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what to do.. crushes...
alright im 15.f is that helps.
so i have a boyfriend who i totally love, but i cant help it but have a little crush on this guy. the guy i have a crush on i THINK likes me hes constantly flirting and calls me too. i mean i wouldnt break up with my boyfriend for him, but i think about him alot and really like hanging out with him. any advice on what to do- thanks!
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hey !! i don`t think it`s fair to your boyfriend that your crushing on this other guy. you need to choose which one means more to you!!
hope i helped
lejla maya
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Well, you have to chose one over the other. You can't go on having this all be a big fat confusing mess.
If you like some other kid even slightly, your feelings don't seem strong enough for your bf. But then again if your spending too much time with the guy you have a crush on, that may be throwing you off. Don't leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like might leave you for the one they love.
What I mean is-- if you think this kid you have a crush on is only who you 'like' stop spending time around him. It isn't good for you. Remain friends, just not too close. Like if he calls you as much as it may kill tell him you're busy and you can't talk.
If this withdrawal really kills you, maybe you should just go out with the one you flirt with a lot. It's up to you. Judge it accordingly.
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Well you need to decide who you would rather be with. It is normal to develop some feelings for other people because I mean just because you love someone else, doesn't mean your emotions towards other people are completly gone. But you need to decide if you really wanna be with this other guy, and if you do, kindly end it with your boyfriend. Also, if you do, say it to his face. Show him you at least respect him enough. But if you don't want to break up with your boyfriend, I would try either backing off this guy a little bit, or just trying really hard to think of him and treat him as a friend. =/ I hope I helped.
Love,
Mel <3
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I think that you should decide on who you think you want to be with,
I dont think its fair on your boyfriend that your contemplating about another guy, although it is normal to have these feelings, i think you should watch other people's feelings also..
Do whatever your heart tells you to do.
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Obviously you don't love your boyfriend as much as you say you do if you have feelings for another guy. If I were you, I would break up wtih your boyfriend. It will only cause trouble for you too. He will realize that you are talking to this guy on the phone and hanging out with him alot and he will probably get pissed. Then you two will be fighting and everything. You could always go single and flirt with both of them. I really don't know what to tell you but either stop flirting with the other guy or dump your boyfriend. Sorry, hope I have helped.
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