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alright so me and my boyfriend have been together for a month. but we don't tend to talk a lot wich kind of upsets me,i was thinking on ending the realtion ship but i truly do like him a lot. we went out once over the summer for quite a period of time but broke up over a silly reason. but now were together again and i don't want it to get messed up again.how could i talk to him about this?
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Be casual. Maybe IM him or call him. Be like "whats up" and maybe casually bring up your relationship. Say something like "we haven't gone out in a while" and then ask him if he still wants to be in the relationship. If he says he doesnt, your out of luck. But if he says he does, say "Yeah, i do to." And maybe ask him out.
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Its hard for me to answer this question. it would be helpful if i knew how long you have known eachother for and how old you both are
Communication is a very important piece in a relationship.. Not only is a relationship boyfriend/girlfriend, its also a friendship. Let your boyfriend know that your worried about the relationship and think that you should open up more to eachother.. Ask him questions about what he wants in a relationship, why he decided to be in one.. Can he see a future.. If he cares for you then he wont hesitate to tell you how he feel, Although keeping in mind that guys and girls are very different to eachother, and guys dont tend to open up as much as girls.. So go easy on him..
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Try this...make plans to hang out with him. Maybe like one on one time..or in a group..your choice. I suggest something like the movies or a quiet night just cuddling up watching tv. I think if you make more of an effort to hang out..you will naturally talk you know? because maybe the problem is you dont hang out enough. maybe go to one of those online websites where they have surveys about facts to fill out about yourself..and ask him the questions on there and talk about the story behind it, you know?
so if you try this and things still arent working..express your concern to him about how you dont talk enough and suggest getting to know each other better..asking each otherr a million random questions.
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well its obvious that you two like each other so i wouldnt end it b/c you would probly regret it in the end. make plans with him on the weekends or after school to hang out at your house or his. you guys will get closer and can ave time to talk. if you both have things to do maybe call each other when you have free time or write each other notes.
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