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should I or not
i broke up with my ex about a month ago and i've gotten over him and i like this boy in my gym class but hes white and one of my friends say dont do it but shes white to. i dont really konw how to ask him Because im not that thin so how do i go about askin him out
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build up some confidence, stop classifying people based on color, and follow your heart.
that ought to work out best, because if he cares about your weight or the color of your skin, he's not worth your time anyway. and you never know how wonderfully a relationship can be unless you try.
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Alright first off.. whats wrong with white boys? i take it your not.. that sounds like a racist comment but im not accusing and who cares what you look like just go with whatever you want to happan cuz if you like him its worth asking and he may secretly like you and you wont no unless you dont ask him
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First of all, race shouldn't be an issue when you're dating someone. Neither should size. A lot of guys like girls who aren't paris hilton like or super-anorexically skinny. I would suggest flirting with him a little and seeing where you stand with him, then casually suggest that you guys hang out sometime. If he reacts positively, then you can be pretty sure he's interested. :) Let me know how it works out!
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you not being aneoxeric or deathly skinny shouldn't be a factor in a relationship. it should be about different things. he should like you for who you are, not what you look like. you should approach him, and if you do and he says something about your appearance or your weight, then tell him it's his loss. cuz it is!
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You not being thin shouldnt be a problem with him. if he dates girls based on weight then maybe you should forget him. Being white shouldnt matter either. You should go for it. Just go up to him and be like hey do u wanna go to the movies this weekend. or if you mean by going out as in bf and gf then be like hey i like you and i was wondering if you would like to go out w/ me. dont worry if hes a great guy he will say yes
hope i helped
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Ok I really dont know what the poeple who answered this before me have been smoking. Lol, maybe they are all really good looking, after all good looking people often try to push that rubbish on others, it makes them feel deep.
Truth: Looks really really DO matter. I speak from the experience of not being a particularly attractive person, and also one that has battled with overweightness.
So, while this guy SHOULD like you for who you are, thats really not going to happen. However, you do have one thing going for you, guys are less picky. So try it you might get lucky. Now, as for the Cosby Show garbage people have said so far, forget it, it doesnt apply to guys or girls. I am always ammused when I hear someone say that stuff (... intelligence and humour is what REALLY counts) and then watch them date a brainless bimbo or a school jock whose best line is a knock knock joke. It sux but its the reality of life.
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it dosn't matter if your thin or not thin, a guy should like you for who you are and what your like. You should get to know him more before you ask him out and then get up the courage to ask him out. If he says no that's his problem not yours! Your worth it! No matter what!-Krista
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First of all. Appearance shouldnt matter at all. Black or white. Get to it. The way I would do it, is just talk to him......be a friend. Subtly flirt with him. When you make a joke laugh and touch his arm or something of the sort. If some of your friends happen to be couples, ask them how they flirted with each other. Everyones got different things....I bit my girlfriends face softly and jokingly... hehehe...It lead up to my first kiss.
Well I hope I helped!
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