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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave itI'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=
Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.
I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.
I do not like when people have issues with typing.
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So what acne stuff do u use
i use noxema or however you spell it i use those face pad thingers
A lot of people say this "proactiv" solution works. It is always being advertised on tv and online. I am so ready to order it, but then I stop and think,..like hello? it's from the infomerical! And do they have it available at stores, so I'll know it really does work?
okay i will tell you the dead honest truth.... it's a piece of shit. i used it and i don't even have that many pimples but i just wanted to really clear up my skin. it doesn't work at all! it made it worse! about 2 weeks after i started using it my face like exploded with pimples it was worse than when i started using it! i stuck with it a little bit longer an entire month and a half longer and still NOTHING!
my friend's parents dont think that teens know what love is so shes getting as many people as she can to tell her what they think about love and stuff like that. but she doesnt have that many people. if some of you could please help and tell what you think about love then please do. thanks.
it's very easy to fall in love. alot of young girls when they first start going out with their boyfriends they automatically say "i love you" to them. they really don't love eachother. love is a very strong word and you can't take it for granted. you have to mean it when you say it because to me telling someone that you love them is like crying wolf. i'm sure you all know that story so i don't have to get into it but i think that if you're wayyy to comfortable to say it to someone then you really don't love them and i mean too comfortable to say it to them when you first start dating eachother. i love my boyfriend i love him for who he is and i am in love with him. he's in love with me we have strong feelings about eachother and we know that we want to be with eachother for a long time. love is just such a strong feeling that it's hard to explain to people. i'm not sure if that helped but... you asked what i thought about love.
I have really thick hair and i can wear it down there is only one way i can... if i hairspray it when its wet. other than that it poofs out. and if i sraighten it then it looks bad. i am alsoo constantly pukking it back into a pony tail. what are some cute ways i can wear my hair that it isnt too much of a hassle?
if you're hair is curly like mine i have really THICK curly, long dark brown hair it's down to the middle of my back. if i want to wear it curly i take a shiz load of gel and run it through my hair and scrunch it then i put on the defuser attachment to my blowdryer and let it dry a little bit... at that point depending on my mood i'll either leave it down like that or take a clip and pull some of it back and leave a couple of strands hanging in my face. if you can blowdry and straighten your own hair then it would look cute like that too but it might take too long so this is another option! it takes me 2 hours to blowdry and straighten my hair and i did it everyday for 7 months while i was in school when i realized i could do that with my hair! hope i helped! if you have any other questions drop one in my box!
ok well 3 weeks ago this realllly hot guy *tai* came came over and hes a senior & im a sophomore. well hes the guy that every girl wants bc hes funny and freakin soo hot its unbelieveable. but so he came over & we had un protected sex and idk i was 2 weeks late for my period then i had it. but i heard that u can be pregnant & still have ur period. the only reason im sooo worried is bc i had been pregnant before (but had a misscarriage) and i had the same feeling that i was like before. im so scared cuz i mean im only 15 and i cant be pregnant again. wut do u think i do???
first of all you shouldn't be having unprotected sex to begin with! does your mother know you do this??? first of all if you're going to be sexually active at 15 go on the pill! or get your tubes tied or something! but really you shouldn't be having sex at your age!
Hey Guys! Well I just moved into a new house and I have painted my room pink! I love the color! Just to give you an idea its the color of peptobismol! (lol.) I love all colors (especailly pink and black) and I was wondering if anybody had any ideas on decorating (please dont leave me any messages saying do what u wanna do. i want real ideas) Tell me anything from shelves to posters! Whatever helps! Thanks in advance! -Sonnie
what you can do to spice up your room a little bit is throw in BUNCHES of different shades of pink all over the place! my room is the same color (i love pink) hope that helped a little bit
This question is gonna be long so moderators, please don't delete this question. I need to explain myself a little bit before I can explain my question. I'm a 14 year old girl, I'm 5'6, and I weigh 113 pounds. For all my life, I thought I was ugly or below average looking. I have never had a boyfriend but now I think guys are gonna start liking me and then I might get a boyfriend. Well lately, I've been getting great comments like I'm hot or really pretty. Today, I went to the beach with my mom and my sister because we had "to bond more" lol yeah right. When I was walking to the car to go home, a few African Americans and white guys hit on me lol. They said "Damn girl you're fine and you gots a nice ass and legs". After what happened today, I'm feeling more confident about what I look like. I'm going into the 8th grade soon and I think I might get a few boyfriends during the school year. I am done growing in height wise and I think my beauty phase is coming in lol because now people think I'm hot and stuff. Ok for my question, do you think I might get my first boyfriend this year because of what has and is happening to me? If this question isn't too difficult for you, I would really appreciate it if you can answer it. Thanks
well if you're becoming more attractive then chances are that more boys will be interested with you. but the thing is if they are saying things like "damn baby you're fine" and "you got a nice ass and legs" they aren't exactly the kind of guy you want to go out with. a guy needs to respect you and like you for who you are... not what you look like. if you have a great personality then you're all set. if you're pretty then that's a plus! just make sure that if you do get a boyfriend he's not calling you "hot" all the time... if he tells you that you're BEAUTIFUL or really pretty then that's alot better than being called "hot" in my opinion being called hot is kind of a way for a guy to be saying "i want to get in your pants" and that's all that they want. if you have any questions about this subject feel free to IM me or Email me. hope i helped!
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Iam 18 years old and just got into a new relationship with an older guy. Hes 22. Im still a virgin and he isnt. He told me when and if Im ready to have sex with him then that will be an issue that we sit down and discuss. Iam very mature and know exactly what I want out of life. Im a great person..so Im told. I really do think that I am emotionally and physically ready to have sex. Its just that Im so self concious and think that I wont be any good. Not just at sex, but kissing and oral sex. I havent kissed a guy in 4 years and Im terrified to mess up. How should I handle this? How can I make myself feel better about this?
if you're self concious about doing those things with him and you think you won't be any good at it just sit down and talk to him about it. i know it sounds odd to be talking about a fear of being bad at kissing and oral sex but if he loves you and he respects you then he will understand and not pressure you into anything. you said that you really do think you're emotionally and physically ready to have sex but if you think that you won't be any good at it you're really not 100% emotionally ready just yet. i'm a virgin (of course becaus i'm 14) but i feel that if you truly love a guy and you want to be involved with him in that way and he truly loves you then he won't judge you on whether you're good or not. you're a virgin... you're not supposed to be experienced at that stuff! don't worry about it. just talk to him and you'll feel better! hope i helped!
Well I am a 20 year old female and lately I been wanting to have a baby. So when I ask my boyfriend of 4 1/2 years he was like no because he had to babysit his 6 nephews all the time. So what should I do?
well i'm not an expert when it comes to babies but my suggestion is to maybe wait it out a couple of years until your boyfriend is really ready to have a baby with you. and plus you are still very young to be having a baby. you have your whole life ahead of you. have you gone to college yet? you should get your whole life put together before you have a baby so that way when you do have a baby your child will grow up in a loving home and you won't be struggling finacially. really think about if it's what you want. my cousin who is 22 just had a baby... she's wanted a baby for a long time now and she finally has a beautiful little girl named Ella Grace. the baby's father didn't want to have a baby... he didn't want the responsibility. so now she is left by herself to raise her baby. hope i helped! but really think about it! good luck!
I have played basketball all my life... it has become an every day thing for me ... every day i practice 4 to 6 hours a day... This year for some reason Im confused about wanting to play or not...I played this summer with our towns varsity and want it to stay that way, but if i end up of JV i will be really depressed like last year should i still play even if it means being on JV?
if you love bball then keep doin your thing. if you practice that much you'll most likely get on varsity... but really keep doin what you love!! don't let it go! good luck! i hope you make it on varsity!
..::..emily..::..
I didn't know what catogory to put this in. What are some good truth or dares to use at a sleepover or something?
a good dare is "i dare you to lick bird shit off a car"
i have a boyfriend and i wonder why im so afirad to kiss himits weird isn't that i have a boyriend and im scared to kiss him
maybe his breath smells really bad? lol no i'm joking... it is completely normal to be nervous before you kiss someone i was shaking like a leaf when i had my first kiss but it's all worth it... as soon as your lips hit his... you'll calm down and you'll be fine. hope i helped!
how was your 1st kiss? some people say they should be special and all when i dont think mine will go like that since im so unexpierenced! - pLEase help, ill rate! :0)
well to be honest my first kiss was actually a french kiss. it was a very sweet moment. it was with this guy i liked for a while and we were sitting on the steps of a church that was near where my house is we were talking and laughing and he just looked at me and he closed his eyes and he kissed me. if you are going to FRENCH kiss a guy here are some tips: make sure your head is slightly tilted to one side so your noses do not hit eachothers. don't close your eyes until you know that both of your lips are aiming in the same direction. your mouth is not a jack-in-the-box so don't pop your tongue out every time it open. massage his tongue with yours and do not open your mouth that wide or else it will seem like you are going to eat his face! and to make it a little bit spicier nibble on his lip... do not do it hard though... i had a bad experience with that once. the guy tired to nibble my lip and he bit it so hard i started to bleed! and my boyfriend says it's called NIBBLING for a reason!!! hope i helped! if you need anymore tips just leave your Q's in my box! oh and another thing make sure your breath doesn't smell bad! if you want pop a tic- tac in your mouth and if it isnt gone by the time you start kissing him it could be cute too. if it accidently goes into his mouth pull away and say "HEY YOU STOLE MY TIC-TAC!! GIVE IT BACK!" that's what happened once with my boyfriend i thought it was hilarious. GOOD LUCK!
can anyone tell me any good way to boost the volume in your hair like good shampoos and/or gels that actually work!! thanks (didnt know what catergory to put this under)
use any bed head hair products... they are a little bit pricey but they work! hope i helped!
Hey! This question is for anyone who has ever changed schools! I wanna know how long it takes to make friends! I'm really pretty shy and I'm so scared I won't have any friends!! I dont know anyone and I want to know some ideas on how to get to know everyone! Thanks a billion! -me!
well i've never changed schools but i can fathom that changing schools must be pretty tough... i'm going into highschool and there are going to be alot of people i don't know and some of my old friends but making new friends is easy... just talk to them be nice and try to start up a conversation with them. smile and be friendly everyone loves a nice smile :-) hope i helped!
okay school starts in 3 weeks and i wanna loose as much weight as i can before it...i weigh 105 to 107 and i wanna loose it! i need to loose on my thighs too they're pretty big. i excersise by going to the gym i only go like 2 to 3 times a week and play bball...what're some best ways to loose weight? how much could one loose in one week? by doing what? help and thanx!
honey you're TINY! depending on how old you are and how tall you are.. that's pretty small and you don't need to lose an ounce and if you play sports and your thighs are big... it's muscle! but other than that you're really tiny so you don't need to lose weight! if you thought you were a little over weight then i must be a cow! i weigh 125 and i'm 5'3" and a half and i wear a size 3 in pants so i'm pretty small.
Hey Sweetie! Well thanks for the advice but I think you were misunderstanding my question! I dont want to be popular in a bad way! I really meant more of like, how do I get ppl to notice me. I don't want to blend in! Ya know? Sorry it was my fault. lol. Love ya! Thanks a million. -me!
okay... i get you now lol sorry about that! just be nice and always SMILE! just don't smile wayyyy too much because the will think you're a freak but be nice to everyone... help people out they'll like you for you and you seem like a very nice girl! so i don't think you'll have a problem at all!
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I went out with this guy for 4 months, (From October to January) and I broke up with him because I thought I had no feelings left for him. I guess it was just a time of the moment thing, because ever since January I've been soo depressed. I've wanted to kill myself. I'd cry every single night. Sometimes I still do. He's not taking me back, and he's a year younger. So I guess he might think I took advantage of him. But, his bestfriend rides my bus and he told me a bunch of shit that wasn't true, and he made me believe it. So basically I was forced to break up with him, blah de blah de blah. I told my ex about his best friend, and he made exscuses for him. Like "Maybe he was jealous, or sometimes he gets mad or hyper and does stupid stuff".
So anyways, this guy that I seriously want to spend the rest of my life with, well I need a way to get him back. I don't just want to be with him forever, I need to be with him forever.
Please, If someone could help me at all, I'd owe you a big one, and I'll rate you too, I just need help. =/
whatever you do... do not cut... that is the worst thing to do. just write down your feelings about everything i used to cut for the same reason and i would do it every night... it got so bad that one day i took 15 sleeping pills and i nearly killed myself i was in the hospital for 3 days and sweetie... you're 13 years old yes it is very easy to fall in love with someone but you'll always get hurt in the end BELIEVE ME i've been down that road a couple of times and it's not pretty. just try your best to move on.. hang out with your friends go shopping. take long hot bubble baths. and my suggestion and i'll say it as many times until i turn blue but i promise you it works WRITE WRITE WRITE WRITE WRITE!!!! hope i helped if you need anything my sn's are xxxpinky615xxx or xKissxMex522x
do you consider ppl with dirty blonde hair as blondes or brunettes?? cuz ppl joke that i'm blonde when i say dumb things, but i really don't think i'm blonde!!!! lol
you're a half blonde so they have the right to joke about it so technically you are a blonde but only half! then the other half you're brunette! hope it helped!
Hey! I am a sophmore who recently moved from Arkansas to Texas and I have no idea if the styles are diffrent or not!!! I would really like to know what to wear on the first day since I don't know anybody. Oh and could u maybe tell me what your wearing! *I RATE HIGH!*
i'm not the best with fashon but my suggestion is to pick up a LUCKY mag or TEEN VOUGE and they have really hot styles for this new school year! hope i helped!