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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave itI'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=
Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.
I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.
I do not like when people have issues with typing.
iif u typ3 liik3 thiiz iit piissesz m3 0ff. Alot.
advice
whats the best way to scrunch thick hair?
use a leave in conditioner, mousse, and an extra hold gel and do small sections at a time.
what are some jobs you can get that are good paying without going to college?
dominoes pays pretty good... okay NOT! don't even consider not going to college just go to college and you'll get paid good money and you'll have a good future! it's only 4 years! you'll live!
When after having sex and if the sperm ejaculated in, what kind of pills are good to take to avoid prenancy from happening?
the morning after or the day after it's something like that but i'll let you know that it's not 100%... meaning it won't ensure that you won't get pregnant but it's pretty good
does anyone no how to loose weight jusz with foods . if you do tell me . i will rate high
don't do the whole "low carb" bull crap it's stupid and you basically starve yourself. just cut out things with alot of sugar and fats. also eat smaller portions of food. eat 3 meals a day and healthy snacks in between like fruits and veggies! i really like coolwhip (lite) and berries and carrots and rach dressing!
hey im 13 and all of my friends either hate me or lie to me or sumthin i have a million guy friends but all my friends that are gurls are mean whats wrong with me? and my friends?
oh same thing here! all my friends that are girls... well they WERE my friends... they were complete bitches to me and all of my friends are guys. totaly normal... girls are just bitches in general and guys are more easy going and girls are just wayyyy too catty.
does any1 noe what is the best prodect to get rid of acene.thanks i will rite high.
you can use anything but proactive... i used it for 2 straight months and i've called the place back asking then what i've done wrong but i was doing everything right and i still had TONS of pimples. i use oxy pads they work really good!
I was at the beach last week walking around bearfoot. Now my feet are pealing like crazy and look just awful. Is there anything I can do for them?
use TONS of moisturizer and aloe they should be better within 2 days.. that's happened to me before.. good luck!
my names samantha and im 16 b-days in september baby but any way! my question is? ok me and my boyfriend travis just broke up! i dont know why i broke up with him relly i think its because i was a little jeliouse that he talks to my friend mallory a lot! and then ok im pregnant to buthe already knows that! and when we had this fight he started drinking again and ya he kept saying he was gonna sleep with this other girl and then like a couple of days later he called me and he said he was sry and shit and that nothing ever happen!! but today i found out that he relly did sleep with this girl named jennifer...what do i do i mean i love this guy to death but i mean he never told me that he did this and that he slept with her he LIED to my face. and his friend matt had to tell me bcuz he wanted me to know...BUT WHAT DO I DO? hes the father of my baby and u i dont know wheather to like cut him off form talking to e or if i should get back together with him or what!???? im so confused PLZ i need a lot of answers if u guys can help that would be apreciated a lot thanxs.....samantha
the only reason why he doesn't want you is because of the fact that you're having a kid. i won't be suprised if you end up on maury for a paternity test because he doesn't think he's the father. and another thing... you're wayyyyy to young to be having sex.
how can i get rid of my razorbumps? i have some down ..there n sometimes on my armpits help! thanks
well it all depends on what razor you use and what you use to shave with. if you use like regular soap then that might be why but if you use shaving cream then you're okay. if you use Venus shavers they work really good and one thing that i do is i shave with conditioner. it makes your skin really smoothe. another thing is.... if you use the same razor more than 6 times it starts to develop alot of germs on it and that's what causes the razor bumps... if you have any more questions drop one in my box!
I have some trouble getting a boyfriend. I'm 13, and I've only had 3 boyfriends where my friends have had a bunch more! It's not like I'm trying to compete, it's just weird! I mean, people tell me I'm pretty, but I don't think I am. I also know I'm not fat but not thin... and I have a lot of friends! I don't really know what's wrong with me! Can anyone help?
Well you basically just answered your own question... if you don't think you're pretty then that's your problem. guys like girls that have confidence! they like a girl that thinks that they are pretty. not being cocky or anything but if you think you're pretty then it boosts your confidence and guys like girls with alot of confidence. and it's normal not to have a lot of boyfriends. you're only 13! you still have freakin forever to get another boyfriend! sit tight!
Ever since I was LiL I would masterbate. Im not addicted to it I just do It once in a while but I remember doing it when I was 5!!(of course I didnt know what I was doing at 5 but all I knew was that it felt good and that I was going to do it) I was caught a lot when I was little and I remember one time my mom asked me if it felt good and she was really dissapointed in me. And I hated myself for it because every 5 year old wants their parents to be proud of them. But now I know what I'm doing and I havent been caught in like 5 years(im 14) Is there something wrong with me? Is it not normal to start sooo early?
well of course a 5 year old wouldn't know what they were doing. but it's normal for a teen around that age to do that. i know plenty of teens my age that do it. i'm sure you don't care but i do it. nothing wrong with a little self pleasure! hope i helped! if you have any questions drop one in my box!
Do girls ever go for a younger guy? I'm 17 and going into grade 12 this year, this other girl I know is 18 and going into college. I met her at the beginning of the last school year, and at the time I thought there was NO way. She was VERY good looking, a year older than me, basically just out of my league. But over the year we talked a lot, and then this summer we've hung out quite a bit. I can't tell if this is just a friend thing or not, I've never known a guy that dated an older girl and was just wondering what your opinions on it were. Thanks.
okay if this helps any when my friend was in 9th grade... she dated a guy in 7th grade any more questions drop one in my box. but really... it's totaly normal for a youger guy to be dating an older lady i mean.... just look at ashton kutcher and demi moore!! she's like twice his age and they are MADLY in love. it could happen!! good luck!!
ive been takin these pain reliever pills that have sleep aid in them to help me sleep, nd then last night i tried to not take them nd i was layin in bed from 1am to 6am wen i desided to take them cuz i couldnt sleep wit out them even tho i was so tired my eyes could hardly stay open but once i closed my eyes to go to sleep i couldnt get to sleep! so idk but i think i mite be like addicted to the sleepy pills, so wut should i do to get UN addicted nd still get the sleep i need??
thnx!
this is going to sound extreamly odd to do... it's something a baby would do but i'm telling you it works like a charm. drink warm milk. that has worked for almost all of my friends. and if you don't like milk... eat a bunch of food before you go to sleep (not chocolate or anything with sugar or cafein[sp?]), exersize so that way you can get into shape AND it makes you tired!... hope i helped!
Hey! I was wondering if anyone new any "Inspirational" Friendship type songs. The songs I have so far are; Wind Beneath My Wings, I Believe I Can Fly, I Turn To You, Live Like You Were Dying, Ask Me, Coming Out Of The Dark, Hero, Angel, Angels Among Us, Angels In Waiting, I'll Be (By Reba). I know not all of those are Inspirational songs. But if you know any that someone can realate to because of a hard time. Like Ask Me is about sexual abuse, or songs about anxiety or depression post them too! Thanks!
another good song for about depression is poetic tragedy by the used. the guy commits suicide... here are the lyrics: the cup is not half empty as pessimists say
as far as he's sees nothings left in the cup
a whole cup full of nothing for him to induldge
since the voice of ambition has long since been shut up
a singer, a writer, he's not dreaming now of going nowhere
he gave heed to nothing, and all that he was....
is just a tragedy
so he voyages in circles
succeeds getting nowhere
and submits to the substance
that first got him there
than in violent, frustration he cries out to God or just no one
is there a point to this madness and all that he was....
is just a tragedy
he feels alone
his heart in his hand
he's alone
he feels alone
I feel....
then on that last day he breaks
and he stood tall
and he yelled... and he takes his life
my moms boyfriend molested me.. and im really scarred for life!! i told my mom about it.. but she thinks its fine and that it happens to alot of girls.. she doesnt understand how freaked out i was and AM! i think we should go to therapy but i dont no how that would help.. what should i do?
first of all, not to hurt your feelings or anything but... what the hell is wrong with your mother??? her god damn boyfriend MOLESTED YOU! you as in her DAUGHTER! she shouldn't think it's FINE and that it happens to alot of girls. yeah she's half right about it happening to alot of girls but no it's not FINE!! you need to talk to your mom about it tell her that you're scared you are! and please for the remainder of the time STAY AWAY FROM THIS GUY! if he does it again do NOT hesitate to call the cops!
what kind of depression is dysthymia? and what kind of things does it include? would you mind telling me some things about it. thanks.
dysthymia is a type of depression that is similar to major (clinical) depression but it is somewhat of a "Milder" type of depression. studies have shown that most teens have dysthymia for about a year. some symptoms of dysthymia are: feeling that you are unloved, sad, angry or irritable, tired, guilty, self critical, negative, hopeless, or anxious. you might have trouble concentrating or making decisions, have a sudden drop in your grades, sleep too little or too much, act out or become disobedient like lie to your parents, misbehave in school, cheat on tests, shop lift, drive under the influence... etc. you may also have aches an dpains with no apparent cause, and think about suicide or death , or attempt suicide. nearly 70% of teens with dysthymia develop major depression... it is very important to get help as early as possible. hope i answered your question. if you have any more questions just drop one in my box!
Well you see I really honestly don't care for her as a friend anymore. As, I said in the previous question, we are no longer friends, and we will never be again, because i know she will never change. Her parents know and have put her into rehabs. She just comes home and does the same shit, and lies and covers it up. I know my sister is not dumb and wont do that shit, and I'm glad of that. I think she is a bitch. She gets on my damn nerves now. I used to feel sorry for her and want to help her, but you cant help someone who doesnt want to be helped. she would tell me she wanted to stop and then like minutes go get high. I know that she really doesnt want to stop. I think its a shame that something is thought was just "all in fun" is now taking over her life. But, i can no,longer feel any sorrow for her, I think she is just stupid. I don't wanna be her friend. And despite the things she did, and the fact that I no longer like her, I had no problem with my sister hanging with her. I am not the jealous type. But, I just never thought that she would basically encourage my sister to do drugs when she knows that its wrong. I'm just glad that my sister is smart enough to say no. I wanna call her up and tell her " You fuckin little junky, If I ever find out that you are doing drugs around my sister or offering her drugs ever again, so help me god you won't have to worry about the drugs killing you"... thats just how mad I am. Now that you know more about how I feel, what do you think I should say?
i still think you should have a word with her. and really tell her parents... i would suggest you tell your sister not to hang out with her anymore. i mean... who wants to be friends with a druggie? just basically tell her that you do not want her to be offering drugs to your sister. i'm sure she's smart but she might, just might, get influenced into doing it. and yes, you are very correct when you said that you can't help someone that doesn't wnat to be helped. but for the sake of her life, she needs the help she's headed down a very dark and drug infested path and she's going to dig herself into a hole and she's not going to be able to get out of it. if she wants to fuck up her life that's her choice but the least you can do is talk to your sister and to her parents and tell her what she's been doing. don't do anything that you might regret... like beating the shiz out of this chick... hope i helped! keep me updated on how things go!
if you stop drinking soft drinks, will that help you lose weight
yeah it should... soft drinks have loads of sugars in it! and the celtzer makes you feel bloated!
I am 17/f. I had this childhood friend of like 8-9 years. We were best friends, but then we hit a ofrk in the orad and she turned to drugs about a year and a half ago. When I fisrt found out that she did it, I was pissed and told her that she was dumb and shouldnt do it again. She told me she wouldn't, that she was just tryingit so I gave her the benifit of the doubt. Her and I stopped being friends about 6 months ago. She started becoming really selfish,and just always pissing me off. She was telling me she was clean but I know her too well and could tell by how she wasacting that she was lying to me. Now she hangs around with my younger sister who is 16. I just found out the other day, that just as I thought, she is still using. My sister told me she snorts heroin in front of her all the time and that she is getting really bad. She also told me that she offered her soem to try but my she told her no. The fact that she had the nerve to offer my sister drugs really pisses me off. I feel like calling her up and telling her off. I have been debating on doing this for like the past 3 days. I cant seem to stop thinking about it. I understand that she is ruining her life but why would she encourage someone else to do the same? I wanna call her or so bad! I am so mad! I don't know what to do.
i really think you should say something to her! that is really really bad that she is doing that stuff in front of your sister!!! even worse she's OFFERING IT TO HER?!?!? that's repulsive... call that drug addict bitch up and tell her off. that's not right! even better... tell her parents about it!
ok well im 14 and like 2 years ago i some how started talking to one of my older brothers friend online like alot!(he's really hot) and like we would go off and on with talking and stuff and like ive started to REALY like him and now he's leaving for collage tomarrow and im so upset about him leavng but i knwow how i feel dosnet make a differense to him and its not like i dont want him to go i just idk im so confused i can really us soem help!
sweetheart... you're 14 and he's what? 18 or 19? that's a pretty big age difference since you're only in highschool... i mean if you weren't in highschool and you were in college or whatever it wouldn't be a big deal but there is the whole fact that he's legal and you're not. i'm not saying you'd do this or anyhting but i've noticed ALOT of extreamly young girls are having sex at this age and even younger. i know a girl that got pregnant when she was 12!!! you just really have to consider your feelings about it. he's older he's more experienced (well probably) and i'm sure that he thinks your a nice girl and whatever but it's not exactly legal for him to like you as his girlfriend. if you care about him alot just let him be happy! let him find a girl friend his age! and you should do the same(but a boyfriend) i don't think that 2 years older than you is a problem so go for the older guys! you're probably just starting highschool... so check out the sophmores and juniors!!! hope i hepled! good luck!