there's this guy in my school who seems to dislike me . maybe i'm just being sensitive , but sometimes he repeats what i say in a funny/mocking way .he teases everyone , but i have this feeling he doesn't like me . maybe i'm too sensitive , cuz i don't like it when people tease me or make fun of me . how should i respond to such things ? ( ps : i don't know him that well )
Randomchick_1988 answered Friday December 3 2004, 10:57 am: when he mocks you or anything like that just laugh at what he does. act like it doesn't bother you then maybe he'll stop mocking and teasing you. everyone gets mocked and tease once in a while or all the time but they just laugh and act like it doesn't bother them. so all i can say is sit back and relax. [ Randomchick_1988's advice column | Ask Randomchick_1988 A Question ]
ilovehissmile answered Thursday December 2 2004, 9:34 pm: just laugh it off and when hes alone jus ask him if he dislikes u. i had the same problem and it turned out he did it to everyone so dont stress especially if u havent given him any reasons not to like you [ ilovehissmile's advice column | Ask ilovehissmile A Question ]
thpsmasta2k answered Thursday December 2 2004, 9:28 pm: ya don't let it get to you...because if you don't really know him... what should you care how he acts if he is that insecure about himself that he must resort to making you feel bad he prob is just covering up...JUST DON't LET IT GET TO YOU...because as i said before he is a nothing to you and you don't need him to be happy with your self
dixieprincess420 answered Thursday December 2 2004, 4:20 pm: I had the same problem that you did. The best thing to do it not let him see that he's getting to you. Also, tryi to ignore him. If he still doesn't get the hint that you don't care what he says maybe pull him aside one day and be like " I would really appreciate if you would stop saying rude stuff" and tell him how you feel about what he says. If he's gonna be a total ass then just try avoiding him... hope I helped!
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Christine answered Thursday December 2 2004, 11:47 am: okay this is what you could try to do..
You say you cant handle people teasing you and making fun of you? This is what i do.. im the same way...
1.) go along with whatever they say
2.) dont let them see that what they say bothers you
3.) Dont cry infront of them or in public.. wait until u get home
4.) talk to a friend about ur problems
tell them how you feel about what everyone is teasing you about.
OKay thats all i have so i hope i helped.. Let me know what happens...
jokerzgrl answered Thursday December 2 2004, 11:20 am: You should ignore him. I've had that happen to me, and it is very unpleasant, I know. You could tell him off and embarass him in front of everyone, or, you could sink to his level and start mocking him, I just think you should ignore him.
MAd Love,
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jbdreamer answered Thursday December 2 2004, 10:38 am: The reason he continues to tease you is because he knows he is getting to you. If I were in your position I would either one, just ignore him, and show him is comments, or even his presence does not effect you at all. Or if you are more brave, call him on his behavior. But you must do it with complete confidence. "Are you so immature that you have to tease others to gain attention and acceptance." If he mocks you after the comment, tell him to "get a life," and walk a way with your head heald high, and then ignore the jerk. [ jbdreamer's advice column | Ask jbdreamer A Question ]
mysticpixie05 answered Thursday December 2 2004, 9:28 am: just let him go. dont pay attention to him. if he sees how much it bothers you he will keep it up for the sick enjoyment of seeing you upset. if you dont let it bother you then he will give up and move on to someone else. [ mysticpixie05's advice column | Ask mysticpixie05 A Question ]
dinoold answered Thursday December 2 2004, 9:18 am: I think he does like you..why would he mock you..but it wounds like he does this to everyone..wiseazz....
I am sensitive too..in the end who cares what others think about you...it only mATTER what you think of YOURSELF!!!
Farren answered Thursday December 2 2004, 9:09 am: Well, if it really bothers you then talk to him about it. Tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable.
He may dislike you, but I knew this person and I don't know why but I felt she disliked me, but now after I've actually met her we're really good friends. You never know. The best you can do is wait until you know him better or talk to him about it now.
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FunnyCide answered Thursday December 2 2004, 8:03 am: some guys(girls too for that matter)want to hurt others b/c they are hurting themselves. this boy may like you and not know how to display it so he mocks you. this boy may not have a prefrance one way or the other about you and just sees you as an easy target. dont worry i have been the easy target lol. this sounds remarkably like myself. heh well, i would just be polite to him, say, "hello! good morning!" even if he mocks you, you know that you have not done something to deserve it. if he keeps mocking and teasing you, see the school counselor or a trusted teacher that can better handle the problem.
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Kr4z3y_Ch3lly answered Thursday December 2 2004, 5:45 am: He might like you? Thats a good possibility. Also you could just be sensitive to it. But when ever he mocks you just reply "Dude shut up thats not funny" or do something to tell him off about it...He wont be laughing anymore after that... [ Kr4z3y_Ch3lly's advice column | Ask Kr4z3y_Ch3lly A Question ]
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