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Never been shy
I've never really been shy around guys but theres one that i like now but and really shy towards. he nos i like him but i just got my heart broke so could that be why im afrid to talk to him?
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that could be exactly why you are afraid to talk to him
heartbrakes will make you scared because they are horrible to go through. but life moves on after a while and you gotta face your fears.
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you know after something tragic happenes to us as people we become very sensitive and sheltered and we are afraid of opening ourselves up to people in fear of being hurt once again by the people we love... and yes definatly that would explain your timidness toward him... but my only suggestion to you about this guy is just to tell him how you feel... but first think to your self how important to you is he because ultimatly that is what is going to determine if you like him or not...so think it over and if you decide he is really important to you then tell him exactaly what you posted here... just tell him you like him and that you just got done having your heart broken... but still talk and still hang out cause i guarantee he will still think about you (even if you aren't dating) just because you told him how you felt and maybe after a while when you are ready to date again...go for it and he will prob be there for ya ( but don't let him lose insterest in you... if you think you would like to date him)
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it could be.I think it is tho.Its hard to.Don't let him get to u.
-<3-
~*NiCoLe*~
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Yeah, it could be. You might be afraid of getting hurt again or something. All i can say is get to know him and become friends with him. It can help you feel more comfortablr around him and you will be able to be yourdelf around him and not be so shy. I am really shy around guys until i get to know them and become friends with them. Then i feel that i can ber myself around them. Maybe once you know him you will know he is the type of guy who will break your heart or not. I hope I helped!
~***HAnnah***~
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I think that you are scared to talk to him because you just got your heart broken and you are afraid that he will reject you and/or break your heart even more than its already broken.
XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21
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that probably is why...but honestly...i would just go for it, but dont get into anything too fast, take it slow that way if it doesnt work out, you dont have a lot to lose
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hEy hUn! well all girls are nervous to talk to the guy they like and vise versa 2... because its intiminading to talk to them because you don't want to embarress yourself in front of him. it could be because you just got your heart bRokE. :( bUUUt think of things to talk with him about be4 hand and be yourself and i'm sure that you will be fine huNny! good luck!
xOxO, aLeX
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My vote is that thats the reason why you are scarred to talk to him .. or even get close for the fear of getting hurt again
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If you really loved that one guy, and you were really sad, then that is probably why you are shy around him, and you might just be afraid because you don't want to have your heart broken again. That is totally normal. So just take time then things will feel normal again trust me.
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Thats probably the main reason why your shy around this guy. But hey not every guy is a loser and breaks girls hearts. Ask him to hang out and see where it goes!! Good Luck
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It could be. But when ou like someody your hormones act weird when your around him. I've read it before. Everybody gets nervous around a crush. Don't worry, you'll find courage for him someday.
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oh, that could definately be why. i got broken up with from a guy i dated for a year.. and i was scared. just be careful.. get to know the guy first before you really set ur feelings on him
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I think that its not really because you just got your heart broken, I honestly think that it's just because you like him. Its as simple as that. I bet you probably have never been shy around other guys you like, but this time it's just different. Theres really no explanation on why its different because I dont really know your situation. What you should do is try to forget that you like him when youre around him- hard I know. But if you really really really really try to kinda push those feelings aside when hes around, then youll be able to act yourself again. What I mean when I say push the feelings aside, I mean just around him so you are able to act youself, I dont mean to stop liking him.. Great luck kristin =]
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