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okay well our highschool has a foreign exchange program, and we recently had several students from spain come to our school to stay for 3/4 weeks. Long story short- one of the kids liked me and we had a "thing"... he wasnt just one of those guys you hook up with.. because im not into that stuff.. so basically we were really close the whole time he was here, and now he's returned back home, and we email every week.. But- i had been talking to one of his friends and asked if id have sex with him (this was .. the last week they would be here?) i said no because i didnt want to have sex yet and that it wasnt appropriate in america for kids my age to have it without it being a serious relationship.. they explained that in spain it was very natural and not odd at all..
so my question is, do you think he was just using me for the fun of being in america? or do you think they were telling me the truth and that it wasnt odd at all to ask to have sex?
thanks in advance
ps: yes he told me he liked me, (before we hooked up), when we first started talking and getting to know each other.
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i guess none of us would really know, basically because even though most guys might be the same, they're different haha =) idk that probably doesn't make sense. your options are he either really does like you er he was using you. i mean both are possibility, only because it was a short thing & not a serious relationship. if you guys do email every week though he probably likes you. i mean if he had no true feelings whatsoever, he wouldn't care to email you, but he does. i guess you can go both ways with this. maybe you should ask him?? i know that might sound weird but it could help. do whatever you feel comfortable with.
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