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Q: i put this under Random Weirdos cause it doesnt really fit anywhere else. every winter i get painful dry skin on my hands. the skin cracks, splits then bleeds. it is only my hands and only in the winter! lotion helps a little, for about 10 min, but then my hands hurt again! what can i do/put on my hands?!
oo get this neutrogeana stuff go to walgreens, wal-mart, osco drug, and ask they are real good with helping u with that stuff

Q: my profile keeps gettin deleted and i dont know how....has this been happenin to n e body else??????
not me

Q: people keep telling my crush that we ((him and i)) should go out! he use to talk to me so much and now i feel like we don't talk as much as we use to! he is giving me mixed signals! what should i do?
have someone talk to him for you unless you cant do but you need to find out

Q: There is this guy I have liked for 3 years. Tomorrow is our school dance and I really want to go with him. How do I ask him? Should I ask him? Please don't say flirt with him and see if you really like him. I need help now! I'll rate high. Please help me!
Well just ask him if you are really good friend or if you dont go together then just ask him for a dance because after all a dance is only like 3 to 4 minutes out of your life its not like your asking him to marry you (((compliments to Mr. H)))

Q: I like this guy.. a lot. But all my friends say he's a dork and crap and I really don't think soo... I know I should listen to them but its hard not to, I mean, they're my friends!! What should I do? Choose the guy over my friends or vica versa?
Just tell them you cant help you like and they cant either and you are willing to see if it will work or not and you want their support

Q: i have a friend that has recently become bi. she always tells me that i look hot, and she always comes around and slaps my ass. it's starting to bother me. what should i say to her? becuz i cant take it for much longer..!
Just tell her and tell her you feel uncomfortable and if she continues then you are gunna half to stop hanging out with her

Q: dear advice giver,
I am 13 years old and I do not like my body. I am young for my grade and I am considered rather small in my grade. But what bothers me the most is that I have no breats. I can't even fit into a size A yet. All my friends have breasts but I am as flat as a cardboard. Consider this, I am a size 34 in sports bras but not the size A to go with it. My mom is a 34B and she says that she grew at a slow rate. Please help.
-sign, flat as a wall
Most girls just process right after their mom and that is probably what you are going to do to

Q: Hey all, well, on Saturday, im gonna get my cartilage pierced! (Like at the upper ear, where actress Raven-Symone has it). And i was wondering, if all of all of you that have one could tell me about the pain, how 2 make it go good and keep my mind off of it, and healing processes?!?!?! Im getting it down with a gun if it helps any....
Theres no pain and i just counted when i got mine pierced and just make sure you twist it and clean it

Q: Heya all, i was wondering if any of you had tips on how 2 get a lot of white out out of a dark navy and a black sweatshirt???!?! I got it on my enitre sweatshirt and my boyfriends while we were throwin it at each other cuz we was messin around as usual..., and i wanna get it off mine but i feel bad cuz i got it on his... any help is appreciated!!
throw it in dye of that color

Q: MY BEST FRIEND has turned into a real jerk. Me and him loved each other and he just turned me away. He tried to kill himself and that really got me worked up and i guess i said a few things i sholdn't have but i miss him and he's sending me these e-mails that r insulting me and saying he's glas i'm out of his life. What should i do?
Well you just have to say what you really mean weather if its thru email or not but like i think it would be better to say it to his face that way he knows you rele mean it and if he doesnt listen then its his loss hun and i hope everything works out for the best!!

Q: im goin out with this girl right now but im startin to like this other girl like a lot but the girl im goin out with is in love with me what do i do?
Well thats a tuffy.. well what i would do is make sure you dont cheat on her.. because that'd be bad and you dont want that name cuz noone wants to be a cheater or a player neither is good so you just might have to break it down a bit like let her down easy.. and slowly at that.. because if someone is in love with someone then that can be a real tuffy so just ler her down slowly and easily and dont go out with that other girl right away.. because you could get a few people mad at you

Q: i just wanted to know how you get so prettty? i think your the prettiest girl ive ever seen and i have the biggest crush on you:-D
Well i would like to thank my mommy and my daddy for that one.. o ya and some of my friend today just for bringing me up :) thanks my lil secret admirer!

Q: alright. so there is this new kid at school. his name is JB. um....i've always had this little thing for him but lately its been growing and i think im really starting to like him. but i dont know how to tell him because we only have 1 class together and im not sure if he feels the same way. And the fact that we dont talk ALL the time makes it just a little more akward. so just a question...what would u do? just wait till something happens? wait till he askes you out? or just forget it?
thanks for you time!!

Well when in class speak to him and see if he has Internet that way you can talk to him on there and after talking for awhile you can ask him if he wants to hang out and then you can go to a movie but not alone right away but in a big group and of course to a funny movie and go from there and good luck!

Q: okai i lik this guy chris he dosend know i lik him but he kinda flirts with me n there is only 4 ppl in my is n hes really funny n i think he likes me but how do i tell should i b lik i lik you but if i do n he says no id b lik so shy in islik what should i do??
why dont u just do the famous old fashioned thing.. have a friend ask him and see what he says but have your friend ask for a couple girls that way its not so obvious

Q: Okay so i have this friend and he is a year younger than me and is going to call me in about an hour and hes gunna ask me out and i dont wanna go out with him. any ideas that i could use to say no but to not hurt his feelings?
im 13 and hes 12
say you dont wanna jinx the relationship

Q: OMG! i dont knoe why..but my teeth are yellow!! i brush 3 times a day..and i dont smoke!!..whats wrong?!
no idea.. just the crest white strips

Q: I lost the love of my life because he faught somtimes, but the real issue is- my parents won't let him be around me- i can't even talk to him!.... what do i do? He loves me so much and i love him too, we want to be together but my parents won't let us..?! help me please
go behind your parensts backs and say your just friends-SIMPLE

Q: Yeah im 14 1/2 and I have had sweaty armpits for about 2 1/2 years now , and it still hasnt gotten any better! I have used almost every deoderant and anti-perspirant. i have also tried prescripted stuff. My mom thinks i sweat when im nervous. But that would mean i would be nervous everyday. I just got my period a couple of days ago too. Please Help Me!

Thanks,
go to the dr.

Q: Im 14 and about a year ago i started noticing wierd bumps on my thighs and the backs of my arms. The bumps are kinda like pimples they have white dots in them. Even if i dont shave they dont go away. Please Help Me!

im betting just dry skin

Q: ok i have a boyfriend that i am in love with but when he is around his friends he acts like we are not even going out. i love him and i know he feels the same way and i dont want to break up so what can i do?
Just talk to him my boyfriend isnt as luvvy duvvy when around his friends but he doesnt completely ignore me either but he is hanging with his friends and being a guy and thats how all guys are so you gotta except that

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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