on the same bus again, and i wanna know how to handle the situation. if shes yelling at me on the bus, should i say something back? ignore her? ask her if we can talk it out? or ask her why she's doing this since i didnt do anything to her?... i dont want to make her even more mad, because then she'll be worse to me. tell me how to handle it, but dont tell me to call the cops or anything, i wanna know what to do... im REALLY SCARED.. thanks

tell her this... when she starts tourmenting you again just tell her "i'm sorry that you have no life that you have to be tourmenting me every single day... don't you have something better to do in life? because this whole tourmenting thing is getting wayyy old and honestly you bore me" you have to work the reverse psycology on her! hope i helped!

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I'm starting a new school as a sophmore on the 16th of this month where I don't know anybody! In my old school I was semi*popular! I want to be very popular in my new school. Do you think that it is possible for the "new kid" to be popular? Anyone have any advice on how I can do that? Or if you look up to someone or know someone popular....can u tell me what makes them popular. Anything would help. Thanks a bunch! Kisses! -*-me-*-

popularity shouldn't matter unless you're too self concious and you need other people to make you feel like you are something... just be nice to the people but really popularity shouldn't matter to anyone it's so stupid no offence because there are alot of disadvantages to being popular... first thing is your attitude changes the second thing is after your attitude changes you might start being mean to people then you'll have ALOT of people that are against you and no one ever wants that it happened to me... i speak from experience

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Ok im 13 and ive never made out wit a guy (ima gurl) and my best friend always does things b4 meh and she just made out wit sum1 and now i feel like a loner. wat do i do

you're first kiss should be special between you and a guy that you really like... it shouldn't matter who kissed who first it's not a competition you're first kiss will be very special i promise you just have to wait and be patient!

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hey can anyone help me? i just gave myself an abortion yesterday with a close hanger and im really sore. can anyone help? like medicine wise, or will sex help the pain?

that's really sick honey really it is you need to go see a doctor... like as soon as you get this just go see a doctor that is SOOOO not safe and another thing WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU?!?!?!?!??!?!!?

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What are the bases? Like I know what a home run it but like the rest of them, what are they?

the four F's
Frenching (as in the kissing)
Feeling( as in up shirt and he feels your boobs)
Fingering(the fingers being shoved into your coochie)
and fucking... we all know what that is hope i helped!

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Please, if you have an answer, help me. Especially guys, they might understand:

The thing is, I have this guy cousin who is 15 and I was hanging out with him 2 months ago, and he really has gotten quite groovy looking since the last time I saw him. Infact, he is absolutely gorgeous. ANd he is the funniest guy I know, and amazingly fun to be around. And I love him as part of my family, but when I went to visit him in London, I realised that I think I have feelings for him. But I don't think he has any for me...then again, I don't understand how guys are...but he talks about sex with me all the time, and I have seen him pretty unclothed...and he was comfortable with that. But I don't know...is it wrong that I like him, and is it unusual? And how would I know if he likes me or not?

i'm sorry but it's very disturbing that you have a crush on your cousin... it's called INSEST or inbreeding as my dad calls it that normally happens down in alabama or in pennsyltucky.... no offence you guys from PA but the really really country part of PA has alot of insest people

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i love rock/punk...i'm always looking for new stuff to listen to. can anyone name a few bands for me?

if you like rock and punk you might like this band called hawthorne heights... they are post- hard core and screamo they are my favorite band go to their site... www.hawthorneheights.com and there is a link for you to listen to their single Ohio is for lovers... it's a really rad song hope you like! and i hope i helped!

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how do you keep your clothes from shrinking.. like jeans and shirts!! please help

don't put them in the dryer and if you do... put them on the setting for LOW HEAT... my dryer has a setting for no heat so if yours does too then that helps even more! hope i helped

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Ok, well i have this friend who always tells rumers about me! i hate it and i always tell her how i feel, but everytime i tell her she goes and tells another rumer! what should i do?! help me please!
signed.
Losing a friend?

she's not you're friend then... whatever you do do not start rumors about her because that will just make things worse. if you've told her a million times to stop then you should just stop talking to her if she keeps doing it.. she's really not a friend if she's doing that to you. if you know that the rumors aren't true then that's all you need to worry about... if people are believing her then they are ignorant assholes (excuse my language) hope i helped! if you need anything IM me or Email me!

much love

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ok im 13, 5'4, and 97 lbs and a high matabalizm. my friends say im skinny, and i agree but sometimes i think im too skinny.. when im at school people make fun of me bcuz they think im anorexic but im not. i try to gain a few pounds but the more i try to gain, the more i lose. can you help me please! thx *Marielle*

wow you are really tiny! i'm 5'3" and i weigh 125 about... i don't think you need to gain pounds of FAT but you need to gain pounds of muscle... i have a really high metabolizsm but now it's beginning to slow down a bit... but for a while i was tall and extreamly skinny you could see my ribs poking out of me and everyone thought i had a disease or something. my only question to you is whether you've gotten your period or not... if you've gotten your period then you might want to see your doctor... if not then really there isn't much to worry about... i noticed that after i got my period i started gaining more weight and you couldn't see my ribs anymore... but i wasn't FAT i was still slim and i was at a healthy weight... if you need anything just IM me or Email me! hope i helped!

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omg!!!! ok like 10 min. ago i was shaping my eyebrows , and i totally messed up , one is higher the the other and there to far apart . what can i do that can help in 7 days!!!!! thats wen school starts . please help

pencil them in.... you can ask your mom for help to do it because i know alot of moms that do that... if all else fails cut emergency bangs but make it look cute... and then you have a new hair style before school starts... if you don't like it let your hair grow out... just keep this in mind... HAIR GROWS BACK! IT'S NOT THE END OF THE WORLD! i've done that with my eyebrows once... hope i helped!

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Hey...I'm not very good at making friends, any Ideas?

well it all depends on how you aproach people... you have to be nice.. i had a problem with making friends because i was a complete bitch to them all the time but then i went through alot of changes and i started being nicer to people and they started being nicer to me... i have alot of friends now... just be nice and try to make conversation... find out what their interests are and start up a conversation with them... hope i helped!

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okay umm last nightt the guy i like said to me i hear u like me and i was like yea i do an he was like sweet . .maybe we should hook up sometime . .did he ask me out? i'm confused . .any guys wanna give me a translation? thankss
-iCEd lAttE x0x

he didn't exactly ask you out as in "will you be my girlfriend" kind of a thing... he just asked you out to maybe go out on a date and then maybe see where things go from there

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ok mai friend (shes 14) n her ex (hes 16) went out for 10 months n just broke up yesterday cuz his dumbass cheated on her w/ a 12 yr old. yeh...thats kinda sick, but anyways she really loves him n he wants her to forgive him so they wont be on bad terms w/ each other. but, the problem is, theyre both too stubborn to talk about what happened..do u have any advice for her?

honestly... i think she should just forget about him because if he "loves" her then he wouldn't have done that to her... but if he's truly sorry then she should sit down and talk to him and tell him how she really feels and how bad it hurt her when he did that... there are 3 key things to having a good, strong relationship... love, trust, and honesty... hope i helped!

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Im 16 f and im 5 feet tall . Does any one kno any good stores to buy pants from that sell them in short sizes?

at the gap or at abercrombie (not abercrombie and fitch though) (both stores which i hate but hey you might like them) depending on your waist size like if your waist was a size 2 you could get 2 short and it would fit you

hope i helped!

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i need help..i really feel like im fat..my friends say that im not but i really think i m. i am 13 years old nd i weigh 120 pounds..my sister is 14 nd she weighs like 90 pounds...nd shes super skinny..she eats so much more than me nd shes still skinnier!! sumtimes i cry at night cuz i feel so fat...ive tried exercisin nd dietin..i even went on a starvation diet for two days but then i stopped cuz it wasnt healthy..even tho i lost 10 pounds...i hav a pool nd i go swimmin alot but i dont like to be seen in a bathin suit..i always go swimmin alone..i really need help..can sumone please help me!!
xOxO unc0mf0rtable xOxO

sweetie you're not fat!! you're sister sounds like she's balimic if she weighs 90 friggin pounds and also you might not be fat depending on how tall you are... i'm 5'3" and a half and i weigh 125 and i'm completely comfortable with my body you're not fat and i'd start getting concerned about your sister because being 14 years old and weighing 90 pounds is not normal at all

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What about my sister started when she was 12 and she and my mom both have a big chest but I only wear a size A-B and my mom and sister have a C sized chest

okay... this might be a little hard to understand but i will try my best for you to comprehend... you get different genes passed through you from both of your parents... your sister probably has more of your mother's genes than you do... so if your dad has a sister(or your dad's mom) you might start your period later on as she did you will develop larger breasts soon.... my mom started her period when she was 14 or 15 and i got mine when i was 11 ( was about to turn 12) my mom has about a size C chest (almost D) and for a while i was very flat chested, my breasts are begining to grow more and now i'm about a B.... just be patient... it's normal probably within a month or 2 (maybe more than that) you'll get your period... when you start getting your period your breasts will start to grow more rappidly due to puberty so it's all natural... you don't have to worry about a thing some girls start later than others and some start wayyyy earilier than others one of my friends got her's when she was 9 years old and she was a size B in 5th grade while most of the other girls were completely flat chested hope i helped! sorry i had to make you read alot!
IM me or Email me if you need anything!

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I do get cramps and sometimes small amounts of blood but inbetween months (sometimes every 2-3 months) and I dont know why..Help Me Please

hmmm.... well the only thing i could tell you was to either tell your mother or go see a doctor... it might not be anything bad... but it's never happened to me so you might want to ask your mom or ask your doctor hope everything works out!

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Hey, I feel really stupid asking this question..But I have been having a hard time trying not to cut myself. I've been trying to find other ways to cop with it and I picked a bad way to to it by taking pills. Does anyone out there know any ways to deal with it? Is there somthing I can do to take it off my mind?? I'm already seeing a theripst and it doesnt help it all. If there is any advice u can give me I would really appreicate it! -Jenny

i'm not going to answer this question here... IM me on my EMERGENCY ONLY sn xkissxmex522x DO IT AS SOON AS POSSIBLE please we need to talk

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