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DRUGS (cont)
Well you see I really honestly don't care for her as a friend anymore. As, I said in the previous question, we are no longer friends, and we will never be again, because i know she will never change. Her parents know and have put her into rehabs. She just comes home and does the same shit, and lies and covers it up. I know my sister is not dumb and wont do that shit, and I'm glad of that. I think she is a bitch. She gets on my damn nerves now. I used to feel sorry for her and want to help her, but you cant help someone who doesnt want to be helped. she would tell me she wanted to stop and then like minutes go get high. I know that she really doesnt want to stop. I think its a shame that something is thought was just "all in fun" is now taking over her life. But, i can no,longer feel any sorrow for her, I think she is just stupid. I don't wanna be her friend. And despite the things she did, and the fact that I no longer like her, I had no problem with my sister hanging with her. I am not the jealous type. But, I just never thought that she would basically encourage my sister to do drugs when she knows that its wrong. I'm just glad that my sister is smart enough to say no. I wanna call her up and tell her " You fuckin little junky, If I ever find out that you are doing drugs around my sister or offering her drugs ever again, so help me god you won't have to worry about the drugs killing you"... thats just how mad I am. Now that you know more about how I feel, what do you think I should say?
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i still think you should have a word with her. and really tell her parents... i would suggest you tell your sister not to hang out with her anymore. i mean... who wants to be friends with a druggie? just basically tell her that you do not want her to be offering drugs to your sister. i'm sure she's smart but she might, just might, get influenced into doing it. and yes, you are very correct when you said that you can't help someone that doesn't wnat to be helped. but for the sake of her life, she needs the help she's headed down a very dark and drug infested path and she's going to dig herself into a hole and she's not going to be able to get out of it. if she wants to fuck up her life that's her choice but the least you can do is talk to your sister and to her parents and tell her what she's been doing. don't do anything that you might regret... like beating the shiz out of this chick... hope i helped! keep me updated on how things go!
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i dunno if calling her up and telling her off is the best idea - from what you've told me, i don't think it's going to do any good or get any reaction from the girl, i mean it's totally acceptable that you're majorly pissed, but i don't think that telling the girl off will give you the satisfaction that you want it to...however, if you ever meet the girl in person and she rubs you the wrong way, then i think that would be the ideal time to blow up on her!
one more thing, what does your sister see in this girl to want to hang out with her?
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