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ok well there is this guy and he got pissed off at me and my friend

and so i was tlaking to him and stuff i asked him why he wass being so meana dn wut we did and he said he didnt hate us and i asked if he ever likes someone(my friend)and he was like well i liked u more thn her

and soo i fell really bad that he liked me not her wut should i do should i tell her or just keep it a secret?

umm idk whatever you think. it depends on how your friend reacts. would she care if you told her?? if you think its juss gonna start drama then don't tell her. i don't really see the point in telling her though. maybe he'll tell her himself.

-hope that helped!♥

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Okay so im going out with this guy, and i really like him a lot. but theres this other girl that he liked a lot before and they are like really good friends and he talkes to her more than me. He tells me he doesnt like her more than a friend but i think hes lying to me. I know that she still likes him. do you think he likes her and is just going out with me for laughs?

the only person that will know is him i guess. tell him how you feel about it. you shouldn't be dating someone that you think likes another girl. ask him about it & if he does like her then you guys will break up but if he insists that he doesn't like her, then trust him & ask him to tell the girl that.

-hope that helped!♥

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alright so me and this guy who we can call Eric have been together for about 2 weeks but we've known each other all our lives. We aren't going out (bf/gf) yet only because we go to dif schools and we can't hang out enough for him to get that right moment. Well, anyways, we talk on the phone a lot and that's pretty much our main communication because we're both so busy. Lately, when I've been calling him he always comes up with some excuse to not talk to me like "I have to drive up to Yarmouth, again." or "i have to go do my brother's laundry" and "I have to go hang out with my cousins". So like I'm fine with him doing other things because I totally don't want him to have to feel like I need to be #1 in his life. He knows this too. But now it's been like a week where we haven't really talked and everytime he comes up with an excuse, he says he'll call me back. Yeah, he never does. My question is, should I call him back or should I just wait until he calls me? Or do you think by not calling him anymore, it's putting our relationship at a risk?? please help I'm so confused. And I rate 5's if it's not crap. Thanks

i think that he's making up excuses to not talk to you. i mean, he doesn't take long to talk for 5 mins & juss say hey how are you what are you doing etc. he should be doing that if he feels the same way you do. he should have time for you so you guys can work through it. i mean, you did call him & its his fault he doesn't call you back. i think you should juss wait a bit. maybe he really is too busy, but idk about that. you don't want to have a relationship with someone that has no time for you & makes up excuses on why they can't talk. try again, & if it still doesn't work give him some time. he'll either see that he wants more time with you & call you to talk er you'll see that he's not that great of a guy if he can't give you any time. before you do this call him & ask him about it. explain to him how you feel about it.

-hope that helped!♥

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my parents are going through a divorce, and i am devastated. how can i get over my stress?

sorry to hear that. a lot of people parents are divorced er going through a divorce. maybe you should talk to some of them at your school er something. u need to juss realize that even though your parents are getting a divorce, it has nothing to do with you. they both love you the same as they did when they were married, they juss wont be living together. i think you should talk to your parents about the whole situation. it'll probably make you feel better & maybe they can help the stress thing.

-hope that helped!♥

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I'm dating this girl. I'm really happy, and I love her very much. but theres this other girl that likes me, and she happens to be a close friend. She has a b/f and she's wants to dump this b/f for me. But how do I tell her I don't wanna be with her? I don't want her to get mad and stop being my friend.....idk....

u juss need to tell her how you feel. i don't think she'll get mad at you, because she likes you & plus she probably wants to be your friend, even if you guys can't date. i think that you definately need to tell her so that she knows & you don't want your gf getting upset over it, er mad because you won't tell the girl that likes you that you don't like her, that you like your gf. juss explain everything to her.

-hope that helped!♥

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when you put ur face under warm water, will it make my face smoother or what?

uhh not really. you need some sort've facial wash. i think it juss refreshes you & gets rid of extra dirt er bacteria.

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whats the difference between fraternity and sorority?

fraternity=guys
sorority=girls

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My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year and a month, on Decemeber 15. We are always together, and I think that I love him. I know it's like, oh your a child you don't know what love is, but I really do believe that I am in love. We were laying on my bed on each other and I was thinking about how I love him, and I was about to tell him.. I asked him what he was thinking about, and he said, "I love you." It was like so strange though because I was just about to say the exact same thing, but anyways.. Wow, totally off topic. I'm 13, and whenever we are making out.. We get a little too into it, I suppose. Where it gets to the point when it's "dry sex", or having sex with your clothes on.. Yes, I know it's weird.. But, I feel the erge to want to have sex with him, and go farther, sexually. I am only in 7th grade, so of course I don't want to go that far.. All I have done with any guy is "feel up", because I refuse to go farther.. He was trying to finger me and I wouldn't let him. Basically, I am trying to ask..

Would it be wrong if I had sex with him?
I don't think I am ready, at all.
I could be wrong? Maybe, I am.
But - I am scared that next time we hook up that it will go a little too far.
And it's not like a 10 second hook up, it's more like 10 minutes.
Really, how far is "too far"?
I believe feel up is far enough for 7th grade.
But I'd love your views.

i think that this is totally up to you. i don't think you should actually have sex, but that's juss my opinion. yes, people have sex at age 13, but there's a lot of things that go with it. stds, pregnancy, you guys breaking up, rumors, people seeing you differently, getting caught, etc. if you guys love each other you should be satisfied until you get older er get married. it also depends on your beliefs, values, religion, etc.

-hope that helped!♥

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Ok there was this guy I liked named Mike...well I thought I liked him but then I jst denied it because I didn't know what people would think..ya I know I shouldn't care but I did. Well he would always get in my face and do stupid things to get my attn. so I'm pretty sure he liked me, but I jst kept ignoring him..eventually he stopped. Now I realize that I reeally really like him...but I don't know if he lost interst or just moved on! Yesterday we were standin in this little group of friends nd when i looked up he was atarin at me so, idk doeas he still liek me or what? If he does how can I get us talking?
*I'll rate!!*
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talk to him about it!! he'll probably really appreciate it & he probably has some interest in you. you'll never know until you talk about things with him. you don't wanna be curious & wondering if he likes you er not. juss go & hang out & slowly bring it up. tell him how you feel about it & ask him how he feels about it.

-hope that helped!♥

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http://fashionbug.charmingshoppes.com/Shopping/product.aspx?product_id=FM002607&nav=FM

Anyone think that shirt is cute cause i want to buy it

your site isn't working, but if you try sending it again er getting a different link i'll tell you my opinion. juss leave one in my inbox if ya want er repost it.

-hope that helped!♥

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what does the spanish word mierda mean in english?

hahahaha =) yeah it means 'crap' idk this kid in my spanish class says it all the time & explained to us what it meant.

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OK..I need hElp! im a girl ok and im 15 and so theres this boy i've liked since the end of the summer and he knows i like him because my friends always be like she likes u and so and so..but i don't know he's very complicated, it seems like he likes me cuz he calls me every night and we fall asleep together and its sooo cute! Everyone thinks that we would be a cute couple..but he just doesn't asked me out. I've asked him awhile ago but he was like i dont know and i dont wanna presure him and think im a crazy person I just don't know what to do!

Please help

try not thinking about it. i know, almost impossible, but you juss need to give it time. if you throw everything at him all at once he could possibly get tired of it & want to give up etc etc. if he really likes you he'll eventually ask you out. maybe he's shy to get into a relationship. maybe he thinks its too fast. idk, juss talk to him about it & give him time to think things through. he'll let you know & then you can tell him anything you want.

-hope that helped!♥

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Alright well my boyfriend broke up with me and like, the day after he went out with this other girl. Well they've been dating for about a week today, but three days ago he pretty much broke up with her but he also told me if she had a good reason why he should stay ; he'd give her another day. Well I guess she came up with one, because they're still dating. ( obviously since its been a week ha anyways ) well I left him a message pouring out my emotions and what-not explaining how I thought about it and I was going to take him back and then I came home and saw his away message saying,"___, I love you" and the ___ wasn't my name. So I just asked him what was going on, and he sent me a message today saying," I'm waiting for her to fuck up. I love you." I don't get it. Why is he waiting for her to mess up? Because that obviously sounds like he doesn't want to be with her, right? Is he just waiting for an excuse of WHY he broke up with her whenever he does? I just don't understand what's in that head of his anymore...


And please, don't say "I deserve better" "don't take him back" I mean, I understand that, but I believe in everyone deserves a second chance, and I believe he deserves one too. Plus, I love him too damn much to let go, ha. :]


Please help.

you're going to get hurt because really i don't think he knows what he's talking abouttttt but!! i'm here to help soo i won't tell you what i think you should REALLY REALLY do but i'll tell you part of it. you should let him sort out things with his gf er somewhat gf now before you come in & try fixing your relationship with him. it'd only be fair to his gf now anyways & you don't want to cause extra drama that isn't needed. yes, some people do deserve 2nd chances etc. but you have to be careful about them. give him some time & space and if he truly wants to be back with you then he will & you guys can sort everything out. juss let him fix things with his gf now first before you guys get back into things.

-hope that helped!♥

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Okay so me and my boyfriend of over 13 months broke up on monday and that night i called up his best friend to ask him if he thought that we were going to go back out (me and my exboyfriend). So I started joking around about me and him doing things with each other... So then he started asking if we would do things without him knowing and i said maybe once just to get him to shut up and he kept pressuring me so i was like no i cant because i love ryan too much.. i told ryan (my ex-boyfriend) about it and he asked his friend and his friend said he was kidding about it the whole time and i was like no he wasnt and then ryan told me that he hated me and he wanted me out of his life.. i want to keep pinning his friend saying everything went wrong but i dont want ot ruin their friendship and i want to get back with ryan so bad... What should I do??

you have to talk about it. i mean, obviously you & ryan broke up for a reason right?? so you guys juss have to be friends for now & talk to ryan & tell him how you feel. maybe you should keep away from ryan's friend when you're trying to fix things up with ryan. if it doesn't work then juss give him a bit of time. he'll come around if he truly cares about you.

-hope that helped!♥

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How do I made a messy bun so it stays in place?
It always slip out after a cuouple of minutes..or directly if I run =/
Sometimes it ends up being a ponytail ;P
What am I doing wrong!?

my hair is really really curly so it stays. you might wanna try curling your hair first if it isnt. use bobby pins. tricky i know haha =) juss put em in places that usually fall out first. you might juss need a tighter hairtye that wraps around a few times.

-hope that helped!♥

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What are some signs of anorexia, or signs of going in the path of anorexia? also if your heading in the path to anorexia what are way you can stop yourself? thanks. ill rate 5s for good anwers

i found this website-

http://www.mamashealth.com/anorexia.asp

that should answer most of your questions. if you have/think you have anorexia, er you think a friend does, please go to someone & get help. unless you're doing this for a project er whatever it might be, but if its real as in you might have it er a friend, get help asap. if you need any other sites you can leave some in my inbox.

-hope that helped!♥

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Ok. I'm going to this party tongith and the guy I like is gonna be there. My friend likes him to...we are definetly gonna play spin the bottle.

What the heck should I do!!!!!!

uhh you do whatever you feel at that moment. i mean, duhhhhh you could play spin the bottle with him, but that gives him chances to kiss other girls & your friend could get mad & what not. as soon as you get there try talking to him & juss be friendly. don't over do it, juss casual. talk to him, hang out & whatever happens juss go with the flow.

-hope that helped!♥

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In german class the teacher told us we can make a gingerbread house for extra credit and I've never made one before so i need a good recipe to tell me how to make it. Can anyone help me find a recipe to make one! Thanks!

gingerbread houses are so cool haha =) i found a website-

http://homecooking.about.com/library/weekly/bl120797a.htm

it seems good to me, but if you don't like that one then you can google it.

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I took my first school picture..
the eye doctor said that after getting my first glasses this summer my eyes might get a little light sensitive
they got REALLY light sensitive on picture day.
I ended up blinking in my school picture.
I freaked out, then took retakes.
They came back today.. eyes closed.
I already talked to the yearbook sponsor. She said that I can bring in a picture of me and they'll scan it into the yearbook.
But there will be a different background and stuff and it will be at the end of the yearbook.
I have this AMAzing picture of me and i want to put it in, but i'm not sure if people will laugh at me or anything or talk about it if it sticks out.
Should I have stick out or not have a picture in there at all?
I rate 5s for constructive answers.

stick out!! a lot of people probably wish that there's would. maybe everyone will be like WOW she looks good er w/e haha =) if you really don't want to then don't but i think you should. if you're having doubts, maybe they can scan the year befores picture er w/e. i think you should use that one though.

-hope that helped!♥

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okay well our highschool has a foreign exchange program, and we recently had several students from spain come to our school to stay for 3/4 weeks. Long story short- one of the kids liked me and we had a "thing"... he wasnt just one of those guys you hook up with.. because im not into that stuff.. so basically we were really close the whole time he was here, and now he's returned back home, and we email every week.. But- i had been talking to one of his friends and asked if id have sex with him (this was .. the last week they would be here?) i said no because i didnt want to have sex yet and that it wasnt appropriate in america for kids my age to have it without it being a serious relationship.. they explained that in spain it was very natural and not odd at all..

so my question is, do you think he was just using me for the fun of being in america? or do you think they were telling me the truth and that it wasnt odd at all to ask to have sex?

thanks in advance

ps: yes he told me he liked me, (before we hooked up), when we first started talking and getting to know each other.

i guess none of us would really know, basically because even though most guys might be the same, they're different haha =) idk that probably doesn't make sense. your options are he either really does like you er he was using you. i mean both are possibility, only because it was a short thing & not a serious relationship. if you guys do email every week though he probably likes you. i mean if he had no true feelings whatsoever, he wouldn't care to email you, but he does. i guess you can go both ways with this. maybe you should ask him?? i know that might sound weird but it could help. do whatever you feel comfortable with.

-hope that helped!♥

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