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Gender: Female
Location: Australia
Occupation: customer service consultant
Age: 20
Member Since: December 6, 2005
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Last Update: December 28, 2005
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im trying to upload pics onto my myspace but my pics arent in a GIF or JPG form they're in a BMP format so how can i get my pics onto myspace? (link)
give them to arnie.. he'll fix
Good luck mr brown


alright for this i dont want anyone telling me " that i should just let them be" or anything ..alright so this boy and girl...there going out...i lke the boy and the girl is my friend..they have been going out for like a week and they dont talk on the phone and barely see eachother...and i feel like i talk to the boy more than she does and so i want them to break up..want are some good ways to get them too?


ILL rate 5 for anyways..just not like " thats mean" (link)
Really, let them be
Your being a terrible friend


My bestfriend made out with my exboyfriend and i know that he is my ex but she is my bestfriend should my ecboyfriend be off limits?? What should i do? Should i tell her that she hurt me or just let it go?
Please i will rate 5's for any decent answers. (link)
I would definetly be upset if i was in your position..

I would definetly suggest you tell your bestfriend how you feel about it.
How can she be your best friend and do that to you?
Definetly let her know how she hurt you. And as far as your ex goes...
I wouldnt even bother with him..
You go girl...



Alright well my boyfriend broke up with me and like, the day after he went out with this other girl. Well they've been dating for about a week today, but three days ago he pretty much broke up with her but he also told me if she had a good reason why he should stay ; he'd give her another day. Well I guess she came up with one, because they're still dating. ( obviously since its been a week ha anyways ) well I left him a message pouring out my emotions and what-not explaining how I thought about it and I was going to take him back and then I came home and saw his away message saying,"___, I love you" and the ___ wasn't my name. So I just asked him what was going on, and he sent me a message today saying," I'm waiting for her to fuck up. I love you." I don't get it. Why is he waiting for her to mess up? Because that obviously sounds like he doesn't want to be with her, right? Is he just waiting for an excuse of WHY he broke up with her whenever he does? I just don't understand what's in that head of his anymore...


And please, don't say "I deserve better" "don't take him back" I mean, I understand that, but I believe in everyone deserves a second chance, and I believe he deserves one too. Plus, I love him too damn much to let go, ha. :]


Please help. (link)
Obviously you dont want to hear that you deserve better, and dont take him back, because it may be the truth.. I think you answered your own question... give him a second chance, obviously you want to.
Personally i wouldnt, you can be stronger than that, rather than let him play with your emotions.. Really its up to you if you dont wanna hear the truth...


Alot of people smoke weed. Even my boyfriend used to but i made him quit. Even my parents do. For some reason i dont like weed. Ive never really tried it. But knowing my parents do it makes me think bad about them. It makes me think why do they do it but they are supposed to set a good example. Most of my friends do it too. I guess im just a good girl. But my boyfriend tries to convince me that theres nothing wrong with it. And i never agree and i dont think its right. Its a drug and im ashamed of everyone that does it. I dont know why though. Is there somthing wrong with me? anything will help! but please dont leave me rude comments.

Love-KMR (link)
I Truley admire you for being the only one who doesnt like it!
Its a bad drug, it definetly effects you in the long run,
It can cause things like Scizophrenia, and bad depression..
there is definetly NOTHING wrong with you for not wanting the drug.. my advice is..
DONT TAKE IT!!
I really admire you for not falling in the trap of peer pressure, and its good to see that even with all the people in your life doing the drug, your not..It shows your a very strong person.
Look up Weed on the internet, and find out the affects of the drug..
Keep up your willpower.
Your parents may be too far gone to help now. try and Get your friends off it, let your boyfriend know of the affects, set a good example.
You are for alot of people..


Ok, so I have this one guy friend, who I happen to like. But, he really really likes another girl. And I'm fine with that, but the problem is that this girl only likes him as a friend. Like at the dance they were dates and she was dancing with another guy...and i saw her grab him. And he looked really sad, so i got to dance with him. But out of the corner of his eye i could see he was watching her the whole time and I could tell he was sad. To me it kinda seems like a love triangle. I like him. He likes her. She likes someone else. Does anyone have any ideas of what to do?

sorry its kinda confusing and long (link)
Definetly tell him how you feel!
Go for him, let him know how special he is too you and tell him nice things about himself to make him feel good about himself..

I think your in for a good chance,,
Let him know how much the other girls is missing out
You have nothing to Loose!!


alright im 15.f is that helps.
so i have a boyfriend who i totally love, but i cant help it but have a little crush on this guy. the guy i have a crush on i THINK likes me hes constantly flirting and calls me too. i mean i wouldnt break up with my boyfriend for him, but i think about him alot and really like hanging out with him. any advice on what to do- thanks! (link)
I think that you should decide on who you think you want to be with,
I dont think its fair on your boyfriend that your contemplating about another guy, although it is normal to have these feelings, i think you should watch other people's feelings also..
Do whatever your heart tells you to do.


I want to walk into my babysitting job with the kds running up to me saying yay _____ here! How any tips? I'll rate you high for trying (link)
Be friends with them, rather than try to control them.


ok well i have this friend and were were BEST friends in 5th, 6th, 7th, and 8th grade now were in 9th and i hardly talk to her. She has changed alot so i dont really know what to get her fro christmas. I dont really know if i should get her anything i mean we dont hang out much anymore and if she didnt get me anything i dont want her to feel bad. but i think im still gonna get her something anyway but i need some ideas.

i guess she is like more punkish now and i dont really know what she likes. (link)
Its sad, but the truth is.. people change.. at young ages, you are still discovering who you are..
She might not know where she socially belongs, and is just trying to find friends that suit her best.
Of course you can still buy her a present, let her know how mich you miss her


im 14/f and the guy is 15 okay so i have liked this guy for about a year now but like last night after i left church (he goes to my church) i dont know but i had butterflies in my stomach and like i couldnt sleep well at night and like this morning i had butterflies and now i get to see him (i dont talk to him in person but just online) does anyone know what that means? (link)
obviously you have some sort of crush on this guy.
I wouldnt call it love yet as you havent had a chance to get to know eachother well enough. I would suggest make friends with him and see where it takes you from there..


Sir,

I want to know that during pregnancy is intercourse is possible.
I am married and my wife is 12 week pregnant, may I have sex with her.
I also know detail about Intercourse during all weeks of pregnancy till delivery? thank you

Asif Jah
a_sifjah@yahoo.com
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Sexual intercourse is ok until up to about 7 months of pregnacy...
So live up those 7 months!


Okay, I'm 20, I've never had a boyfriend, and I've had this nagging (We'll call it "Women's intuition) feeling that a friend of mine really likes me. I'm pretty sure he likes me because of the way he treats me. I could go on and on about the signs, but there's way too many of them...see, I don't feel the same way about him...I'm terrified that any day he's gonna' say, "by the way, I really like you and wanna' be your boyfriend" in the middle of a conversation...I've politely declined several boys before, but this one is especially hard, because I consider this boy to be one of my best friends...like a brother. And breaking his heart is the last thing I wanna do. Even though it's unavoidable if in fact he does like me, I would like to know the least painful way to respectfully say "no thanks"...

Thank you!!

S (link)
If your definetly 100% not interested, then just let him know if he confronts you..

To maybe test him, pretend that you met a guy somewhere and see what his reaction is like..

If he gets angry/jeleous then theres your answer
Dont lead him on, and make it quite clear that you only see him as a brother..
Guys come and go , Friendships lasts forever.


i went for a drink with a nice looking 27 guy,well i thought we got on great, talked for 2hrs before i had to go home/ he has my moblie number, but he hardly texts me now, since sunday, i was wondering how do i know for sure that he likes me& wants a relationship with me ?? (link)
Its always normal to wonder what goes on in a guys mind, You obviously want a relationship with him as you said 'How do i know if he likes me & wants a relationship with me?'

Well you need to ask him out again for starters, if he accepts the date then the is definetly a possibility that he has an interest in you.. If he declines, then i think the answer is plain and simple.. Hes just not into you..
You need to be careful when using the word relationship to a guy, who you barely know.. Why would you want a relationship with him straight away? you dont even know him..And this could scare him away.. Guys arent as sensitive as females, and tend to take commitment more seriously. Take this chance by asking him out again..And then you will be able to determine where you stand with him..



alright so me and my boyfriend have been together for a month. but we don't tend to talk a lot wich kind of upsets me,i was thinking on ending the realtion ship but i truly do like him a lot. we went out once over the summer for quite a period of time but broke up over a silly reason. but now were together again and i don't want it to get messed up again.how could i talk to him about this?
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Its hard for me to answer this question. it would be helpful if i knew how long you have known eachother for and how old you both are

Communication is a very important piece in a relationship.. Not only is a relationship boyfriend/girlfriend, its also a friendship. Let your boyfriend know that your worried about the relationship and think that you should open up more to eachother.. Ask him questions about what he wants in a relationship, why he decided to be in one.. Can he see a future.. If he cares for you then he wont hesitate to tell you how he feel, Although keeping in mind that guys and girls are very different to eachother, and guys dont tend to open up as much as girls.. So go easy on him..


lately my gf has been having stomach aches that she has never had b4. we had safe sex and i rarely bust while im in her. i think she might have a strain..wat else could it b? (link)
It can be normal for your girlfriend to experience pains, she could be getting and internal cramp, which is normal (ive had them before)

I would suggest for her to see a doctor, because its kind of hard for me to answer this question as i dont really know where the pain in or what kind of pain..

Definetly go to the doctors, dont be scared, i bet its something so simple and easy to fix


i was seeing this guy on and off for about a month... we worked together and everything but now some girl is datin him and shes supposed to be my best friend... i dont know what to do.. she cheated on him and had sex with one of my friends and the night after she had sex with one of his friends... then the next night his friend confronted him and he broke up with her... the only thing is he took her back the following day... she used the lines "i heard u were cheating on me so i had to get even... i dont know what i would do or where i would be without u... i need u in my life..blahblahblah" and he feel for it... when i make out with a girl in front of him he gets mad... when he sees me with my guy friends he gets all jelious and tries to flirt with me what do i do?? (link)
Ignore the last two comments.. they are obviously not cut out to give good advice. I think they are very rude for calling your question stupid..
No question is stupid.. they all have reasons..

Any way, back to your question

Obviously this girl is not your best friend..and if i were you, i would distance myself from her, she doesnt seem to be very trust worthy.. And in regards to this guy, have you told him your feelings? You cant resent him for what hes doing to you because in fact, he really doesnt know that he's hurting you if you havent told him how you feel..

Maybe he does like your 'Best friend' but from what she has done in the past i dont think they will last very long.. the trust is already gone!

So if i would u i would tell him how you feel, and to be honest, if he really wanted to be with you, dont you think he would be??

If it doesnt work out just remember, there is so much more out there, and so many more people to meet. You will find the right person one day!


13/F
My friend Shayna and I we're chilling with her really hot cousin who likes my friend Jenna... All he talked about was Jenna I left at 6 and Jenna came over Shaynas at 7:30. well jenna already said he was ugly and i had no chance to tell anyone that i liked him. SO NOW jenna is going out with him and Shay and her b/f and Jenna and Shays cousin and me are hanging out friday . this is going to me completly weird im the only single girl .... i feel so left out and kinda pissed off at Jenna cuz she keeps talking about him even though i told her i liked him today :(
is it alright to be pissed? do you think it would be weird? (link)
I know how you feel,
I have been in this situation before when i was younger, i went out with 2 girls, and 2 guys, and i was the one left out.. I know it can tend to make you feel pretty crappy

If you think you will be uncomfortable, bring along another friend to keep u company, or if you think its going to be too uncomfortable, dont go at all.

Also just remember that guys arent everything.. Always remember that Guys come and go and friends are forever..
I have been down the road before where i chose a guy over my friends, and ended up with nothing.. Find out who your true friends are and make sure you hold on to them.

You will find out who they are once you finish school and are out in the real world..

Any other q's just let me know


I took one of my friends to play tennis and he wasnt very good. But the thing that really got to me was that he kept critizing me and telling me what a bad player I WAS!!
I told him that I was just learning to play and was taking lessons. Then he said "what kind of lessons are you taking" and that I was "holding the racket all wrong".
He also said my stamina wasnt very good. What a jerk!! I was nice enough to drive him up to the court and be patient with him even though he was terrible. I may not be a pro but I was certainly better then him.
Well I havent asked him to play since then but he has been asking me if I want to play again.. Should I tell him the truth that I just don't want to play because of how he made me feel?
He also insulted me by saying he bought his wife a tennis racket and that she is "at my level". And I know that is an insult because she isn't athletic at all.
What should I do? And do I have a right to be upset? (link)
Be brutally honest with him.
He obviously doesnt have a problem being honest with you!!
Tell him to shut up, and let you play the way you wanna play..
Let him know that you know your not the best tennis player, and you dont need him to tell you that.
You definetly have a right to be upset, i know i would be.
Simply say "hey i dont need you to tell me what to do ok. So shut up and leave me alone" if hes a good friend he'll understand why your upset...




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