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should i call him??
alright so me and this guy who we can call Eric have been together for about 2 weeks but we've known each other all our lives. We aren't going out (bf/gf) yet only because we go to dif schools and we can't hang out enough for him to get that right moment. Well, anyways, we talk on the phone a lot and that's pretty much our main communication because we're both so busy. Lately, when I've been calling him he always comes up with some excuse to not talk to me like "I have to drive up to Yarmouth, again." or "i have to go do my brother's laundry" and "I have to go hang out with my cousins". So like I'm fine with him doing other things because I totally don't want him to have to feel like I need to be #1 in his life. He knows this too. But now it's been like a week where we haven't really talked and everytime he comes up with an excuse, he says he'll call me back. Yeah, he never does. My question is, should I call him back or should I just wait until he calls me? Or do you think by not calling him anymore, it's putting our relationship at a risk?? please help I'm so confused. And I rate 5's if it's not crap. Thanks
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Okay. I say dont call him back a lot, because then he might get sick of you, and guys apparently sometimes like hard to get. So call him back maybe once. But not a lot. Have you thought that maybe those excuses are very truthful? I mean, they might just be an excuse, but who knows? They might be truths.
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I kno what you mean you dont want him to suffer like all the times i would suggest that get someone that goes from his school and tell them that to keep a eye on him just to check to see why he makes all those excuses before you call him or just call from a whole different number and act like someone else or get someone to call for you .well i hope that i helped you
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i think that he's making up excuses to not talk to you. i mean, he doesn't take long to talk for 5 mins & juss say hey how are you what are you doing etc. he should be doing that if he feels the same way you do. he should have time for you so you guys can work through it. i mean, you did call him & its his fault he doesn't call you back. i think you should juss wait a bit. maybe he really is too busy, but idk about that. you don't want to have a relationship with someone that has no time for you & makes up excuses on why they can't talk. try again, & if it still doesn't work give him some time. he'll either see that he wants more time with you & call you to talk er you'll see that he's not that great of a guy if he can't give you any time. before you do this call him & ask him about it. explain to him how you feel about it.
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