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Q: My friend and I hatw this teacher and as a joke we made this odd screen name and sent him e-mails. It was the worst dissoin of my life. I sent one that was like "I hate your class I am so glad I am in highschool now". But my friend HATES that teacher so she sent and e-mail like" teacher you hurt me so the hammer is coming down...have fun in hell" I didn't mean for it to go this far. Now the police are in his room for a long time like every day. Thankfully I deleted that screen name! They made an anousement on the intercom about it and ever since I have been shaking and I am so scared/screwd. If I get caught it wont be for the one I sent, it will be for the one my friend sent. I was thinking of sending an e-mail to my teach saying like sorry it was only a joke but I'm not sure... help! I am so scared but I know for sure I am not going to tell any one but I need to know what to do!
well you might wanna send him a email saying sorry but not with the same screen name or even yours just make another new one

Q: ahh i bite my nails!!! its a really bad habit! i do it when im not paying attention anyone have any tips for stopping?
i just dip my nails into nail polish remover.. YUCK!

Q: Can you get pregnant from pre-cum?
yeah

Q: i broke up with my ex about a month ago and i've gotten over him and i like this boy in my gym class but hes white and one of my friends say dont do it but shes white to. i dont really konw how to ask him Because im not that thin so how do i go about askin him out
Alright first off.. whats wrong with white boys? i take it your not.. that sounds like a racist comment but im not accusing and who cares what you look like just go with whatever you want to happan cuz if you like him its worth asking and he may secretly like you and you wont no unless you dont ask him

Q: there's this guy in my school who seems to dislike me . maybe i'm just being sensitive , but sometimes he repeats what i say in a funny/mocking way .he teases everyone , but i have this feeling he doesn't like me . maybe i'm too sensitive , cuz i don't like it when people tease me or make fun of me . how should i respond to such things ? ( ps : i don't know him that well )
just mock him back.. make a joke out of it and if you do and he is picking on you he will relize that its getting old and will give up

Q: What is "emo"? I've heard so many people talk about it. Thanks!
a abbreviation for emotional.. people get lazy lol

Q: my rat has been loosing a lot of weight lately. i know rats have respratory problems,but their is no sign of blood in his nose or mouth. he gets plenty to eat and seems very happy.if you have any ideas what could be wrong please let me know. thanks.
did you accidently get your rat diet food? that diet stuff doesnt help any for my guinea pigs lol but it just might for you rat and maybe your rat has been extra hyper and active

Q: I have a spot right below my lip on the bottom left. My boyfriend probably wont kiss me until it's gone so does anyone know any good, reliable home remedies to get rid of it quickly and easily? Thank you.
cover-up it up if it doesnt go away but try clean and clear morning burst its a orangish gel looking sort of stuff with blue beads in it and it works

Q: My husband and I were talking the other day and he said that if he died he would not want a funeral. I was shocked. Of course he should have a funeral, it's a great way for family and friends to say goodbye. I feel it is more for the family of the deceased anyway. He disagrees, and is shocked that I would not respect his wishes. Who is right here? And if he did die, what are we as a family suppose to do? I would like the love and support of my faamily.
Well thats tuff... Have a funeral anyways.. thats a tuffy maybe you should discuss that with the mothers of you 2 and get the point of view or the priest of your church.. and he can help you with that and give you some advice

Q: i put a crap load of deoderant on every day before i go to school. i'm never hot or anything, but i always sweat in my arm pits, and i don't know how to cover it up. i can't wear a sweatshirt anymore, i get even hotter and it feels more gross. i don't know what to do! somebody help!
My friend had that issue and she went to a dr. maybe you should do that too

Q: Hi, I have a few dark freckles on my face that I would like to hide. Do you know of anything that would cover them up well? Thank you in advance.
cover up

Q: does anyone know a good website for cute quotes?? thx
www.firehotquotes.com or www.dollquotes.com

Q: alright dentist people, i need help on this one! A couple days ago I got my face slammed in a door (don't ask), and my orthodontist said no solid foods, playing trumpet, or biting for two weeks! The roots on two teeth are fractured, and it hurts really bad. Thing is, how do I know whether the tooth will die or not? it's driving me crazy! and how long until i can play trumpet, i would really like to. .. thanks!
Call the dentist honestly you shouldnt really take anybodys advice out on here unless there are a dentist but 2 weeks for trumpet

Q: My brother is gay and a lot of people will always mention about it. They make fun of me because he's gay.. They keeps sayin Ohhh Your brothers GaY!!! and sometime's it doesn't bother me.. but other times it does. Surprisingly, most people are cool with it and say he's the coolest person they ever met.. what should i do!?
Well seems to me your got the majority of people with you rather then against all that and thats what matters cuz you got people standing by you and just point out that it could happan to them that someone was gay in there family you cant help who is or isnt and for all you really know is that someone around you or one of their friends could be gay.. lol you never know but just a hunch but i think these people need to grow up and learn to except

Q: Ok Im a 15 yr old gurl and Im really outgoing but guys at skool just only like me as a friend nothing more I mean I get along with everyone and stuff! So what can I do to win a guys heart? I where Hollister shirts and stuff and tight lowrider jeans I just dont know what keeps making me just a friend ne tips? I also give advice just I dont know bout this one!
Please Help! Thanks!
Kayla (LiLHoOtYCuTii4U)Advice column!
Kayla hun.. its not about what you wear or how the jeans sit.. ya that makes guys look but that doesnt make them like you or well i mean they may "like" you but for the wrong reasons.. maybe your more of a sis. to them.. you know i never had that prob. with all the guys but i did with like 1 or 2 so i just gave up on them but what you can do is just trying more flirty and less like a sister role.. i dont know how you can exactly do that but just be flirty im sure you know how to do that and you shouldnt have a prob. hang out with them and get their numbers

Q: I just moved to a new school and I'm finding it really hard to make some friends (i'm in 9th). and it just gets really lonley on the weekends because I don't like do anything. And my friends from my old school, I don't talk to them anymore. I don't know if there is any advice you can give me (besides that whole join a sport because I am doing a sport in the spring) and join a club because I am already in some and they arent very helpful with meeting people. Any advice??
Well hey listen i can relate because i just moved to in sept. and went to a new school and new nobody and it did take time because it was highschool and everybody had there clicks but i just started to talk to people in class and slowly made friends you know? but like in studyhall ill go walk around and i relize people to say Hey! Your trix/trista right? and im like ya and they say i heard of u and so all that is just from talking in class and ya just try not to be shy because i am and i learned that got me nowhere but its very important to stay close to your old friends because their the ones you need most

Q: My realy good friend went out with this boy but he broke up with her in three days. I've liked him since we were introduced (by my friend). My boyfriend of two months just broke up with me and the first person i thought about was my friends ex. im not looking for a rebound guy. i asked my friend and she says its ok and shes happy for me. Her ex already nos i like him. am i low? what else can i do?
Your not low but just wait to all feelings are gone for your x-bf and when you think its right because you dont want to rush right into a relationship because thats not something anyone should do sometimes it shows that a person could be insecure or something about themselves and i know i wouldnt want that going for me

Q: I've never really been shy around guys but theres one that i like now but and really shy towards. he nos i like him but i just got my heart broke so could that be why im afrid to talk to him?
My vote is that thats the reason why you are scarred to talk to him .. or even get close for the fear of getting hurt again

Q: For some reason this is long, I don't know why, but it's longer than it needs to be. I know this isn't totally asking for advice, but I'm 14/f/nc, and this year our cul-de-sac's Christmas party is going to include of a secret santa. My neighbors dad is playing santa, and each one of the children (everyone under 18) had to draw names out of a hat to choose who they'll be buying their gifts for. Well, I got my little neighbor, she's 4, and I was wondering, what types of things would a 4 year old want. I am babysitting for her on the 4th and 5th, so I'll probably ask her, but I'm grounded this weekend for cutting class, and me and some friends are going to the mall on Friday(tomorrow, I only get grounded on weekends, not on weekdays) So that's the only time I'll have to go, otherwise I'll have to wait until we go grocery shopping, because I'm grounded for the next two weekends for cutting class (not going to my 4th period, I got caught the last 5 minutes of school... so close yet so far away...) Any suggestions will be appreciated... and if you want to leave rude advice, make it funny!
alrighty i have a cousin and she's 4 and she likes anything from coloring books and crayons to barbies.. at that age they are happy with anything i know she loves kites and paints.. and paints can be really fun and same goes for play dough

Q: Okay, about two weeks ago, I told one of my really close guy friends that I liked him. I thought I did because I knew he liked me ALOT too.. He would do anything for me, etc, so I thought that I liked him too. So I told him. But now Im seeing that I really dont have those kind of feelings for him at all. I feel horrible because he seems so happy now because he thinks I like him back... I dont know what to do :-/ I really dont want to talk to him about it because its really messed up.. any advice on how to handle it without talking to him? Thanks in advice.
Hey hunnie.. lol you got your self what i like to call a dilema.. well you can't really not talk to him otherwise that leads to being a bad friend because your leading him on.. just put yourself in his shoes and go from there but like what i would do is just right him a letter or maybe a email that way you dont know when he is reading the email and your not dreading it just explain that if you 2 ever went out you feel like you'd totally bomb the friendship and maybe when you get older you could go out just not know.. and that you just dont think it would work out because it'd be odd and you can't have a odd relationship because that leads to a breakup and a breakup that ends from oddness can lead to not being friends and trust me on that one because its happaned to me and i learned but i explained to him that im sorry so we are friends now which im fortunate but sometimes that luck doesnt always come so good luck and i hope everything works out!!

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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