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He's really confusing me
Alright well my boyfriend broke up with me and like, the day after he went out with this other girl. Well they've been dating for about a week today, but three days ago he pretty much broke up with her but he also told me if she had a good reason why he should stay ; he'd give her another day. Well I guess she came up with one, because they're still dating. ( obviously since its been a week ha anyways ) well I left him a message pouring out my emotions and what-not explaining how I thought about it and I was going to take him back and then I came home and saw his away message saying,"___, I love you" and the ___ wasn't my name. So I just asked him what was going on, and he sent me a message today saying," I'm waiting for her to fuck up. I love you." I don't get it. Why is he waiting for her to mess up? Because that obviously sounds like he doesn't want to be with her, right? Is he just waiting for an excuse of WHY he broke up with her whenever he does? I just don't understand what's in that head of his anymore...
And please, don't say "I deserve better" "don't take him back" I mean, I understand that, but I believe in everyone deserves a second chance, and I believe he deserves one too. Plus, I love him too damn much to let go, ha. :]
Please help.
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Obviously you dont want to hear that you deserve better, and dont take him back, because it may be the truth.. I think you answered your own question... give him a second chance, obviously you want to.
Personally i wouldnt, you can be stronger than that, rather than let him play with your emotions.. Really its up to you if you dont wanna hear the truth...
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you're going to get hurt because really i don't think he knows what he's talking abouttttt but!! i'm here to help soo i won't tell you what i think you should REALLY REALLY do but i'll tell you part of it. you should let him sort out things with his gf er somewhat gf now before you come in & try fixing your relationship with him. it'd only be fair to his gf now anyways & you don't want to cause extra drama that isn't needed. yes, some people do deserve 2nd chances etc. but you have to be careful about them. give him some time & space and if he truly wants to be back with you then he will & you guys can sort everything out. juss let him fix things with his gf now first before you guys get back into things.
-hope that helped!♥
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